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What random nugget of information were you completely unaware of before you discovered mumsnet?

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777holyandsinless · 27/11/2025 20:12

I’ll start

it being a commonly held idea that itv is uncouth and bbc is the classy alternative

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Gottabeehonest · 28/11/2025 00:06

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 27/11/2025 23:59

Because your laundry will dry faster.

Mine won't. The separate rinse & spin option only runs at 1200rpm. The final spin at the end of the cycle is 1600rpm. I can't see the point in allowing the washing to spin at 1600, wetting it again, and then spinning at 1200; they'd be wetter than before and therefore take longer to dry.

Unless you are confusing the suggestion of doing an extra rinse & spin with simply doing another spin only at the highest speed available. I've heard of people doing that, usually when their chosen wash cycle spins at less than what the machine is capable of doing.

RelativePitch · 28/11/2025 00:14

Ditch the shower gels and use old fashioned bars of soap if there are stinky perimenopausal and puberty armpits in the household.

Umy15r03lcha1 · 28/11/2025 00:34

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 27/11/2025 20:19

That some people don't use a loo brush.

Oh and the baffling obsession with class.

I know someone who doesn't use a loo brush but don't know them well enough to ask how they clean the toilet without one.

Can anyone enlighten me?

Gottabeehonest · 28/11/2025 00:39

Umy15r03lcha1 · 28/11/2025 00:34

I know someone who doesn't use a loo brush but don't know them well enough to ask how they clean the toilet without one.

Can anyone enlighten me?

Well, I will use a cloth & a pair of rubber gloves when I'm cleaning the bathroom, but even then I need the brush to shove out the water below the line, so as to avoid tidemarks, so no, I don't know how they manage without one. I also scrub the toilet bowl with the brush at least once a day.

"But they're full of germs!", people say. I don't know how, not when used with bleach and all that scrubbing action to boot. But even if they are, I'm not known for taking the brush & cleaning my cups and plates with it, it simply goes down the bog and back in the pot. And even if bacteria does survive, it can't jump off the brush and run round the house - bacteria can't move; WE are the ones that move it.

OriginalUsername2 · 28/11/2025 00:40

That using bleach is immoral

OSTMusTisNT · 28/11/2025 00:40

I had no idea that newborn babies were to be locked up at home for 3 months to allow for bonding and no one, especially paternal Granny on her broomstick should be allowed to visit.

24 hours after DS was born, pretty much our whole family had visited, had a cuddle, shared their holding the baby photo, got bored and left me in peace!

OSTMusTisNT · 28/11/2025 00:44

Umy15r03lcha1 · 28/11/2025 00:34

I know someone who doesn't use a loo brush but don't know them well enough to ask how they clean the toilet without one.

Can anyone enlighten me?

I don't have a bog brush, gives me the boak but I do have a Toilet cleaner claw thing (think community service litter picker style) that you use flushable cleaning pads with. Think it's the same brand as Toilet Duck.

VoltaireMittyDream · 28/11/2025 00:48

Palourdes · 27/11/2025 22:22

Besides opposite-sex friendships being impossible, and my male friends all apparently playing a decades-long waiting game to infiltrate my knickers, and how many people confuse ‘introversion’ with ‘misanthropy”, honestly, it’s more often how cheerfully underinformed some people are.

I can think of nothing less sexy than having my knickers infiltrated. 🤣

tartyflette · 28/11/2025 00:50

Salvadoridory · 27/11/2025 20:36

Hairdryer on a mosquito bite.

On the hot setting or cool?
Seems counterintuitive if hot....

OSTMusTisNT · 28/11/2025 00:54

Gottabeehonest · 27/11/2025 23:34

Oh I thought that was a very well known phenomenon 😀

I was once explaining to someone why some people will never, ever shop at Argos, on account of the fact it had a catalogue, and that catalogues were historically associated with paying weekly for purchases that one might otherwise have not been able to afford...granted that Argos was never that type of retailer, though it was developed on the back of the Greenshield stamp system after the success of Greenshield began to falter in the early 1970s.

Anyway, said person did not grasp a word of what I was saying, until I said "it's the same as people who would only watch BBC and not commercial television". Now that hit home - his late grandfather (a former headmaster) had once banned the viewing of ITV in his house, apparently.

OMG I never knew that about Argos. Totally explains why my MIL had a tantrum when she needed new curtains and I mentioned buying some nice ones in the Argos sale and she went nuts shouting "I'm not buying filthy old rags" god knows what she must have thought of my house 🤣.

Gottabeehonest · 28/11/2025 01:00

OSTMusTisNT · 28/11/2025 00:54

OMG I never knew that about Argos. Totally explains why my MIL had a tantrum when she needed new curtains and I mentioned buying some nice ones in the Argos sale and she went nuts shouting "I'm not buying filthy old rags" god knows what she must have thought of my house 🤣.

