I used to be a chef in an award winning restaurant (lauded by Jay Raynor) I always thought that it was disgusting how the employment laws of this land didn't seem to apply to restaurants. Think owner calling the front of house staff cunts daily, making them cry, drug taking, and general male dominance. I was the only female chef at the time and took no shit, but still put up with a lot. Its a bloody hard job, physically and you constantly have to prove yourself 'as good as the men'. I was always told that I should know 'how it works in a kitchen' Staff left on a weekly basis, and still the male owner and male head chef acted like arseholes. Some stayed out of misplaced loyalty. We used to joke that it was like Stockholm syndrome. I imagine that the only other industry is the TV industry.
Can you imagine working for, say, Tesco and have your male manager make you work a 17 hour shift, spit in your face, call you a cunt then get pissed out of his mind, snort coke, pass out in the toilet, then expect the female staff to clean up his puke and carry on as normal / cover for him? It just wouldn't happen (or I'd like to think not)
It's horrendous when you think about it how Gordon Ramsay made a career out of basically being a nasty bastard. I was on Masterchef in the early 2000's and he was the celebrity chef on the programme after mine. I remember saying to the producer that I was pleased I swerved him. She assured me he was actually really lovely in real life. Well, he's either really nice with a nasty TV persona, or he's an arsehole. Either way, he shouldn't be applauded, really.
I hated Wallace and Torode from day one of both of them appearing on TV. So pleased they have been cancelled. I have met a lot of celebrity chefs. Most are genuinely awful. It's also quite telling that Ramsay despises Jamie Oliver for some reason, who I've met a number of times and seems decent. James Martin is another who is nice on the surface, but is actually an insufferable prick with a huge ego.
Ultimately, it comes down to that. A (usually male) ego that is fed by the limelight and enabled by those around them. TV is always going to draw them in to feed their ego. It's time they were stopped from being enabled in their quest.