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Social housing on new build estates

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pangeapanda · 05/12/2025 13:03

I’m absolutely not looking for a bun fight on council housing tenants, we’re classed as living in affordable housing (shared ownership).

We live on a new build estate, it’s a mix of outright owned/mortgaged, shared ownership & social housing. From what I understand, a certain percentage of new homes have to be allocated for affordable housing or council housing. I imagine they’re moving away from building entirely socially housed ‘council estates’ now?

Half of the estate is houses, a line of part owned properties then quite a few blocks of social housing apartments. I guess my question is, why do they segregate the council tenants from the home owners? I thought they’d be more likely to pepper them throughout the estate now to avoid pockets of antisocial behaviour.

There’s a clear divide between the estate and one side is noticeably less nice. At the same time, some of the houses sell for nearly 500k so people might be apprehensive, rightly or wrongly, about buying where there may be a lot of turnover or perceived antisocial behaviour.

Is there a reason they lump all the affordable housing together then? And should it be considered a good thing?

OP posts:
roseymoira · 05/12/2025 14:05

You’ve answered your own question - antisocial behaviour. Why should it be peppered throughout everywhere? When people work hard to buy their homes they want quiet enjoyment of them. It would be much better to condense the antisocial behaviour together so they only bother each other.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/12/2025 14:05

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:01

Is this all you can afford though?

Shared ownership is a wonderful tenure and often full of hardworking low earners who are ambitious and upwardly mobile.

but many homeowners are just as freaked out at the idea of living next to shared owners as OP is living next to social housing rented. We all need someone to hate, just depends who is below us in the pecking order doesn’t it?

SameOldHill · 05/12/2025 14:06

Gosh, reading others’ experiences I feel really lucky that my SH block is so peaceful. People are generally friendly and are good neighbours.

Touch wood it lasts!

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Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:07

roseymoira · 05/12/2025 14:05

You’ve answered your own question - antisocial behaviour. Why should it be peppered throughout everywhere? When people work hard to buy their homes they want quiet enjoyment of them. It would be much better to condense the antisocial behaviour together so they only bother each other.

I think it's crazy to move into, say, East London, and want tranquility in an area with extreme deprivation. To the point that you want the locals to be put into little corners of the area where you can't see them.

oneinataxioneinacar · 05/12/2025 14:07

Always worth remembering you can get appallingly badly behaved wealthy people too.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/12/2025 14:08

SameOldHill · 05/12/2025 14:06

Gosh, reading others’ experiences I feel really lucky that my SH block is so peaceful. People are generally friendly and are good neighbours.

Touch wood it lasts!

Most are 😁

Toddlerteaplease · 05/12/2025 14:09

My parents live on a new build estate. We have absolutely no idea which are the social housing properties and which aren’t!

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:09

Bambamhoohoo · 05/12/2025 14:05

Shared ownership is a wonderful tenure and often full of hardworking low earners who are ambitious and upwardly mobile.

but many homeowners are just as freaked out at the idea of living next to shared owners as OP is living next to social housing rented. We all need someone to hate, just depends who is below us in the pecking order doesn’t it?

I just think that some people need to be realistic about where they are in the world. You're in a flat in the inner city among the poor because you don't have detached house in Hampstead money.

SameOldHill · 05/12/2025 14:09

roseymoira · 05/12/2025 14:05

You’ve answered your own question - antisocial behaviour. Why should it be peppered throughout everywhere? When people work hard to buy their homes they want quiet enjoyment of them. It would be much better to condense the antisocial behaviour together so they only bother each other.

But the peaceful law-abiding people in SH don’t deserve to be bothered either.

oneinataxioneinacar · 05/12/2025 14:09

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:07

I think it's crazy to move into, say, East London, and want tranquility in an area with extreme deprivation. To the point that you want the locals to be put into little corners of the area where you can't see them.

Round here social housing is being built out in developments in the suburbs /urban edge and bringing with it problems we didn't have before - knife crime, drug crime, assaults.

People buying in the new estates thought they were buying somewhere pleasant

pangeapanda · 05/12/2025 14:10

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:01

Is this all you can afford though?

