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Would you ask or just let it go?

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Lidre · 10/12/2025 00:22

I have/had a friend. We were never particularly close, but we had friends in common and were often on the same nights out, part of the same sports club. I thought we got on OK in a polite kind of way, but she's younger than me, different lifestages and we didn't have much in common. Which is all fine.

I first realised she's unfriended me on FB. I didn't think much of that, maybe wondered why, but were not close, maybe she was just having a tidy up.

Now it's become apparent she's posting a lot on the sport club group and I can't see her posts, so, she's blocked me?

I've absolutely no idea what I've done to upset her. Usually, when you upset someone, you know what it was about, even if you think they've over reacted. This time, not a clue. I've only ever had completely neutral thoughts about her and afaik, have always been friendly and polite. I've definitely never spoken behind her back, I'd have nothing to say. I can't think of anything, so assume it's some sort of misunderstanding. Would you you leave it be, or try and find out so you can resolve it?

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Lidre · 10/12/2025 00:24

I should also say I'm not very active on FB, use it mostly so I know what's going on at the club, so I'd be very surprised it it's something I've posted that's upset her.

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IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 10/12/2025 00:25

I would just leave it. She obviously has her reasons but I just wouldn’t care enough to know them.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 10/12/2025 00:27

I’d leave it

Lidre · 10/12/2025 00:28

I know but I don't like to think she's been hurt by something (she thinks) I've done.

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 10/12/2025 00:30

Just might just not like you for some random reason, maybe you have a super annoying laugh or something and she’s decided to unfriend you. You aren’t close so it doesn’t really matter.

Lidre · 10/12/2025 00:33

ToKittyornottoKitty · 10/12/2025 00:30

Just might just not like you for some random reason, maybe you have a super annoying laugh or something and she’s decided to unfriend you. You aren’t close so it doesn’t really matter.

She hasn't just unfriended me though. It looks like both her and her BF have blocked me, so I can't see things they're discussing in the club group. BF is the most easy going man you've ever met. It's a mystery. Afaik no one's ever blocked me before 🤣

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