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I don't want to pay more fucking tax!

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marthainthemarket · 04/11/2025 14:17

I am the sole earner in a family of four, earning just under 40k a year and getting probably fuck all or below inflation pay increase next year, if I am lucky enough to keep my job ( public sector and employer needing to make massive budget savings). I barely cope now.

I am so fucking angry that Labour fucked up the disability benefit cuts. Other countries don't have run away disability benefits crises because they have a proper assessment process that means they keep a lid on people getting disability benefits who don't really need them. But instead of dealing with that, they came up with a crap proposed cut that wouldn't have dealt with the actual issues and they couldn't defend.

And having fucked that up they are now raising everyone's tax. I hate them!

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Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 13:13

Brmmmn · 05/11/2025 13:10

If I was on UC and unemployed I'd use it and try and find employment.

If once working I'd still needed UC I'd try and find a way to increase my income so I didn't need to rely on the taxpayer.

and if everyone on UC did that, who would be the childcare workers, cleaners, shop workers etc that society needs?

MaturingCheeseball · 05/11/2025 13:18

Brmmmn · 05/11/2025 09:56

I just can't bring myself to punish the disabled and hurt the most weakest in society

But at the moment those number over 50% of the population. What if this rises - again and again?

And as a poster observed elsewhere on MN, you get a situation where the democratic process empowers voters to demand more with no restrictions. We have seen that Labour backbenchers - through ideology and the knowledge of their voter base - will not support any reform of benefits.

We will arrive at a perfect storm of if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. No one will save for a pension, no one will want to earn above a certain amount, etc. You can only raid a piggy bank once before people learn not to put anything else in it.

ApathyCentral · 05/11/2025 13:19

PinkKimono · 05/11/2025 13:08

How would a family provide 24 hour specialist nursing care?

They hire it. It’s not for the state to pick up every tab.

Palmtreebreeze · 05/11/2025 13:20

The money you save on welfare could go towards untra strict prisons.

Over time, when people realise this is the consequence, their behaviour would change.. (male and females would think carefully before having children)

What about introducing a lifetime maximum benefit cap. Introduce it to all 18 year old going forward.

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 13:21

Sparklesandspandexgallore · 05/11/2025 10:51

I really wish someone would tackle the huge problem of parents not being responsible for their own DCs.
All fathers and mothers should be held accountable for paying for their child’s upkeep. Fair enough if you then need benefits but I’m sick and tired of parents living apart - allegedly and then the rp claiming benefits as a single patent. Make the nrp pay!
If you are paying 25% of your income to your first partner then 25% of your income to your second partner ( ie mother if your children) then you are not likely to go on and have children with a third woman. Yet I see men gathering children to several women and expecting her to claim benefits as a single parent.
Stop allowing the get out clause of including the new partners DCs to reduce the amount you pay to your existing DCs.
Then include this in the income the rp received to reduce benefits.
Regarding the issue if none payment, make them pay! I don’t have a choice as to whether I want to pay NI and tax each month. Neither should they. Take it from wages/benefits. If it makes them worse off do what? It will reduce the benefits bill and help to stop fecklessness.
Women will also be aware that if they chose to have dcs with these men exactly what the financial consequences are.

This

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 13:21

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 13:21

This

Wonder how much money we could save as a country in this area!

PinkKimono · 05/11/2025 13:22

ApathyCentral · 05/11/2025 13:19

They hire it. It’s not for the state to pick up every tab.

Yes, the average family is going to be able to afford to pay for specialist 24 hour nursing care!

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 13:27

PinkKimono · 05/11/2025 13:22

Yes, the average family is going to be able to afford to pay for specialist 24 hour nursing care!

But this is another problem that our welfare system has led to imo… lots of people deciding to have loads of kids they can’t afford and staying unemployed (cyclical). Perhaps we need to encourage more contribution from the people in this country. I know many people around me whose attitude is “what can I get from the state?” It is extremely poor! We all need to be more responsible for ourselves.

*This post does not apply to honest individuals who are disabled or fall on hard times.

WunTooThree · 05/11/2025 13:27

MaturingCheeseball · 05/11/2025 13:18

But at the moment those number over 50% of the population. What if this rises - again and again?

