Would it bother you if you bought a new dress, and a friend that loved it, asked if you minded if they bought it too?

[BigFatMumma]

What would you think ?

Would annoy me if honest.

I wouldn’t be remotely bothered.

It’s a compliment really, just make sure you don’t wear it to the same event!

It depends on the dress, if it was an everyday one and we spent a lot of time together then I would expect first dibs on it. If it was a work dress and we didn't work together wouldn't care.

It depends. Do you go out together, so there's a chance you'd want to wear it but couldn't as she was? If not, then it wouldn't bother me at all.

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Not in the least. I’d be pleased.

Wouldn’t care as long as they didn’t wear it to the same event?! It’s a compliment.

I have done this with a friend (though it was when we were shopping together so nobody had first dibs) and we agreed never to wear it when going out together, it worked fine.

I wouldn’t be bothered. I’d only be bothered if I’d bought it for a certain event or outing and she was planning on getting it for the same event

I would mind at all, but I’d insist on first dibs for wearing it if we go out together. Or I’d just let her borrow mine.

Not at all

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I'd be hugely complimented. Assuming you are not wearing handmade couture, surely hundreds, if not thousands, of women are going to be wearing the same item all over the country, so what difference does it make if you happen to know one of them?

What if she'd just bought it as well not knowing you also had one?

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. We'd probably laugh about it if we wore it at the same time.

I'd be flattered! I wouldn't mind if she wore it to the same event, either - I don't really see why that's apparently such a faux pas...