So my DH who is an alcoholic dors not live with me and the children. He doesn't have the children at his house as it's unsuitable so the counsellor said how can he help more. I said by getting me a cleaner in lieu f him having hardly any responsibility. He aggreed but then did nothing. I said I'd like him to initiate it. So today without telling me, a cleaner comes to the house. My daughter,15 was off sick and in the house with this random.persln I didn't know was coming. He let them in then left. I was fuming at all of this and now he says I'm ungrateful . He just dies things on his terms. He doesn't think to ask what I need.
I feel I was reasonable to get upset. It's my slave not his to barge in .