And as a poster observed elsewhere on MN, you get a situation where the democratic process empowers voters to demand more with no restrictions. We have seen that Labour backbenchers - through ideology and the knowledge of their voter base - will not support any reform of benefits.

We will arrive at a perfect storm of if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. No one will save for a pension, no one will want to earn above a certain amount, etc. You can only raid a piggy bank once before people learn not to put anything else in it.

Where is the 50% figure from?
Do you need a bit of time to visit the loo to retrieve that figure?

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 05/11/2025 13:28

Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 11:23

I'm sure the lady from the link would much rather have her leg back than her BMW.

The money from PIP to pay for a Motability car is the same no matter what car you have. If you decide not to use the Motability scheme, you get the same amount of money in cash.

Everyone must pay an advanced payment for their car which isn't covered by Motability or PIP. You'll see that even in the link it says that the lady paid a higher advanced payment because it's a BMW. She likely went with the car, not because it's considered a luxury car but because she clearly has mobility issues and needs a car where it's possible to fit a wheelchair and be adapted so she is able to drive it (which she also would've paid for, not PIP or Motability, by the way).

So how exactly would not allowing cars like BMW's save money?

I really wish that if someone is going to criticise the Motability scheme, they would at least know how it works before doing so.

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The Motorbility scheme needs an overhaul. Nobody needs a BMW. Perfect example waste. It is greed over gratitude.

Brmmmn · 05/11/2025 13:29

Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 13:13

and if everyone on UC did that, who would be the childcare workers, cleaners, shop workers etc that society needs?

I knew someone who was a cleaner. She also has a second job at Sainsbury's. Did cleaning and did shop work.

Most times I've been to a coffee shop I've been served by students working part time. Even at the shops I've been served by the young-uns

Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 13:33

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 05/11/2025 13:28

The Motorbility scheme needs an overhaul. Nobody needs a BMW. Perfect example waste. It is greed over gratitude.

Edited

Again. What money would an overhaul be saving exactly when PIP is the same amount no matter what car you get and if you don't get a car, you get the cash?

What car would you recommend that is big enough for wheelchairs, other mobility aids etc and is able to be adapted?

WunTooThree · 05/11/2025 13:34

Brmmmn · 05/11/2025 13:29

I knew someone who was a cleaner. She also has a second job at Sainsbury's. Did cleaning and did shop work.

Most times I've been to a coffee shop I've been served by students working part time. Even at the shops I've been served by the young-uns

A lot of cleaners have multiple jobs because unless you work in a hospital or hotel, there are not enough hours for it to be a full time job.

The coffees shops were I live have a mixture of staff in. The staff that have been there for years are the middle aged ones.

The low paid jobs should not be seen as "entry level" or just something that young people/students/retired people do. Some people are not capable of more, and deserve to have enough to live on. Life is not a race to see who can earn the most. No one on their death bed regrets not working more.

CeeJay81 · 05/11/2025 13:35

Brmmmn · 05/11/2025 13:29

I knew someone who was a cleaner. She also has a second job at Sainsbury's. Did cleaning and did shop work.

Most times I've been to a coffee shop I've been served by students working part time. Even at the shops I've been served by the young-uns

Not everyone is capable of high paid work. I suffer depression/anxiety and work full time, just above minimum wage. I haven't the skills and confidence to do higher paid work and im in my 40s. Not currently on benefits due to some inheritance but...

I hate the mumsnet attitude of everyone can earn enough to not need any top ups. Neither of my parents had a career, both have been in mental hospitals in the past. If rent wasn't so extortionate, people wouldnt need to earn silly amounts to get but either.

Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 13:37

Brmmmn · 05/11/2025 13:29

I knew someone who was a cleaner. She also has a second job at Sainsbury's. Did cleaning and did shop work.

Most times I've been to a coffee shop I've been served by students working part time. Even at the shops I've been served by the young-uns

How about nurseries? Should our children only be looked after students waiting to move on to what they actually want to do with their lives?

I'd much rather someone with experience choosing to do it despite the poor pay even if that means they also get UC.

