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Strange things that give you a kind of "ick" in everyday life

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CariahMary · 23/11/2025 16:39

I don't mean getting the "ick" about a sexual or romantic partner. And I don't mean being put-off by things that are actually pretty grim. I mean random things that you inexplicably find a bit off-putting in everyday life.

For me, I get a kind of "ick" when I read other people talking about food on forums MN I honestly had no idea why. It's so odd, I really like reading food descriptions in books but in forums I find it really off-putting.

In the real-world, I also really hate opening other people's fridges. They always smell weird (different from my own). I have to hold my breath.

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BassBug · 30/11/2025 20:44

People who say 'vom' instead of vomit or puke!

BassBug · 30/11/2025 20:48

I love my Peugeot 107! 🚗♥️

CruCru · 30/11/2025 22:04

People who read things aloud to me. Particularly if I have told them that I’ve already read it.

If I wanted to read it, I would. Otherwise I am not interested.

browser2025 · 30/11/2025 22:09

CruCru · 30/11/2025 22:04

People who read things aloud to me. Particularly if I have told them that I’ve already read it.

If I wanted to read it, I would. Otherwise I am not interested.

Same.

or people that show me ‘funny’ Tik Tok videos. I never want to see them. They’re never funny. But I always do that fake smile and blink while I’m watching, then pretend to laugh at the end. I hate it.

joseph25 · 30/11/2025 22:15

Drinking milk - I can’t drink it and can’t watch other people drink milk.
Tea or cold coffee
Anybody picking their nose or anything to do with snot literally makes me gag

MrTumblesSpottyBoxers · 30/11/2025 22:17

The Strictly judges during the Results show when Claudia calls them to the sofas and they walk up doing a shitty little cringy dance. Gives me irrational rage

WarmPoet · 30/11/2025 22:27

Anything to do with the public

  • Using public toilets 🤢
  • Smelling other peoples food on a train/bus and then they’re eating it with their lip smacking foul noises
  • Public changing rooms
  • People asking you to ‘feel this’ ie a scar, a bump, a movement in their body, for example, my mother in law said her kneecap was clicking and lifted her pant leg up for me to feel it click, wtf! No I don’t want to feel that thanks!
  • Keyboards / desks at work if people haven’t cleaned them / dirty keyboards / cups etc.
  • People constantly coughing, spluttering, sniffing.
  • People being too loud, attention seeking, obnoxious.
PyongyangKipperbang · 30/11/2025 22:43

Have an ex who calls spaghetti Bolognaise "Spag Bowl". No that is not a typo.

Editted for a typo, ironically!

TorroFerney · 01/12/2025 09:54

Sunnymysunshine · 26/11/2025 16:44

Greediness and laziness. So off putting. I work in a kitchen and some people just see food and eat, eat, without considering others. Also, double dipping!

A related food one. People at hotel buffets, usually breakfast who make their own buffet by bringing plates of stuff for the whole table which then just get left. Do a plate of four apples which no one touches. It’s absolutely awful and when I rule the world that food will be bagged up and you’d have to eat it every day.

Londog · 01/12/2025 11:22

Golfers .
The game is great .
just most of the entitled nobz who play

browser2025 · 01/12/2025 15:15

People who record themselves at the gym.

browser2025 · 02/12/2025 06:20

“yummy treats”
“cheeky vino”
“delish”
“date night”
“hubby”
“this one”

CruCru · 02/12/2025 11:18

Anyone who tries to talk to me when I am in a different room or a different floor. I can hear that they are speaking but I can’t understand them. Come to me and speak, don’t yell.

Northquit · 02/12/2025 11:24

CruCru · 02/12/2025 11:18

Anyone who tries to talk to me when I am in a different room or a different floor. I can hear that they are speaking but I can’t understand them. Come to me and speak, don’t yell.

We don't want to talk to you we want an excuse to shout.

fatphalange · 02/12/2025 12:40

The word ‘nourishment’ 🤢

DierdreDaphne · 02/12/2025 13:22

fatphalange · 02/12/2025 12:40

The word ‘nourishment’ 🤢

It's "pocket" for me, in a food context. Or perhaps it's only when uttered by MiL in her "this is so precious" special voice 🤢

SapphireSeptember · 02/12/2025 14:36

Men who wear tops that are too small to cover their pot bellies gives me the ick. Very rarely see women letting it all hang out.

Coffeeishot · 02/12/2025 14:40

fatphalange · 02/12/2025 12:40

The word ‘nourishment’ 🤢

Oh that is a horrible word i didn't realise it till now 😳

SapphireSeptember · 02/12/2025 14:48

crackofdoom · 29/11/2025 09:35

Oh, another one:

People referring to themselves (or others) as their pets' "mums" or "dads".

Mate, I am the actual mum of two humans. I squeezed them out through my fanny at great discomfort and inconvenience to myself. For several years they were dependent on me for survival on a minute- by- minute basis. Even now, nearly 11 years on, I can't leave the younger one alone for long periods.

My cats I went to pick up from somebody's house, half grown (it was a private rehoming).. All I really have to do for them is feed them twice daily (no cooking involved either, just pouring biscuits out of a box) and occasional flea treatment. I can waltz off on holiday for weeks, just paying someone to go and feed them once a day.

They are not my bloody children. They are my companion animals, and I am their owner ,NOT their fucking parent.

Edited

I hate that! And people who call their pets my son/daughter.
It's gone even further, with plant mum, crystal mum, and some people are even using mum/mummy for women they think are attractive! Seems to be a thing online.

Actually seems people are hijacking words that have a perfectly good meaning already. Gooner to me means an Arsenal fan, not a porn addict. Had to look that up.

verybighouseinthecountry · 02/12/2025 14:55

browser2025 · 02/12/2025 06:20

“yummy treats”
“cheeky vino”
“delish”
“date night”
“hubby”
“this one”

Just saw on another thread someone has Christmas plans of "sofa snuggles and a mountain of choccies" 🤢

Coffeeishot · 02/12/2025 15:27

verybighouseinthecountry · 02/12/2025 14:55

Just saw on another thread someone has Christmas plans of "sofa snuggles and a mountain of choccies" 🤢

Good god!

Coffeeishot · 02/12/2025 15:27

verybighouseinthecountry · 02/12/2025 14:55

Just saw on another thread someone has Christmas plans of "sofa snuggles and a mountain of choccies" 🤢

Good god!

browser2025 · 02/12/2025 16:22

verybighouseinthecountry · 02/12/2025 14:55

Just saw on another thread someone has Christmas plans of "sofa snuggles and a mountain of choccies" 🤢

🤢 my god

I just saw one and someone wrote “eek” 🤢

CruCru · 02/12/2025 16:38

Northquit · 02/12/2025 11:24

We don't want to talk to you we want an excuse to shout.

It’s sometimes a bit awkward when people who are not my children or husband do it. My children / husband just get “No! Come here and speak!”

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