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Surely you don't carry your phone everywhere?

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SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:06

Every time there's a discussion about civil liberties, for instance at the moment with ID cards, people always say, why are you worried they can track you by your phone anyway. But that implies that people are always carrying their phones.

I have a phone, I have to for work, and it's very useful outside work as well. I sometimes use it for navigation, and on certain instances I might take it with me if there's a chance I'll need to liaise with someone while out. Super helpful technology.

But surely people aren't taking it to the shops, or on the school run, or out for a walk in the countryside?

OP posts:
cherish123 · 04/10/2025 20:53

anniegun · 04/10/2025 20:50

Is this post from 1995?

Although in 1995, there were still telephone boxes.

cherish123 · 04/10/2025 20:57

EverardDeTroyes · 04/10/2025 18:46

I am not the most modern up to date individual but yes I take my phone everywhere with me when I go out. At home, no, it can sit all day in one room untouched, but always when I go out. I don't usually use the phone part of it. When I'm at the supermarket, I have my shopping list written on it; when I go for a walk, I take photos with it, or listen to music, or use the map feature; in the car, I find it easier to use the sat nav feature than to use the inbuilt car sat nav; when I go to an appointment, I read on my phone while waiting; the list goes on.

Edited to add: I'm in my 60s. I don't think it is just a young person thing.

Edited

Agreed. My 85 year-old in laws are glued to their phones.

Alideascope · 04/10/2025 20:58

I'm late thirties and I leave mine behind whenever I can. Don't turn it on for days sometimes. If there is a digital ID card thing I will not participate and if it's mandatory I'll leave the country. It's a line in the sand for me.

Mew2 · 04/10/2025 20:59

I take my mobile phone everywhere

  1. What about someone has an accident and you need to phone 999- I have what 3 words to be able to tell the emergency services where I am. Yes I think about this due to emergencies my family has had and coming across things as I am out and about
  2. What about a family member trying to get hold of you because they have an accident or a seizure or anaphylactic reaction
  3. Maybe use an app for a store card
  4. Using as sat nav because the traffic is bad- you get yourself lost walking or anything else....
Alideascope · 04/10/2025 21:00

CherrieTomaties · 04/10/2025 20:26

Plugging a phone into a charger is “too faffy”?

Dear me OP😂I honestly don’t want to sound rude but it appears you have no idea about living in the modern world.

My car is a 2008. A right old banger. But I bought a USB port thing that plugs into my cig lighter, then I just use a cable for my phone which chargers it whilst I’m driving. More modern cars have wireless phone charger pads in them though.

Clearly she does live in the modern world though, since she's alive at the same time as you. Doesn't have to do it the way you do it though. Omnipresent tech is not a good thing.

RedRiverShore5 · 04/10/2025 21:02

It's sad that people are so worried about all these dire things that might happen if they haven't got a phone at all times.

boxofbuttons · 04/10/2025 21:02

PistachioTiramisu · 04/10/2025 19:26

How desperately sad.

You think it's sad to be able to book train tickets and pay for things....? If someone said "I can't go anywhere without being surgically glued to TikTok" then fine, but now that so many things including booking systems, payment systems, school/work contact etc are all done via email or digitally, it's very easy for those things to be fairly central to your life!

BoredZelda · 04/10/2025 21:02

Are you honestly that naive? Have you heard of Apple pay?

BashfulClam · 04/10/2025 21:03

SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:06

Every time there's a discussion about civil liberties, for instance at the moment with ID cards, people always say, why are you worried they can track you by your phone anyway. But that implies that people are always carrying their phones.

I have a phone, I have to for work, and it's very useful outside work as well. I sometimes use it for navigation, and on certain instances I might take it with me if there's a chance I'll need to liaise with someone while out. Super helpful technology.

But surely people aren't taking it to the shops, or on the school run, or out for a walk in the countryside?

Yes I do. On a walk I might break my ankle and need assistance, I use it as a payment method, calculator, diary, notepad etc….why wouldn’t you take it everywhere?

AgreeToDisagreeSometimes · 04/10/2025 21:03

SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:09

That sounds really weird, I hate carrying stuff. Don't usually lock the door so I don't have to take keys

You’re in the minority so maybe need to rethink your definition of “weird”

i understand if you don’t have a smart phone though and don’t use it the same way as the majority of us.

Your logic of carrying too much stuff doesn’t apply to me. I carry less as ALL my loyalty cards, bank cards, tickets/travel passes are on my phone so I don’t have to take my purse/bag out when I go to the shops.

On the school run, it’s a life line for some parents if another is running late and need an unexpected favour related to a child.

navigating on country walks is essential if you don’t know the area well or god forbid, you need to call for help.

My phone also shows me where I’ve parked my car - particularly useful in a new multi story car park!

DingDongJingle · 04/10/2025 21:04

RedRiverShore5 · 04/10/2025 21:02

It's sad that people are so worried about all these dire things that might happen if they haven't got a phone at all times.

No, I’m not worried that they might happen if I haven’t got my phone on me. They might happen whether I’ve got my phone on me or not. It’s often just easier to deal with them if I’ve got my phone on me. Why wouldn’t I want to make my life easier?

