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Need a white witch to remove evil eye/spell!

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deesdeli · 26/11/2025 15:07

To summarise the last 5 years have been terrible for me - the list is too long to go into detail here, however it started when my last relationship ended. His mother once told me that she was a witch and sometimes used this to her advantage. I think she may have done something to me as the relationship did not end well (he cheated multiple times) - has anyone ever used/can recommend a witch to clear a spell or remove an evil eye??🙏

OP posts:
Fairywingsandroses · 26/11/2025 15:33

I don’t know anything about this sort of thing but I do know that when my ex’s boss thought an ex employee had done something similar, he went up to him and pointed a mirror at the man. The man went white and was terrified. I suppose he thought the evil was being directed back to him.
I personally don’t believe in any of it.

CanIinterestyouinasarcasticcomment · 26/11/2025 15:38

I can't help, but if you find someone who can, please send them my way.

I too feel as though I'm cursed, everything just seems to go tits up for me, I often think it's my own fault for buying a number 13 house, but I moved out of there a year ago, and life is still bloody awful.

lolly427 · 26/11/2025 16:13

OP men cheat all the time it has absolutely nothing to do with the evil eye, a lot of them are just shit. Also bad things happen a lot, again nothing to do with the evil eye or being cursed.

Imagine if people really could curse you or give someone the evil eye - Trump, Putin and pretty much any other president/prime minister would have been cursed a thousand times over!

If you want to clear bad energy then forget being ripped off by someone purporting to be a witch and burn some sage instead:

To Sage (a.k.a. Smudging) is a process where dried sage leaves are burned, and the smoke removes negative energy (cleansing and purifying the space or person). It's an ancient Native American technique that has become popular in other cultures.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 26/11/2025 16:19

lolly427 · 26/11/2025 16:13

OP men cheat all the time it has absolutely nothing to do with the evil eye, a lot of them are just shit. Also bad things happen a lot, again nothing to do with the evil eye or being cursed.

Imagine if people really could curse you or give someone the evil eye - Trump, Putin and pretty much any other president/prime minister would have been cursed a thousand times over!

If you want to clear bad energy then forget being ripped off by someone purporting to be a witch and burn some sage instead:

To Sage (a.k.a. Smudging) is a process where dried sage leaves are burned, and the smoke removes negative energy (cleansing and purifying the space or person). It's an ancient Native American technique that has become popular in other cultures.

More effective (and tastier) to make it into a roast chicken with Paxo. No cultural appropriation, no blaming magic for a shitty bloke being a shitty bloke (as if his Mum is going to be directing where he puts his dick) - and you get a decent dinner out of it.

ohyesido · 26/11/2025 16:25

Buy yourself a fire agate crystal, preferably an unpolished one. It diverts negative energy back to where it came from

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/11/2025 16:40

Limered · 26/11/2025 16:38

People who think they’re lucky are luckier. And vice versa. It’s basic manifestation. You’re perpetuating your bad luck by believing in this rubbish.

https://timdenning.com/why-people-get-lucky/

I used to think l was lucky and had lots of luck.

Now I’ve had severe long covid for 3 years.

Boomer55 · 26/11/2025 16:41

We all make our own luck in life, and learn to overcome the crap bits.

Northquit · 26/11/2025 16:46

You need some cymbal bells.
Walk round your home and garden dinging them.
You'll feel better.

LadyIrony · 26/11/2025 16:49

As a kitchen witch I second the above comment about sage and cooking! Look up herbs and spices that protect - and use them with intent. You don’t need to add extra for a spell, or buy special ones. Sage is good for protection, as is Rosemary and Thyme and they’re common ( and tasty) kitchen ingredients.

If you’re looking for an inexpensive crystal or similar to carry on you I recommend hematite - the mirror surface reflects negativity away from you. Just shove it out in a rainstorm, and let it get the morning sun to clean and recharge if you want it to keep working for you.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/11/2025 17:01

Boomer55 · 26/11/2025 16:41

We all make our own luck in life, and learn to overcome the crap bits.

That’s what l used to think. Then fate tips everything up.

Noshadelamp · 26/11/2025 17:04

@lolly427 @NeverDropYourMooncup smudging is not just Native American, we were doing in the UK where it's called "saining", the Celtic use of burning herbs for purification, cleansing, protection and spells or blessings.

