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RiP Jilly Cooper

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Daphnedot · 06/10/2025 10:51

So bloody sad 😢

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siliconcover · 06/10/2025 11:55

Oh no! Very sad.
(& very sudden)
RIP Jilly, & thanks for all the lovely books xxx

SemmaLina · 06/10/2025 11:58

Secondtonaan · 06/10/2025 11:18

I absolutely adored JC and her books, she seemed like a lovely lady and Riders etc saw me through some tough times in an unhappy childhood. She was the Tolstoy of the Shires!!

However while it is very very sad (especially for her family) I think that a quick death at 88 in your own home while enjoying a career resurgence is massively preferable to the sad and slow decline and health issues I see in family that are a similar age. She seemed to still be out and about and working until recently.

Hope that's not an inappropriate thing to say but what struck me through the sadness.

Exactly this

NCReceptor · 06/10/2025 11:58

I am genuinely saddened to read this. Thank you Jilly for the many hours of pleasure.

Gymnopediegivesmethewillies · 06/10/2025 11:59

Really sad news. Bless her.

My first dog was named Badger after RCB’s black lab. Best dog ever.

TypeyMcTypeface · 06/10/2025 12:02

Rivals and Apassionata are favourites of mine, I've read all the Rutshire books and some of her earlier 'name' books too.

I will always think of Jilly on the first of May!

Thanks, Jilly, for all your books - a life well lived!

Oktostartanewlife · 06/10/2025 12:05

RIP Jilly
one of my favourite authors of all times. I didn’t have a favourite, I loved them all.

PermanentTemporary · 06/10/2025 12:05

100% agree that a very sudden/short decline in your own home at 88 is a very good death. But it’s quite a moment. She was something special and beloved, and left a trace of joy and champagne in so many places. RIP.

confusedlab47 · 06/10/2025 12:06

I absolutely agree I just hope she wasn’t on her own for too long, but it’s how I’d want to go in general, successful til the end and enjoying life.

PermanentTemporary · 06/10/2025 12:09

I’m reminded of her book ‘How to Survive Christmas’ which in my edition had a noose made of tinsel on the cover. The acerbic sting of her writing made her something much more than fluff.

Eddielizzard · 06/10/2025 12:10

Jilly got me through very dark teenage years and I still return to her books when I need a little bit of tlc. RIP Jilly, may you be frolicking with Badger, drinking champers and laughing with RCP about the latest shenanigans in the village.

Lobelia123 · 06/10/2025 12:10

I found all her books extremely silly and predictable, but think of great nostalgia of the whole 80s/90s bonkbuster era....the precursor of chit lit! Shirley Conran 'Lace', Barbara Taylor Bradford 'A Woman of Subtance', Judith Krantz 'Ill Take Manhattan' etc etc and Jilly Cooper was definately a huge part of the whole thing. They were probably all poorly written and wildly improbable, but they played a part in starting to change the perception of women in books and show women who were powerful and successful against all the odds - the dawn of the 80s woman who was more than a secretary or girl Friday, but the boss!

CrystalShoe · 06/10/2025 12:13

Oh, that's sad! And so unexpected. She wasn't ill - how can a fall kill someone? That's assuming she just fell over, as opposed to falling down a flight of stairs or something.

A similar thing happened to Ivana Trump, I think. No illness, just a fall at home and that was it. I think Cilla Black, too. 😢

lemonraspberry · 06/10/2025 12:13

Read this about her - she sounds like an absolute legend! Her books are equally legendary!

She had said she was known as the "unholy terror" at school, and was sacked from 22 jobs before finding her way into book publishing

JudgeJ · 06/10/2025 12:14

Tootingbec · 06/10/2025 11:09

Ohhhh no 😢

My teenage years were all the better for my love of a good Jilly Cooper book

Still refer to any fancy house I see as “The Maltings/Matings” 😂

Edited

I still think about ostentatious weddings etc held in ornate marquees etc as a 'tented wank'! Only yesterday we were discussing kitchen sups too.

jacksonlambsregulardisorder · 06/10/2025 12:15

This is sad; there was so much fun in Jilly's writing and a genuine appreciation of pleasure. I'm off to track down any copies of Octavia, Imogen etc that I can find, and then I'm going to trim my split ends with the bacon scissors and empty a bottle of Fracas over myself in tribute.

