Relationship

[Mylovey]

Hi everyone, if my husband dont like me being in group chats with my friends is that a problem years years ago before we met I told a few lies for him to like me but for some reason he always says once a lier always a lier. We been together 22 years married 14. Think I'm being brain washed. As I don't know what to do. Any advice

Massive red flag love. Also not sure what the nature of the lies you said were but I doubt he has been a saint for his whole life. People make bad decisions sometimes if he is still going on about them this is not a good sign either.

Just stupid things like how many people I been with etc before I met him. Really stupid things . He said I'm too friendly with people.

I feel like this is normal I been with him since I was 18

You are not too friendly. Being friendly is a good thing. It is kindness. Having a lot of sexual partners when are younger is also nothing to be ashamed of either. Leaving a relationship is easier said than done but I think you know you are not happy here.

Yes I know but before I met him I was young and I thought buy lieing saying how many people I been will make him want to be with me. I lied by saying I slept with more boys but I really didn't know he thinks I did