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Surely you don't carry your phone everywhere?

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SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:06

Every time there's a discussion about civil liberties, for instance at the moment with ID cards, people always say, why are you worried they can track you by your phone anyway. But that implies that people are always carrying their phones.

I have a phone, I have to for work, and it's very useful outside work as well. I sometimes use it for navigation, and on certain instances I might take it with me if there's a chance I'll need to liaise with someone while out. Super helpful technology.

But surely people aren't taking it to the shops, or on the school run, or out for a walk in the countryside?

OP posts:
Griffindor1979 · 05/10/2025 19:35

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 04/10/2025 17:22

Batshit right?! I never get people who don't lock their doors.

Insurance will NOT pay out if you're robbed!

Burgled.

Hedgehogbrown · 05/10/2025 19:49

CantSleepEver · 04/10/2025 17:25

🙄 Do what you like but you do have to accept that you’re wrong and most people do take their phone everywhere.

How is she wrong? Maybe you are wrong.

Hedgehogbrown · 05/10/2025 19:50

I need to be more like you.

FlubandSlub · 05/10/2025 19:51

SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:06

Every time there's a discussion about civil liberties, for instance at the moment with ID cards, people always say, why are you worried they can track you by your phone anyway. But that implies that people are always carrying their phones.

I have a phone, I have to for work, and it's very useful outside work as well. I sometimes use it for navigation, and on certain instances I might take it with me if there's a chance I'll need to liaise with someone while out. Super helpful technology.

But surely people aren't taking it to the shops, or on the school run, or out for a walk in the countryside?

If you are utilising it for navigation when driving or trying to find a new location when walking, or storing your shopping list and making payments, or counting your steps, or predicting the weather or telling the time, contacting emergcy services from any location (potentially life saving) etc etc then it's the only thing you need with you!

Memberofstaff · 05/10/2025 19:55

Figsaregood · 04/10/2025 17:36

No I don't take my phone everywhere. In fact I only take it out if it is needed for that particular trip. It is not needed on a walk for example. Like you I don't want to be tied to it or have the encumbrance of having to carry it around and look after it. I do wonder what some of these posters who are so tied to their phone would do if it broke down, was lost or stolen. Would they even know how to function?
I think it is a good discipline from time to time to rely on oneself. We used to do it all the time before the bloody things were invented.

On a walk and have an emergency? Just pop into your nearest phone box. Which is probably 8 miles away.

Fine to do this 20 years ago but the infrastructure is no longer there as 99% of people carry their own phone.

saffy2 · 05/10/2025 20:03

RampantIvy · 05/10/2025 19:15

And I'm nearly 67 and not a technophobe.

I said, 90s…because I feel like op is making me feel like I’m talking to someone in their 90s. She’s in my age bracket. She’s similar age to me. So that was my point. I’m not in any way saying 67 should be a technophobe. 67 is not ancient or any where near ‘in your 90s’.

mathanxiety · 05/10/2025 20:09

SEmyarse · 05/10/2025 11:25

I wouldn't say annoyed, I can't figure out what my emotion is. But it seems vaguely disquieting that people always feel the need to be on alert for emergencies. We didn't used to be like that? There's something a bit unsettling about realising that we seem to have changed so much in our outlook.

Were you ever a teenage girl heading out for the evening before mobile phones were invented? Or the mother of teenagers who head out for the evening with their friends? My DM used to sit up til all hours waiting for the key in the door, back in the 70s and 80s. People were always nervous about the emergencies that could happen, and when I say people, I mean mainly girls and women.

FlubandSlub · 05/10/2025 20:10

DirtyBird · 05/10/2025 04:39

I have a really old car so I’m always worried something will happen while driving. Don’t want to be stranded somewhere without my phone.

This is the reason I got my first mobile phone 25 years ago and I kept it in the car without using it for the first six months. I hated the idea that I could be contacted anywhere at anytime! Technology has made my phone indispensable to me and now I take it everywhere, except the toilet, I draw the line at that and I always turn it off in the theatre and cinema.

Halloweengaul · 05/10/2025 20:10

I take my phone everywhere. Once I left it home on charge and ds school phoned me to pick him up. Since that day I take it everywhere I go.

mathanxiety · 05/10/2025 20:17

Wallywobbles · 05/10/2025 09:14

I live in the arse end of nowhere. I take photos on most walks. I listen to podcasts and shit as I go.

Are you that bear in the woods that I've heard about?

Bear
Jellycatspyjamas · 05/10/2025 20:27

I have my phone with me most of the time. I leave it at home when I’m walking the dog, doing the school run or a quick errand - I don’t need it with me constantly but I definitely am more reliant on it than I like.