Thanks Jilly, it's been ravishing.

PandoraSocks · 06/10/2025 12:19

BestIsWest · 06/10/2025 11:25

I’ve returned to her books many times over the years since I first picked up Bella aged 14. Underrated as a descriptive writer about the English countryside. And gardens, clothes, food, houses etc. And a genius at animal names.
Very Sad news.

I will re-read The Common Years this weekend. It would be lovely to think she’d left more diaries but I think she said not.

Edited

I loved Bella, which I read at about the same age, and really fancied Laszlo.😅

Such a shame she had a fall when she was otherwise in good health.

MysticHalfWitch · 06/10/2025 12:22

I’m feeling actual grief! For Jilly, but also for her untold stories. Rupert dies with her. Poor Taggie. Jilly’s books have got me through some really hard times, she’s been my constant companion since I was about 15 and I’ve never tired of her. Thank you Jilly, you will be really missed.

JudgeJ · 06/10/2025 12:23

SomethingFun · 06/10/2025 11:48

Such a shame - love Jilly Cooper and I was so happy when Rivals was such a success on Disney 😊 My first and favourite book is Polo which I read when I was 12/13. I’ve learned everything I know about posh people, horses, polo and classical music from Jilly 😊

I have scored points in the pub quiz a couple of times on questions about polo, team mates were very impressed, thought I moved in those circles, when in reality it all came from JC!

DoorOpening · 06/10/2025 12:23

Oh Jilly! You will be greatly missed! I hope you find plenty of bubbly, gorgeous horses and an absolutely filthy mini in the next place xxx

FlorenceAgainstTheMachine · 06/10/2025 12:24

Eddielizzard · 06/10/2025 12:10

Jilly got me through very dark teenage years and I still return to her books when I need a little bit of tlc. RIP Jilly, may you be frolicking with Badger, drinking champers and laughing with RCP about the latest shenanigans in the village.

Oh that actually gave me a little lump in my throat. 😢

Titianshe · 06/10/2025 12:27

So sad to hear 😢. Do listen to her on Desert Island Disks she reminds me of a character in her books

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 06/10/2025 12:28

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 06/10/2025 11:50

Too many icons gone recently, Maggie Smith, Patricia Routledge, and now Jilly, or Jolly Sooper, as Private Eye called her…😰

I'm imagining them having a good natter together somewhere posh, over a Champagne Breakfast or dainty English Afternoon Tea 🤗

CrushingOnRubies · 06/10/2025 12:29

RIP Jilly. I absolutely love her books and she was wonderful too. Had a tear in my eye when I got the notification on my phone

MysticHalfWitch · 06/10/2025 12:30

TypeyMcTypeface · 06/10/2025 12:02

Rivals and Apassionata are favourites of mine, I've read all the Rutshire books and some of her earlier 'name' books too.

I will always think of Jilly on the first of May!

Thanks, Jilly, for all your books - a life well lived!

Eeeeeh this made me laugh 🤣. Rupert and Helen. I’ve found my people on this thread.

Fransgran · 06/10/2025 12:34

She talked to me once at a book signing. I knew she liked the novels of Barbara Pym and asked if her dog Barbara had been named for her. She said she had been! We spoke about Barbara Pym books and she asked which was my favourite. I said it was always the last one I re-read and she said that was exactly how she felt. She signed my book "To a fellow Barbara fan." Although it wasn't the book she was currentle promoting, she signed "The Common Years" book for me and I told her I read it over and over when I was living abroad and felt occasional pangs of homesickness. When I visited my daughter in London, I went down to Putney and followed one of JC's regular walks with her dogs. She might not have been the absolutely best writer but she brought so much pleasure to countless people.