Q2C4 · 04/10/2025 21:05

I have a medical condition for which treatment is managed via a smartphone. I have to be in Bluetooth range 24/7 or the monitoring stops. So yes, I take my phone everywhere with me.

RedRiverShore5 · 04/10/2025 21:05

DingDongJingle · 04/10/2025 21:04

No, I’m not worried that they might happen if I haven’t got my phone on me. They might happen whether I’ve got my phone on me or not. It’s often just easier to deal with them if I’ve got my phone on me. Why wouldn’t I want to make my life easier?

So if you even popped next door you would take it.

WonderfulSmith · 04/10/2025 21:05

RedRiverShore5 · 04/10/2025 21:02

It's sad that people are so worried about all these dire things that might happen if they haven't got a phone at all times.

People aren’t worried about these things. I’m never worried about having an accident or needing to call someone an ambulance etc but to have your phone with you would seem to be sensible in the unlikely event of something like that happening. It doesn’t mean that I’m in a state of panic about it the whole time.

SouthernNights59 · 04/10/2025 21:06

I'm in my 60s and always take my phone with me when I leave the house.

DingDongJingle · 04/10/2025 21:07

RedRiverShore5 · 04/10/2025 21:05

So if you even popped next door you would take it.

My next door is 2 miles away, so yeah.

andanotherproblem · 04/10/2025 21:07

I couldn’t go anywhere without my phone. I don’t even bring cards with me as it’s all on my phone

WonderfulSmith · 04/10/2025 21:08

RedRiverShore5 · 04/10/2025 21:05

So if you even popped next door you would take it.

What would be the benefit of not putting my phone in my pocket of if I popped next door?

usernamealreadytaken · 04/10/2025 21:08

SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:06

Every time there's a discussion about civil liberties, for instance at the moment with ID cards, people always say, why are you worried they can track you by your phone anyway. But that implies that people are always carrying their phones.

I have a phone, I have to for work, and it's very useful outside work as well. I sometimes use it for navigation, and on certain instances I might take it with me if there's a chance I'll need to liaise with someone while out. Super helpful technology.

But surely people aren't taking it to the shops, or on the school run, or out for a walk in the countryside?

I stopped carrying a handbag/purse, and just take my phone and keys wherever I go. My payment card and any loyalty cards are in my secure wallet, and I don’t need anything else.

ChicJoker · 04/10/2025 21:08

My phone only leaves my hand if I’m cooking in which case it’s right next to me propped up or if I’m actively wiping on the toilet.

PickAChew · 04/10/2025 21:09

SEmyarse · 04/10/2025 17:09

That sounds really weird, I hate carrying stuff. Don't usually lock the door so I don't have to take keys

Well that's just daft.

MaurineWayBack · 04/10/2025 21:10

AgreeToDisagreeSometimes · 04/10/2025 21:03

You’re in the minority so maybe need to rethink your definition of “weird”

i understand if you don’t have a smart phone though and don’t use it the same way as the majority of us.

Your logic of carrying too much stuff doesn’t apply to me. I carry less as ALL my loyalty cards, bank cards, tickets/travel passes are on my phone so I don’t have to take my purse/bag out when I go to the shops.

On the school run, it’s a life line for some parents if another is running late and need an unexpected favour related to a child.

navigating on country walks is essential if you don’t know the area well or god forbid, you need to call for help.

My phone also shows me where I’ve parked my car - particularly useful in a new multi story car park!

I find it fascinating because I’ve never used my phone in that way.

I haven’t relied/contacted another parent because late picking up etc.. nor has anyone contacted me
I’m using a map rather my phone for walks - too worried about running out of power mid walk!!
And I just make a point if remembering where I park. Like I’ve always done.

Which shows we all use our phones for very different reasons. And there isn’t ONE way or THE way that make other people ‘weird’

Hankunamatata · 04/10/2025 21:12

My cards are in my phone so yes it goes everywhere

cardibach · 04/10/2025 21:12

Troublein · 04/10/2025 17:25

My phone lives in an RFID box in the hall and hardly ever comes out.

If I'm going out somewhere I might bring it with me, but 90% of the time I don't.

Anyone who actually knows me can contact me without a phone.
Anyone who doesn't know how to get in touch with me any other way, is someone I don't need to hear from.

How are they contact8n* you? People who know me use my mobile -either a call or text.

Sandinyourshoes · 04/10/2025 21:15

Not locking the door when you go out is one thing and would invalidate any insurance. But do you lock the door when you’re in the house, say in bed? There are burglars who just go round trying doors to see who’s forgotten to lock up. wouldn’t want to wake up to that. Even in a nice quiet area, this can happen, our neighbour found someone sleeping in their car which they hadn’t locked.
I’ve carried my phone everywhere for years now and I’m late 60s. it counts my steps and flights climbed, walking steadiness etc which I check occasionally as I have to keep active. It’s also my memory these days with its notes app! I'm always making notes of things to check when I have time later on. And I always have something to read on kindle.
If you don’t want to be tracked, put it on airplane mode, not everything needs a signal.
Last time I was in a phone box several years ago it was unpleasant and smelled of urine.

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