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Low level annoying ds9

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Jinglejinglejingle7 · 04/12/2025 21:08

My ds9 has been unhappy at school. Long story but group of friends split up as 2 butted heads- both parents says other was bullying. 1 left school. Other stayed- he is a TA s child. Now this child is upsetting mine- low level stuff, not really bullying i suppose but little things. Latest is looking through ds test and pointing out the 'easy' things he got wrong- not in a nice way. I want it to stop but its really low level-tripping ds up etc, would i be silly to talk to teacher or his mum?

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Sillysoggyspaniel · 04/12/2025 21:11

Definitely talk to the teacher, don't talk to his mum.

Jinglejinglejingle7 · 04/12/2025 21:20

@Sillysoggyspaniel thanks for the reply, I think ill try to speak to her tomorrow- wasnt sure if I should step in or not & with who- i do know his mum quite well.

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ItsmeMargo · 04/12/2025 21:25

If your son is upset, I would step in right now. Don’t leave it. Could be a pattern emerging, and the school need to be aware. I’m not sure how aware kids of 9 yrs are, but the TA’s DS might be feeling bulletproof because of his mother‘s position in the school.

Stick up for your child. School can be a difficult time if you’re not enjoying it.

Pryceosh1987 · 05/12/2025 00:31

Talk to the childs mother. if this doesnt work the teacher needs to know.

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