For the moment, yes

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IAmKerplunk · 05/12/2025 14:10

Bambamhoohoo · 05/12/2025 14:05

Shared ownership is a wonderful tenure and often full of hardworking low earners who are ambitious and upwardly mobile.

but many homeowners are just as freaked out at the idea of living next to shared owners as OP is living next to social housing rented. We all need someone to hate, just depends who is below us in the pecking order doesn’t it?

Never a truer word spoken

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:10

oneinataxioneinacar · 05/12/2025 14:09

Round here social housing is being built out in developments in the suburbs /urban edge and bringing with it problems we didn't have before - knife crime, drug crime, assaults.

People buying in the new estates thought they were buying somewhere pleasant

Those problems always existed.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/12/2025 14:11

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:09

I just think that some people need to be realistic about where they are in the world. You're in a flat in the inner city among the poor because you don't have detached house in Hampstead money.

As ever, the worst snobs are the ones very close to being in social housing themselves, or often those who escaped it having grown up in it. As you say, imagine someone buying a flat in a desirable area having the luxury of rejecting it because they don’t like their neighbours 😭

if you’re having loads of problems in the social housing part of your estate you probably generally live in a bit of a tasty area anyway.

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:11

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TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango123 · 05/12/2025 14:12

I have worked in a community based role for over 30 years inside a large city, travelling all over the city and visiting people in their homes. I have seen estates go through total demolition and redevelopment for SH. Lets not kid ourselves that many SH tenants are a total nightmare. These estates looked lovely when they were first built especially compared to the high rises they replaced, modern, fit for purpose and clean. Now years later so many of them are run down shit holes - anti social behaviour, rubbish dumped anywhere, fly tipping, over grown gardens, drug and alcohol problems - this is down to some of the tenants. Not a prayer would I pay good money to live in one of them. We all know these SH tenants exist, yes there are are many assholes who own their own houses but there are far far more SH tenants that are a nightmare for good honest folk to have to live side by side with. It is a shame for the lovely SH tenants who have no choice but to put up with it, no a prayer would I part with a penny to risk living near the bad ones.

Rusalina · 05/12/2025 14:12

DoNotDisturb67 · 05/12/2025 13:40

When we owned our new-build home, the development included social-housing properties just across a small footpath from us. I can’t even describe how much antisocial behaviour we, and our neighbours, had to put up with. It came from adults and, unfortunately, from their children as well.

We had constant late-night shouting, full-on arguments, and domestic incidents that would spill out into the street. The kids would knock on people’s windows at all hours, and any attempt to say something was met with verbal insults.

The fronts of those houses were regularly in a terrible state too; mattresses, broken furniture, and all sorts of rubbish left out in the carport area.

Our road was a circular layout around a small central park, and our home was right in the middle. The social-housing properties were on our left and fully privately owned homes on our right and, unfortunately, all the issues were always coming from the left side. It was incredibly frustrating when all we wanted was to enjoy the home we had worked hard to buy. Never again house next to social housing….

I’m really sorry to say that I’m having a similar nightmare unfolding. I bought a new build over the road from the social housing area. I grew up in a council house, as did my parents before me. Everyone I know told me I was a fool to buy this house, I confidently and self-righteously told them they were snobs. Well, after nearly a year of living in a peaceful estate, the social housing neighbours have moved in and I just want to cry every day. The vile smell of weed, the noise, the rubbish. I feel like such a mug. I’m sure there are decent people in there as well as the low lives - as I say, I grew up on a council estate and we are decent folk as were all my neighbours. But it seems times have changed, and the awful ones are bad enough to spoil it for everyone.

This is in rural England btw, not some inner city area. I really didn’t think it would be this bad. I will be selling as soon as is feasible.

MissyMooPoo2 · 05/12/2025 14:13

Buscobel · 05/12/2025 14:00

Sometimes they single themselves out because I the appearance of their properties. There are some houses near us where the residents have just left their properties without maintenance. The front gardens are overgrown and neglected and bins and rubbish strewn around.

It’s only a few, but it’s disappointing that they aren’t taking care of their homes. Neighbours get fed up when their neighbours can’t be bothered .