I had a friend, past-tense. A friend no more. We had a lot of common ground, hence the friendship. We also had a lot less in common, hence the friendship eventually ending. He neither watched ITV nor shopped at Argos, though he was far from the first person I'd met who refused to do either.

It still tickles me, as his attitude to both ITV and Argos was consistent with his attitude to a great many other things too...he was one of the first people I met who'd only ever shop in John Lewis given half the chance, and yet could never articulate the reason for doing so.

Willweeverfindout · 28/11/2025 01:03

That, if you did any form of sleep training (personally I let mine cry it out in the modern age of 2018) you’ve irreparably failed your emotional children. Mine are fine. They cried. They slept. Hate me

SouthernNights59 · 28/11/2025 01:21

NuffSaidSam · 27/11/2025 22:25

But given that you've never discussed it, you understand that some people you know might eat Weetabix with warm milk...you've just never asked which is fair. I'm talking about people who are flabbergasted to the point of disbelief that it could possibly be true.

One of my favourite ones was "I've never met ANYONE with a tattoo"! I mean, come on! How would you even know! Surely you don't ask everyone you meet. You have to assume that someone you've encountered across your lifetime might have a tattoo.

I think potentially I might have quite boring friends because we probably would discuss breakfast choices. I know people who have Weetabix with water (absolutely horrendous) and dry with butter on! They walk among us!

I have Weetbix (that's what it's called here) with water, and dry with nothing on it! I can't stand milk so Weetbix with milk sounds horrendous to me.

Off to have a dry Weetbix for afternoon tea Grin

Littlejellyuk · 28/11/2025 01:25

I never heard of the following before joining mumsnet:

  1. Leave the bastard (LTB) 👋
  2. The script (cheaters play-book etc) 😔
  3. Grey rock someone 🤔
  4. A penis cage 🍆

And lastly, you can microwave a swede apparently, although I'm yet to try it. 🤷‍♀️

CookingFatCat · 28/11/2025 03:24

HansHolbein · 27/11/2025 20:52

Once the washing machine cycle has finished, do a rinse and spin!

Why,🙄 I’m thinking waste of electricity and water?

Crushed23 · 28/11/2025 03:50

That people let the ‘stress of airports’ put them off exploring the world. I’ve literally never come across anyone who thinks like that in my 36 years.

LostittoBostik · 28/11/2025 04:07

Springflowersyay · 27/11/2025 22:21

That you have a few fertile days a month and it’s actually not that likely to get pregnant outside the ovulation window.
From a teenager I was always under the impression any unprotected sex was equally likely to result in pregnancy and as I never wanted children, I never looked further into it. I was very late 30’s when I learned there’s a window of time each month where pregnancy is possible! 🫣

Until I was TTC I had absolutely no idea about this either

Lastfroginthebox · 28/11/2025 04:10

I've been quite shocked to realise how many people are on massive salaries. I never realised just how poor I was before coming on here.

Lastfroginthebox · 28/11/2025 04:13

YouMightLikeCats · 27/11/2025 20:31

Never works for me. I'm probably cack-handed though!

Works for me about 60% of the time. When it doesn't, it can be very messy!

Volpini · 28/11/2025 04:33

I hold this view but always thought I was sthe only one to feel this way…! I didn’t inwi it was a thing!

Lastfroginthebox · 28/11/2025 04:35

I've learned that just about everything is a symptom of perimenopause, or that perimenopause is an excuse for anything.

Beekman · 28/11/2025 04:44

That if condoms are found in a male partner’s possession, a “posh wank” needs to be ruled out before accusing said partner of anything untoward.

Until MN, I always thought a posh wank was something invented by cheating men when their partner’s found their Durex and I still think it is

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 28/11/2025 04:46

Umy15r03lcha1 · 28/11/2025 00:34

I know someone who doesn't use a loo brush but don't know them well enough to ask how they clean the toilet without one.

Can anyone enlighten me?

I use bleach.

I do have a loo brush in the shed in case I need to do a big de limescale.

TwinklyNight · 28/11/2025 04:46

I learned corn & vinegar are good with tuna.

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 28/11/2025 04:50

Gottabeehonest · 28/11/2025 00:06

Mine won't. The separate rinse & spin option only runs at 1200rpm. The final spin at the end of the cycle is 1600rpm. I can't see the point in allowing the washing to spin at 1600, wetting it again, and then spinning at 1200; they'd be wetter than before and therefore take longer to dry.

Unless you are confusing the suggestion of doing an extra rinse & spin with simply doing another spin only at the highest speed available. I've heard of people doing that, usually when their chosen wash cycle spins at less than what the machine is capable of doing.

Yes I am thinking drain and spin, which I suspect the person who suggested it meant.