Growlybear83 · 05/10/2025 20:48

mathanxiety · 05/10/2025 20:09

Were you ever a teenage girl heading out for the evening before mobile phones were invented? Or the mother of teenagers who head out for the evening with their friends? My DM used to sit up til all hours waiting for the key in the door, back in the 70s and 80s. People were always nervous about the emergencies that could happen, and when I say people, I mean mainly girls and women.

But back then pay phones were everywhere. I was always able to ring my parents if I was going to be really late or wanted a lift when I was a teenager in the 1970s. There are still a fair number of pay phones left in many areas

changeme4this · 05/10/2025 21:16

I live and work rurally and I consider the mobile phone is part of a first aid kit must have. We had a fatality out this way years ago and there’s no way the emergency services could/would have been notified any quicker if it wasn’t for several people out for a ride, calling for help.

we also have a local moron who likes to threaten people, and the police won’t do anything unless there’s video proof.

DH never used to carry his around much however he has started to listen to his radio station on it, so it’s usually in his top pocket.

DD also uses her mobile for her drivers licence and to pay for goods.

changeme4this · 05/10/2025 21:17

Growlybear83 · 05/10/2025 20:48

But back then pay phones were everywhere. I was always able to ring my parents if I was going to be really late or wanted a lift when I was a teenager in the 1970s. There are still a fair number of pay phones left in many areas

The ones that used to be in public places were always being damaged in our nearest town. We had one outside of Mum and Dads home and I have to say it attracted some weirdos.

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 05/10/2025 21:19

GameofPhones · 05/10/2025 19:06

It may be. Most insurances offered can be traced back to a few big firms. If I were taking out any insurance, I would want to know the 'big insurer' behind it, and their track record.

AppleCare Theft and Loss is administered through AIG which has nothing to do with the companies that Which is taking legal action against.

Lostinmiddleage · 05/10/2025 21:34

Is this a joke? Yes of course I take it everywhere - I have a husband, three teens and other family who might need to get hold of me or vice versa. It’s a modern convenience and helps with communication and is reassuring (in the event of an accident/being late/lost/car breaking down/illness etc) why wouldn’t I?! I use it for directions in the car and walking in central London. I listen to podcasts or music when I’m walking the dogs. My husband uses his to pay for most things too (or his Apple Watch).

GameofPhones · 05/10/2025 21:44

FlubandSlub · 05/10/2025 20:10

This is the reason I got my first mobile phone 25 years ago and I kept it in the car without using it for the first six months. I hated the idea that I could be contacted anywhere at anytime! Technology has made my phone indispensable to me and now I take it everywhere, except the toilet, I draw the line at that and I always turn it off in the theatre and cinema.

But it was only because I had my mobile with me in the bathroom that I could be rescued when the door handle failed and I was trapped inside.

keffie12 · 05/10/2025 21:45

Good grief yes my phone goes everywhere with me. My life is on my phone inc bank apps, cards etc

August1980 · 05/10/2025 21:46

Op, I don’t take my phone everywhere. Which is a bit of a pain really as all the making meters where I need to go are pay by phone… I find this very irritating as sometimes I want a phone free day!
also annoying is all locality catds are no on apps! I am missing out on points because I don’t simply don’t have my phone!
It’s totally a me problem, but just wanted to say I am ok mostly without my phone!

Toofficeornot · 05/10/2025 21:56

Yes, sadly mine is basically part of my body now. I take it to bed and even the loo, dont even know why.

GameofPhones · 05/10/2025 21:56

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 05/10/2025 21:19

AppleCare Theft and Loss is administered through AIG which has nothing to do with the companies that Which is taking legal action against.

Edited

I just looked up AIG on Trustpilot.

DingDongJingle · 05/10/2025 22:09

GameofPhones · 05/10/2025 21:56

I just looked up AIG on Trustpilot.

And?

PeachShaker · 05/10/2025 22:17

SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:09

That sounds really weird, I hate carrying stuff. Don't usually lock the door so I don't have to take keys

What if a helpful neighbour or the wind shuts it? It’s easy enough to slip a single key in a pocket or on a chain round your neck. You wouldn’t have even notice you were carrying it

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 05/10/2025 22:18

GameofPhones · 05/10/2025 21:56

I just looked up AIG on Trustpilot.

Well thank goodness for that.

I work in insurance and I’ve had AIG policies of various types over the last two decades. My family and I have made many AppleCare+ claims.

But you’ve looked them up on Trustpilot now so finally I can find out whether or not they are likely to replace my phone if I lose or break it, which they’ve already done for me and my family several times before.

DingDongJingle · 05/10/2025 22:18

PeachShaker · 05/10/2025 22:17

What if a helpful neighbour or the wind shuts it? It’s easy enough to slip a single key in a pocket or on a chain round your neck. You wouldn’t have even notice you were carrying it

My door shuts without locking. You need a key to lock it.
I’m not defending the OP for not locking her door (it’s madness!) but not everyone has doors that lock behind them. If a neighbour or the wind shut my door it would be shut, not locked.