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How do we know the extra welfare payments for multiple children will be spent on the children .

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hattie43 · 27/11/2025 07:16

A genuine question really . I don’t begrudge the children and I’ll save my irk for the parents but how do we know the extra money will be used to support the children in the right way giving them a better start and turning them into these honerable citizens. It worries me that the kids with feckless parents are going to be given much more money but the parents spend it on themselves not the kids . Just because these parents have more money doesn’t mean they’ll use it responsibly or change the attitudes they may pass down .

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CurlewKate · 29/11/2025 09:29

HeatonGrov · 29/11/2025 08:05

That is true. Even parents who have their children removed by social services usually love their children and want the best for them. Unfortunately many are unable to deliver on this.

Particularly if they don’t have enough money.

CurlewKate · 29/11/2025 09:33

Yep. Nothing makes people who are struggling feel more valued, trusted, included and members of society more than food vouchers.

1dayatatime · 29/11/2025 19:08

CurlewKate · 29/11/2025 09:33

Yep. Nothing makes people who are struggling feel more valued, trusted, included and members of society more than food vouchers.

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I don't really care how the parents feel- what I care about is the welfare of the children.

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Kirbert2 · 29/11/2025 19:17

1dayatatime · 29/11/2025 19:08

I don't really care how the parents feel- what I care about is the welfare of the children.

The majority of parents on benefits feed their children without the need for restricting their benefits to food vouchers.

The minority who don't aren't going to magically put their children first simply because it is food vouchers only. They would find a way as they always do such as selling the food vouchers.

sashh · 30/11/2025 04:44

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 08:57

@sashh there was a news story I read online yesterday and the free breakfast scheme that had a photo of some food and a group of the children (primary school).
The uniform was one of those ones that had a "kilt" style skirt etc. Clearly not a uniform that could be bought at the supermarket apart from probably the shirts.
It really pissed me off because if parents didn't have to be buying that uniform we (society) might not need schemes such as free breakfasts because parents would actually have the money to buy food - instead of a stupid skirt.

I'm not sure when we started primary children needing uniform. I went to three different primaries, each had a different demographic and no uniform.

@Judeyoubigtwat That's terrible, isn't uniform supposed to be a leveller? Then they bring in a policy that marks out the kids with wealthier parents.

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 12:13

1dayatatime · 29/11/2025 19:08

I don't really care how the parents feel- what I care about is the welfare of the children.

How parents feel is crucial to the welfare of children.

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