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Strange things that give you a kind of "ick" in everyday life

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CariahMary · 23/11/2025 16:39

I don't mean getting the "ick" about a sexual or romantic partner. And I don't mean being put-off by things that are actually pretty grim. I mean random things that you inexplicably find a bit off-putting in everyday life.

For me, I get a kind of "ick" when I read other people talking about food on forums MN I honestly had no idea why. It's so odd, I really like reading food descriptions in books but in forums I find it really off-putting.

In the real-world, I also really hate opening other people's fridges. They always smell weird (different from my own). I have to hold my breath.

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EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 23/11/2025 18:59

Copper Coins, also agree with the poster that said raw tomatoes

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 23/11/2025 19:03

PrayForMyBum · 23/11/2025 18:20

Dogs. Yes, all of them and no, yours isn’t cute.
Men wearing chain necklaces 🤢🤢🤢

+1

mateusrose678 · 23/11/2025 19:03

Salad on the same plate as hot food.

PGmicstand · 23/11/2025 19:04

Socks with sliders in public. In your own home is fine, but out and about on the streets, just thinking of all the dirt that'll get all over your socks.
People with no manners - but that's more a cause of infuriation rather than an ick.
Brown shoes with grey trousers
Track suit trousers at 'half mast' with the persons arse hanging out
Putting on make up in public
People actually saying that food is "yummy"
People calling an electric train a "choo choo" usually when talking to children - also referring to a dog as a "doggy" or to geese as "ducks".

Timeforbubu · 23/11/2025 19:06

The word 'supper'.

'Gifting' as a verb. No!!! Why is this recently a thing??!

The sound of handdryers in public bathrooms. So unnecessarily loud.

People who wear so much perfume, or bad perfume, that you can smell it once they've walked away.

Hair extensions.

Men with hairpieces.

GordonRamsey · 23/11/2025 19:06

StBank · 23/11/2025 16:55

People eating breakfast on the morning train commute or in the office. Particularly crossaints (messy) or porridge. It’s completely unreasonable (me, not them), but I find it really gross. I do not have the same reaction with lunch. I think it’s something to do with seeing a grown up using a spoon. Like I saw, completely unreasonable Blush

Eating croissants does not need to be messy.

If you do I do, I put one pointy end in my mouth and force the rest in with a (preferably silver) soup spoon.

For porridge one should, of course, use a large calibre funnel.

Lastfroginthebox · 23/11/2025 19:08

BauhausOfEliott · 23/11/2025 18:18

People eating lunches at work that they’ve brought in from home

Babies/toddlers with food on their faces

Chewing gum in any context whatsoever. It looks gross, sounds gross and absolutely fucking stinks

People who say they ‘devour’ books or read ‘voraciously’

People describing food as ‘yummy’

Seeing people apply hand cream

Any form of contact with other people’s hair, especially if it’s frizzy

Weak handshakes

People who push their food around the plate before taking a bite

People being scared of pigeons

The term ‘cosplay’

Tomato juice

Hairdressers who handle your hair in a feeble way

Shop assistants in clothes shops who fold things in that sort of limp, listless manner

The Headspace app

The funeral director who kept referring to my dad’s ashes by my dad’s name, eg “And then we’ll contact you to let you know when John is here for you to collect” or “You might wish to scatter John in the garden of remembrance”

The word ‘play’ as a noun (unless referring to a theatrical performance), eg ‘Imaginative play is important for children’

HCPs saying ‘baby’ instead of ‘the baby’ or ‘your baby’, as in ‘When baby needs to feed,’ or ‘We’ll just need to check baby’s heart’

Referring to all technology and tech-related activities as ‘screens’ or worse ‘screen’, eg “How much screen should I allow”

Soup in mugs

Soup in tins

People being enthusiastic about soup

Morrison’s

Strangers’ feet in socks (ironically my first job was in a shoe shop)

The word ‘juices’

I agree with lots of those! Not all of them though (are you in a constant state of ick?) Loved the one about hairdressers handling your hair in a feeble way. I dislike being stroked in a feeble way too.

Funnywonder · 23/11/2025 19:10

Carveries and buffets. Particularly the latter.

UnderThePressure · 23/11/2025 19:10

I have a weird aversion to watching people sprinkle things with their fingers, like sprinkling seeds onto porridge or grated cheese onto a lasagne. It's the shape of the hand and the motion of the fingers, gives me the shudders. Weird I know!