This is my experience as a shared owner. There are 5 outright social properties on our development and this minority manage to ruin the space for everyone... children stealing post, breaking into gardens, broken down vehicles, inconsiderate parking, littering, harrassment of pets...it's such a shame.

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:14

TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango123 · 05/12/2025 14:12

I have worked in a community based role for over 30 years inside a large city, travelling all over the city and visiting people in their homes. I have seen estates go through total demolition and redevelopment for SH. Lets not kid ourselves that many SH tenants are a total nightmare. These estates looked lovely when they were first built especially compared to the high rises they replaced, modern, fit for purpose and clean. Now years later so many of them are run down shit holes - anti social behaviour, rubbish dumped anywhere, fly tipping, over grown gardens, drug and alcohol problems - this is down to some of the tenants. Not a prayer would I pay good money to live in one of them. We all know these SH tenants exist, yes there are are many assholes who own their own houses but there are far far more SH tenants that are a nightmare for good honest folk to have to live side by side with. It is a shame for the lovely SH tenants who have no choice but to put up with it, no a prayer would I part with a penny to risk living near the bad ones.

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Those good, honest folks don't have enough money not to live there though. And they probably arent even local.

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:15

Rusalina · 05/12/2025 14:12

I’m really sorry to say that I’m having a similar nightmare unfolding. I bought a new build over the road from the social housing area. I grew up in a council house, as did my parents before me. Everyone I know told me I was a fool to buy this house, I confidently and self-righteously told them they were snobs. Well, after nearly a year of living in a peaceful estate, the social housing neighbours have moved in and I just want to cry every day. The vile smell of weed, the noise, the rubbish. I feel like such a mug. I’m sure there are decent people in there as well as the low lives - as I say, I grew up on a council estate and we are decent folk as were all my neighbours. But it seems times have changed, and the awful ones are bad enough to spoil it for everyone.

This is in rural England btw, not some inner city area. I really didn’t think it would be this bad. I will be selling as soon as is feasible.

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You know some of those people living in those rural SH houses are.people.from.inner cities who jave been forced into homes far away from.where they were raised.

TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango123 · 05/12/2025 14:15

Those good, honest folks don't have enough money not to live there though. And they probably arent even local.

Totally agree and what a bloody shame for them.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/12/2025 14:15

TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango123 · 05/12/2025 14:12

I have worked in a community based role for over 30 years inside a large city, travelling all over the city and visiting people in their homes. I have seen estates go through total demolition and redevelopment for SH. Lets not kid ourselves that many SH tenants are a total nightmare. These estates looked lovely when they were first built especially compared to the high rises they replaced, modern, fit for purpose and clean. Now years later so many of them are run down shit holes - anti social behaviour, rubbish dumped anywhere, fly tipping, over grown gardens, drug and alcohol problems - this is down to some of the tenants. Not a prayer would I pay good money to live in one of them. We all know these SH tenants exist, yes there are are many assholes who own their own houses but there are far far more SH tenants that are a nightmare for good honest folk to have to live side by side with. It is a shame for the lovely SH tenants who have no choice but to put up with it, no a prayer would I part with a penny to risk living near the bad ones.

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“I have seen estates go through total demolition and redevelopment for SH”

they would’ve already been social housing- no social housing provider can buy a private estate, bulldoze it and replace with SH 😂

regeneration is fantastic- but it’s replacing end of life social housing with new and modern social housing, not replacing private homes with SH.

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:16

TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango123 · 05/12/2025 14:15

Those good, honest folks don't have enough money not to live there though. And they probably arent even local.

Totally agree and what a bloody shame for them.

Edited

Not a shame. Just the reality of their position. Champagne taste and lemonade money.

oneinataxioneinacar · 05/12/2025 14:17

Squishedpassenger · 05/12/2025 14:10

Those problems always existed.

Not in our area. I have lived here 20 years and the change in the last 3 is palpable

IAmKerplunk · 05/12/2025 14:17

I live in SH. At the end of my road is a house that sold for £650k - front garden is a tip, fence fallen in, smell of weed from their garden (their back garden is literally 3 away from mine) They shout at people standing outside their house at the bus stop. Who do I complain to about these entitled people with a mortgage ruining the nice calm feel of the roads for the rest of us who live in SH?

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