Op smoke cleansing is a good place to start and something you can do yourself.
You can buy British smudge bundles on Etsy, or make them yourself with dried rosemary, thyme and lavender tied together with string or cotton thread.
Set your intention "I am removing any curse or bad luck or ill intention against me" or your own words.
Light the end of the herb bundle and blow it out, then with the smoke move it around over you and through your room and house. You can use a feather or your hand to waft it around.
Once you've finished open your windows and thank the universe for its help.

questionautism · 26/11/2025 17:04

Your ex sounds like a mummy’s boy who could do no wrong and she was gaslighting you so that you blame yourself with future relationship failures and don’t realise that you deserve better.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 26/11/2025 17:14

Noshadelamp · 26/11/2025 17:04

@lolly427 @NeverDropYourMooncup smudging is not just Native American, we were doing in the UK where it's called "saining", the Celtic use of burning herbs for purification, cleansing, protection and spells or blessings.

Op smoke cleansing is a good place to start and something you can do yourself.
You can buy British smudge bundles on Etsy, or make them yourself with dried rosemary, thyme and lavender tied together with string or cotton thread.
Set your intention "I am removing any curse or bad luck or ill intention against me" or your own words.
Light the end of the herb bundle and blow it out, then with the smoke move it around over you and through your room and house. You can use a feather or your hand to waft it around.
Once you've finished open your windows and thank the universe for its help.

It's all a waste of a perfectly good plant, regardless of the specific superstition origin story.

Limered · 26/11/2025 17:18

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/11/2025 16:40

I used to think l was lucky and had lots of luck.

Now I’ve had severe long covid for 3 years.

Edited

Well a positive mindset isn’t going to protect you against illness is it FFS!

Doesn’t mean what I said doesn’t stand. Sheesh….

deesdeli · 26/11/2025 18:28

Fairywingsandroses · 26/11/2025 15:33

I don’t know anything about this sort of thing but I do know that when my ex’s boss thought an ex employee had done something similar, he went up to him and pointed a mirror at the man. The man went white and was terrified. I suppose he thought the evil was being directed back to him.
I personally don’t believe in any of it.

@Fairywingsandroses Yes I have heard a mirror can do this. Some think this may all be rubbish but a friend of mine went through the same thing and her ex told her he had placed a curse on her and told her to find the book he had hidden in her house and burn it!

OP posts:
deesdeli · 26/11/2025 18:30

CanIinterestyouinasarcasticcomment · 26/11/2025 15:38

I can't help, but if you find someone who can, please send them my way.

I too feel as though I'm cursed, everything just seems to go tits up for me, I often think it's my own fault for buying a number 13 house, but I moved out of there a year ago, and life is still bloody awful.

@CanIinterestyouinasarcasticcomment I am so sorry to hear this. I will of course share as I would not want anyone to go through the same as I have! 🙏

OP posts:
deesdeli · 26/11/2025 18:32

lolly427 · 26/11/2025 16:13

OP men cheat all the time it has absolutely nothing to do with the evil eye, a lot of them are just shit. Also bad things happen a lot, again nothing to do with the evil eye or being cursed.

Imagine if people really could curse you or give someone the evil eye - Trump, Putin and pretty much any other president/prime minister would have been cursed a thousand times over!

If you want to clear bad energy then forget being ripped off by someone purporting to be a witch and burn some sage instead:

To Sage (a.k.a. Smudging) is a process where dried sage leaves are burned, and the smoke removes negative energy (cleansing and purifying the space or person). It's an ancient Native American technique that has become popular in other cultures.

@lolly427 it really isnt about the ex at all...I could not care less about him it is more about what has happened since...

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Giggorata · 26/11/2025 18:42

I think it’s far more effective if you do it yourself, using any of the methods suggested, saining, using mirrors or bright crystals to reflect bad shit away from you, burning white candles, salt and water, whatever.
The important thing is your intent and to concentrate your mind on removing it, seeing your troubles as a load of brown smoke going out of the window, or opening the door and visualising them as pile of leaves or rubbish whooshing out.
Saying the charm out loud is best, too.

BTW, there aren't any such things as white or black witches; we're just witches. 🧙‍♀️ 🙂

LeftFooter · 26/11/2025 22:49

I wouldn’t be trying to lift a curse using another witch personally. As a PP says there’s only one sort of witch!

There are prayers to lift curses. There’s one on the bottom of this web page:
thecatholicfaq.com/questions/What-if-someone-curses-you/

Pyjamatimenow · 26/11/2025 22:52

You could try saging

Bigearringsbigsmile · 26/11/2025 22:57

🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄

InLoveWithAI · 26/11/2025 22:58

I don't really believe in all this stuff.

I did some smoke cleasning with an end goal and what I wanted happened 🤷🏼‍♀️

RachelFanshawe · 26/11/2025 22:59

Wait - do people actually believe in this stuff? Like adult people?

Palourdes · 26/11/2025 23:03

RachelFanshawe · 26/11/2025 22:59

Wait - do people actually believe in this stuff? Like adult people?

Apparently.

OP, your ex’s mother didn’t hex you. You were just unfortunate enough to be in a relationship with someone who couldn’t keep it in his pants.