Unhappyitis · 23/11/2025 19:12

StBank · 23/11/2025 16:55

People eating breakfast on the morning train commute or in the office. Particularly crossaints (messy) or porridge. It’s completely unreasonable (me, not them), but I find it really gross. I do not have the same reaction with lunch. I think it’s something to do with seeing a grown up using a spoon. Like I saw, completely unreasonable Blush

What's wrong with using a spoon? 🤣🤣🤣

How do you eat soup or cereal haha!

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 23/11/2025 19:14

I don’t like David Attenborough documentaries

ItsInTheSingingOfAStreetCornerChoir · 23/11/2025 19:14

FreeTheOakTree · 23/11/2025 18:05

If I am in a queue or public space and someone close to me has dirty hair. The sight of greasy, unwashed hair makes me queasy.

Feeling water inside rubber gloves when wearing them give me the ick and irrational rage.

Pulling hair out of the plughole/drain, even knowing it's our hair, is revolting

I was on a bus once and the woman in front had really greasy hair and nits so big you could see them.

ComedyGuns · 23/11/2025 19:14

MaitreKarlsson · 23/11/2025 16:46

Going into the toilet straight after a stranger (eg at theatre)..
Men wearing flip flops. Ick. Always feel a bit ill.

Yes - men in flip-flops!!

Why, I don’t know, but it makes me think something is very wrong in their lives!! Total ick.

Unhappyitis · 23/11/2025 19:14

I hate seeing giant windmills.

There is a word for it called megalophobia.

There is a huge one near the motorway and I didn't know it was there and I was literally shaking and nearly crying with it near. I had to put my sun visor to the right of my driver window.

I know it's absolutely batshit and just strange. But they give me a fear!

saywhatdidhesay · 23/11/2025 19:16

Chicken and eggs as part of the same meal.

LostittoBostik · 23/11/2025 19:18

pinkspectacleframes · 23/11/2025 17:19

Public swimming pools! Everything about them 🤢

Yes! I love swimming but once paid an absolutely extortionate amount to be a member of a posh Virgin active so I had access to a lovely pool with gorgeous changing rooms. I cannot handle the gross council ones and hate doing my children’s swimming lessons

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 23/11/2025 19:18

saywhatdidhesay · 23/11/2025 19:16

Chicken and eggs as part of the same meal.

What about Chicken Foo Yung?

wantom · 23/11/2025 19:20

PuppyMonkey · 23/11/2025 17:13

Tomatoes and their seeds make me shudder. Can’t chop tomatoes myself, have to have them from a tin if using in cooking. Can’t stand the taste of raw tomatoes either, but I’m fine if they’re cooked. Confused

I am exactly the same. The whole raw tomato thing makes me want to heave. I mean who wants to touch or eat rubbery red skin, seeds, and juice. Come on!

Cornflakegirl7 · 23/11/2025 19:22

Cream Cleanser type stuff used in bathrooms.

A man I know who instead of 'I am going to have a bath/shower' will say ' I am going to get cleaned up'. Makes me feel sick, for some reason?

Cornflakegirl7 · 23/11/2025 19:23

Quite possibly not an 'ick' but I don't like walking into a restaurant and seeing people reading menus.

saywhatdidhesay · 23/11/2025 19:26

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 23/11/2025 19:18

What about Chicken Foo Yung?

I just can’t enjoy it - there is something that puts me off eating the chicken and seeing the egg, knowing that the egg came from a chicken. I know it sounds strange, but in the spirit of the original question it gets me every time!

SelfRaisingFlour · 23/11/2025 19:27

pambeesleyhalpert · 23/11/2025 18:41

Men having long fingernails. Absolutely grim

Me too.

Unforgettablefire · 23/11/2025 19:27

spicycats · 23/11/2025 17:28

Sitting down on a seat that’s still warm from the previous user

Oh god! I HATE this 🫨

EnjoythemoneyJane · 23/11/2025 19:28

People taking their shoes off on a plane and walking around in socks/bare feet, especially in and out of the loos.

Unhappyitis · 23/11/2025 19:29

ItsInTheSingingOfAStreetCornerChoir · 23/11/2025 19:14

I was on a bus once and the woman in front had really greasy hair and nits so big you could see them.

That's vile 😭😭😭😭

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