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Strange things that give you a kind of "ick" in everyday life

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CariahMary · 23/11/2025 16:39

I don't mean getting the "ick" about a sexual or romantic partner. And I don't mean being put-off by things that are actually pretty grim. I mean random things that you inexplicably find a bit off-putting in everyday life.

For me, I get a kind of "ick" when I read other people talking about food on forums MN I honestly had no idea why. It's so odd, I really like reading food descriptions in books but in forums I find it really off-putting.

In the real-world, I also really hate opening other people's fridges. They always smell weird (different from my own). I have to hold my breath.

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ChamonixMountainBum · 24/11/2025 19:31

ohyesido · 24/11/2025 15:14

people outside my immediate family using my toilet

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When I remortgaged my flat I had a surveyor come round to do a valuation on the place. When I opened the door there was a very overweight sweaty bloke with his shirt half untucked and after he introduced himself he asked to use the toilet. I thought he just wanted to pee but no, he was taking a massive noisy dump. It was a small one bed flat and I could hear every grunt, sigh of relief, fart and splash of water. He then emerged followed by a stench straight from Hades itself. After he had left I popped out and bought a new toilet seat.

Zaichik · 24/11/2025 19:31

Beards.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 24/11/2025 19:31

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 24/11/2025 19:26

People going on about dahl every five minutes.
Layering up.

And a recent one that absolutely drives me insane: going on about being on a diagnosis 'pathway'. Fuck off with your pathway towards misery and death. Why can't you just say you've been referred? I suppose it isn't dramatic enough.

Oh I didn't mean that in a horrible way....more that this 'pathway' terrifies me!!

Tabitha005 · 24/11/2025 19:32

Oh, I’ve thought of another one: parents who bang on about their children being their ‘best friend’. Invariably, the kid is usually a right show-off bore and has no real friends of their own and gets shoehorned into every event and conversation the parent(s) go to/have 🙄

RandomUsernameHere · 24/11/2025 19:35

Sandals. They should be banned everywhere apart from the beach. Apart from on children.

MinnieCauldwell · 24/11/2025 19:37

Anyone near me folding a piece of paper then running their fingers down the fold...heaving just typing it
🤮

Ladymeade · 24/11/2025 19:40

MayaPinion · 23/11/2025 17:28

Going into a gender neutral toilet straight after a man. I hate it. It really disgusts me. The last time I did it there was this absolutely massive poo in the bowl.

Yep - usually the seat is left up and there is piss on the floor. Then after washing ny hands, doing my best not to touch the door handle. Really gives me the ick.

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 19:40

saywhatdidhesay · 23/11/2025 19:16

Chicken and eggs as part of the same meal.

I can’t accept egg and prawns together. I think Greggs do a prawn and egg mayo sandwich… 🤢🤢

WashYourDamnRice · 24/11/2025 19:41

MinnieCauldwell · 24/11/2025 19:37

Anyone near me folding a piece of paper then running their fingers down the fold...heaving just typing it
🤮

I get this too. The sound of bare skin on paper gives me serious heebie jeebies
Also the feel of newspaper. I can't touch it with bare hands.

Bbq1 · 24/11/2025 19:41

When people put their rubbish in their empty yogurt pots. That and licking the spoon clean. Very specific but 🤢

Greenwriter76 · 24/11/2025 19:43

FreeTheOakTree · 23/11/2025 18:05

If I am in a queue or public space and someone close to me has dirty hair. The sight of greasy, unwashed hair makes me queasy.

Feeling water inside rubber gloves when wearing them give me the ick and irrational rage.

Pulling hair out of the plughole/drain, even knowing it's our hair, is revolting

I don’t like seeing other people’s dirty greasy hair in a queue or whatever either, or putting ing my hands in wet rubber gloves. If I can avoid touching a wet dishcloth I do as I feel like I have to wash my hands every time I use a wet cloth - I can’t stand the thought of leaving the ‘cloth wet’ on my hands to dry 🤣
And another shout for going in a public loo after someone has just come out, and sitting somewhere someone else has just got up from (tho it wouldn’t stop me doing these things)
‘bits’ on the floor that stick to my socks / feet, especially it I’ve just hoovered!!
Any fat on any meat makes me gag if I accidentally chew it
Other peoples’ breath / smells but that is probably venturing into ‘grim’ territory…& there’s a lot of those with me… I feel like my list is endless 🤣

KimTheresPeopleThatAreDying · 24/11/2025 19:47

Radio phone ins. The general public can’t string a sentence together, if those are anything to go by.

