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Strange things that give you a kind of "ick" in everyday life

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CariahMary · 23/11/2025 16:39

I don't mean getting the "ick" about a sexual or romantic partner. And I don't mean being put-off by things that are actually pretty grim. I mean random things that you inexplicably find a bit off-putting in everyday life.

For me, I get a kind of "ick" when I read other people talking about food on forums MN I honestly had no idea why. It's so odd, I really like reading food descriptions in books but in forums I find it really off-putting.

In the real-world, I also really hate opening other people's fridges. They always smell weird (different from my own). I have to hold my breath.

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Indicateyourintentions · 23/11/2025 18:35

People who mash their food on their plate and then add other things to the mess makes me heave. My oldest friend and her entire family do it and I can’t invite them to dinner ever.

HangingOver · 23/11/2025 18:36

Brushing my teeth. Idk why I just find all the sensations unpleasant.

Claymoreiron · 23/11/2025 18:37

Tea served in black mugs. Or any dark mug tbh. I like white mugs.

Pointy shoes. Leggings tucked into socks. Sweet and savoury in the same meal. Xmas decorations that are up too early. Sniffing.

HangingOver · 23/11/2025 18:37

Oh also teenage boys legs 🤢

Fairywingsandroses · 23/11/2025 18:38

BauhausOfEliott · 23/11/2025 18:18

People eating lunches at work that they’ve brought in from home

Babies/toddlers with food on their faces

Chewing gum in any context whatsoever. It looks gross, sounds gross and absolutely fucking stinks

People who say they ‘devour’ books or read ‘voraciously’

People describing food as ‘yummy’

Seeing people apply hand cream

Any form of contact with other people’s hair, especially if it’s frizzy

Weak handshakes

People who push their food around the plate before taking a bite

People being scared of pigeons

The term ‘cosplay’

Tomato juice

Hairdressers who handle your hair in a feeble way

Shop assistants in clothes shops who fold things in that sort of limp, listless manner

The Headspace app

The funeral director who kept referring to my dad’s ashes by my dad’s name, eg “And then we’ll contact you to let you know when John is here for you to collect” or “You might wish to scatter John in the garden of remembrance”

The word ‘play’ as a noun (unless referring to a theatrical performance), eg ‘Imaginative play is important for children’

HCPs saying ‘baby’ instead of ‘the baby’ or ‘your baby’, as in ‘When baby needs to feed,’ or ‘We’ll just need to check baby’s heart’

Referring to all technology and tech-related activities as ‘screens’ or worse ‘screen’, eg “How much screen should I allow”

Soup in mugs

Soup in tins

People being enthusiastic about soup

Morrison’s

Strangers’ feet in socks (ironically my first job was in a shoe shop)

The word ‘juices’

Haha! I love tolerant people! But secretly I agree with a lot of things on your list!

Fedupofwimps · 23/11/2025 18:39

Going into someone else's house and smelling 'them'. Even worse if it is a bit messy/scruffy and smells pungent.

pambeesleyhalpert · 23/11/2025 18:41

Men having long fingernails. Absolutely grim

AllPlayedOut · 23/11/2025 18:41

People who leave rubbish in shopping trolleys. Put it in the bloody bin and stop being so inconsiderate and lazy!

Flyingintotheunknown · 23/11/2025 18:42

Those who drink iced coffees/ teas/ lattes in the middle of winter. Makes me shudder and feel uncomfortably cold on their behalf.

pambeesleyhalpert · 23/11/2025 18:42

manicpixieschemegirl · 23/11/2025 18:31

When people to their parents as just mum and dad in conversation, eg I’m taking mum to the Christmas markets or dad’s coming for dinner. It’s nauseating and they’re your parents, not mine.

This is such a good one, totally agree

Lastfroginthebox · 23/11/2025 18:44

RosesAndHellebores · 23/11/2025 17:26

People serving me.or providing a service, chewing gum.