OonaStubbs · 05/11/2025 13:38

Why can't they bring back the old pale blue three wheeled motobility cars?

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 05/11/2025 13:38

Putneydad7 · 05/11/2025 10:37

Agreed, but they are all "taking" just different amounts.
So people on an average salary who are saying "I paid tax all my life" should really be saying "I paid tax all my life, but received far more back in services"

What is your view on increased taxes and public spending?

WunTooThree · 05/11/2025 13:39

CeeJay81 · 05/11/2025 13:35

Not everyone is capable of high paid work. I suffer depression/anxiety and work full time, just above minimum wage. I haven't the skills and confidence to do higher paid work and im in my 40s. Not currently on benefits due to some inheritance but...

I hate the mumsnet attitude of everyone can earn enough to not need any top ups. Neither of my parents had a career, both have been in mental hospitals in the past. If rent wasn't so extortionate, people wouldnt need to earn silly amounts to get but either.

Exactly.

The low paid work is still vital. No one should need top ups but we are where we are.
I hate the attitude on MN that seems to acknowledge that the low paid work is important, but you should not expect to live in anything other than poverty if that is the work you do.

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 05/11/2025 13:40

OonaStubbs · 05/11/2025 13:38

Why can't they bring back the old pale blue three wheeled motobility cars?

There does not have to be just one crappy option but If you narrow options you often get better value.

ruethewhirl · 05/11/2025 13:41

BrokenWingsCantFly · 05/11/2025 11:46

Not once did i indicate there shouldn't be disability benefits. The rest should be in work.
I know of many unemployed who had no intention ever, started bunking from school from around 13 and done nothing with their lives ever since. Definatly not disabled, it's through Multi generations in many of their families.

Think after 6 months there should be some sort of community project work available they have to do to get their benefits. It would give them experience and into the habbit of going out and doing work. With flexible hours for those with kids to fit around school, and only up to the pount of where it would be the equivalent of working minimum wage. Would be a great benefit to all.

'The habit of going out and doing work'? Hopefully you can confirm that you're talking specifically about genuine work-dodgers here as opposed to people who are doing their level best to find work and simply haven't been successful?

In any case, workfare isn't a solution. It would only cut down on the amount of actual paid work available and trap more people in the vicious circle of poverty.. Do you not think employers would be jumping for joy at the thought of cutting down their salary bills by palming part of them off on to the DWP? It would become the norm and then some people stuck in the poverty trap would be stuck in it for keeps.

Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 13:41

OonaStubbs · 05/11/2025 13:38

Why can't they bring back the old pale blue three wheeled motobility cars?

They'd be useless to wheelchair users for a start.

WunTooThree · 05/11/2025 13:42

OonaStubbs · 05/11/2025 13:38

Why can't they bring back the old pale blue three wheeled motobility cars?

Is this a joke? They were dangerous!

How would you fit a high backed fully electric wheelchair to go in one? Oh, and the hoist needed to get it in the car? And then a passenger to help the wheelchair user get in and out the car.

MaturingCheeseball · 05/11/2025 13:43

@Kirbert2 I don’t think people are complaining about those requiring adapted cars or needing to put a wheelchair in.

But I would say a) you must buy British, or at least one manufactured in a factory here and b) overhaul the entitlement. It needs to be much tighter - I know for an absolute fact two people with cars who do not have physical conditions.

ruethewhirl · 05/11/2025 13:46

OonaStubbs · 05/11/2025 13:38

Why can't they bring back the old pale blue three wheeled motobility cars?

Why do you want them to be? To make it even easier for people to stigmatise the disabled? They weren't safe ffs.

Have you ever considered using Google to broaden your general knowledge?

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 05/11/2025 13:49

Kirbert2 · 05/11/2025 13:33

Again. What money would an overhaul be saving exactly when PIP is the same amount no matter what car you get and if you don't get a car, you get the cash?

What car would you recommend that is big enough for wheelchairs, other mobility aids etc and is able to be adapted?

It would be done as part of a review of the whole system.

Do you think a BMW is the only car that is big enough for a wheelchair or mobility aids?

Out of curiosity what are these unique characteristics which are not available in an other brand of car than BMW?

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