Kick me up the bum!

[TheChosenTwo]

God I’m feeling lazy today.
I’m on leave, we got back from holiday yesterday and I had plans to be productive today. So far I’ve dropped ds to school,
put on a load of washing, caught up with some tv and had a nap.
None of the real jobs I wanted to have done have been done because I’m still lying on the sofa!
Please can someone give me a metaphorical kick up the arse and shame me into getting some jobs done 😂

@TheChosenTwo

Don't spend your chilling time explaining yourself to the "all men are shit/OMG the mental load is unbearable" posters on here. They clearly don't grasp the fact that some many people have happy and equal relationships.

Huh?

you ask for a kick up the him as you had loads to do

I was just saying - if you and another adult went away can’t be that much washing. So yes - kick back!

but if there’s more than that, and all good because you’re on it - surely you don’t need the kick now!

Haha it’s okay @PaulineMush - I needed the kick and I’m pleased to report that after an hour of bustling about I’m safely back on the sofa where I belong 😂
I don’t cook, dh always does the cooking so evenings are generally spent either chatting to him while he cooks, hanging out with the dc or exercising - he’s a good egg and I appreciate him massively as I know he does me.
Some people don’t have equality in their relationships and it’s shit. If I’d done nothing today Dh wouldn’t have said anything and we’d have tackled what needed doing together tomorrow but it’s the weekend and we both deserve to relax at the weekend where possible so I was happy to get it done today, just slightly lacking in enthusiasm!

Oh I see @Susanandgoliath - sorry! Yes it was definitely more than just 2 loads of washing that needed doing, the house was generally just in disarray as we’d not been here and the dc had.

but all good now, I’m back to chill mode!