I agree with this one. When we visited the undertaker's after my dad died, I was shocked to realize the woman speaking to us about choice of coffin etc had gum in her mouth. She was trying to be unobtrusive about it but it was obvious. So unprofessional!

HangryBrickShark · 23/11/2025 18:44

Tall men and women wearing regular length trousers. Makes them look like coco the clown.

Having sticky hands. My worst torture would be being placed in a bath of treacle. Can't imagine anything worse.

The thought of having a loose tooth or having one pulled out.

Seeing a spider scuttling across the floor.

Smelling tomato soup or seeing someone eating it turns my stomach.

My partner never rinsing the seafood sauce of his plate when he has a salad and just dropping it into the washing up bowl. Its like an emulsion that swims in the water.

Having anything with eyes on my plate makes me feel very nauseous.

Seeing frothy mouths or seeing the advert "do you spit blood?"

Flyingintotheunknown · 23/11/2025 18:44

Oh and public toilets. They always smell like fish 🤢

Minty25 · 23/11/2025 18:46

Apologies if anyone thinks I'm being horrible but I struggle with people's necks especially if really wrinkly or with a big pouch. I feel like an absolutely horrible person for saying it but, I just can't look. The worst are those with huge stringy sticking out bits. It honestly makes me feel physically sick.. I also realize it is going to be me one day and will just have to avoid mirrors.

TooBusyGazingAtStarss · 23/11/2025 18:46

Peas and sweetcorn.

Justchilling07 · 23/11/2025 18:53

PrayForMyBum · 23/11/2025 18:20

Dogs. Yes, all of them and no, yours isn’t cute.
Men wearing chain necklaces 🤢🤢🤢

🙄 people who have no patience, can’t tolerate other peoples choices eg caring for animals! That’s a you problem.

Coffeeishot · 23/11/2025 18:54

Specialagentblond · 23/11/2025 18:27

long pointy beards on men with bald heads.
any noises from phones in public
i I really don’t like dirty plates left in front of me - both at home and in restaurants. I get really tetchy if they don’t get cleared away promptly. (obviously I sort mine out at home).

unironed clothes. Unless someone is ill or unable.

My Dds FIl is bald with a long beard I can't look at him 😫

EnjoythemoneyJane · 23/11/2025 18:55

The word ‘panties’.

Seeing stray bits of other people’s hair anywhere but their heads, especially long ones in sinks in public loos 🤮.
Ditto people pulling loose bits of hair off their heads or clothing and just kind of wafting them onto the floor, whether in a shop or restaurant or (shudder) in my house - gives me the absolute rage, put it in the bin you filthy fucker!

The feeling of wooden utensils on my teeth. Can’t do those forks from sandwich shops or wherever. I once got a bamboo eco toothbrush and only used it once. The feel of it made me instantly gip.

Loving the brilliant answers on this thread - some of these have really made me laugh!

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 23/11/2025 18:55

ColaWars · 23/11/2025 17:25

I hate pointy shoes on men, they always seem to be elongated as if their feet are twice the length they actually should be.

Added ick if they're brown with navy trousers.

dottydoglover · 23/11/2025 18:56

Those awkward moments in meetings when lunch arrives and people just eat and conversation is sporadic !

Apprenante · 23/11/2025 18:57

The word flesh

Justchilling07 · 23/11/2025 18:57

Fedupofwimps · 23/11/2025 18:39

Going into someone else's house and smelling 'them'. Even worse if it is a bit messy/scruffy and smells pungent.

You sound delightful! Do you get invited to people’s homes often 😬

RoseInBloome7 · 23/11/2025 18:57

other people’s feet in sandals / flip flops . I don’t even like my own 🤣

dottydoglover · 23/11/2025 18:58

Plus seeing people’s unkempt feet and toe nails in yoga and Pilates classes 😩

Coffeeishot · 23/11/2025 18:59

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 23/11/2025 18:55

Added ick if they're brown with navy trousers.

Oh no thank you😟

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