Pricelessadvice · 24/11/2025 19:47

In school there was a girl with long slightly frizzy blonde hair that she always wore in a plait.
She lent over me one day to get something off the desk and her long plaited hair plonked onto my shoulder like some sort of creature. I felt it thud.

The way she picked it off me like it was a living thing has stayed with me forever 😅

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 19:51

Moonflower12 · 23/11/2025 21:14

Omg! Are you, me? I can’t bare sweet and savoury stuff together. And I can’t eat sweet condiments on savoury food. Apple sauce on pork? Blugh! And worse than that is, cranberry sauce.

Fruit and meat together is a crime 🤢🤢 duck and orange/cherry, lamb and apricots/raisins 😫😫😫😫😫 et al

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 24/11/2025 19:57

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 19:51

Fruit and meat together is a crime 🤢🤢 duck and orange/cherry, lamb and apricots/raisins 😫😫😫😫😫 et al

Warm peaches and ham..ala 70s pub menu
Not your thing I take it.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 24/11/2025 19:59

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 19:51

Fruit and meat together is a crime 🤢🤢 duck and orange/cherry, lamb and apricots/raisins 😫😫😫😫😫 et al

I agree with this, especially pineapple except Lemon Chicken which is amazing.

lohpetite · 24/11/2025 20:00

Thumb rings (especially on men)
Touching uncooked chicken without gloves
Getting a sleeve or sock wet (and not being able to change)

Cantbloodyrememberthenameonthread · 24/11/2025 20:13

Men drinking from straws.

men seeing a coin on the floor and picking it up.

people (mostly men) waiting for small change of receipts.

when people wiggle their fingers when deciding on which chocolate to have from a box.

a plethora of phrases including “me thinks” and “fair do’s”

seeing men in kebab shops or any food place after a night out - double points if they’re ordering a meat feast.

urgh

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 20:13

Claymoreiron · 24/11/2025 11:40

Tepe brushes. DH leaves them lying about in the bathroom….ugh.

Sorry I know I am unreasonable because people can do what they like but…… Xmas decorations up too early makes me shudder.

All the yummy mummies near me with their matching prams, puffa coats, bobble hats and giant coffee cups. It’s a uniform. Throw in a daschund and that’s even more ‘extra’.

Are the puffer coats those really silly long ones? Have they got ribbed leggings on in beige with white Nike long sports socks over them, and brown or beige fake platform Ugg slider slippers on? 😫

grimgrinningghost · 24/11/2025 20:18

Sleeping in a bed that’s not my own, especially putting my head on the pillow.
Eating buffet food that someone else has made, like sandwiches. The thought that they may not have washed their hands before making them puts me off 🤢

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 20:19

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 24/11/2025 19:57

Warm peaches and ham..ala 70s pub menu
Not your thing I take it.

Oh wow! That’s a new one to me but yeah… not a chance in hell that one!

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 24/11/2025 20:27

Inwhitelights · 24/11/2025 20:19

Oh wow! That’s a new one to me but yeah… not a chance in hell that one!

I know it because I had to tray it up ,sliced oblong catering tinned ham folded slice by slice with tinned peaches between each slice.

venus7 · 24/11/2025 20:30

SeaAndStars · 23/11/2025 18:01

Those socks over shoes things that lycra clad cyclists wear. Like cloven hooves.
The pictures in barber shop windows, especially any ear/nose waxing photos.
People talking into phones that they are holding horizontal like a piece of toast.
Vape stickers on bins.

I feel the same about phones held like that; heaven knows why.

MinnieCauldwell · 24/11/2025 20:32

Drag acts, any drag acts. Completely creeped me out in childhood and still cannot bare them.

Letsnotupsettheapplecart · 24/11/2025 20:34

Being served a drink in a pub/coffee shop and then holding the drink over the top so you have to drink where their fingers have been. It’s so unhygienic

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