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"Jihad": A few things don't add up...?

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Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 18:48

I know it's early days and we don't have much info to go on about the killer at the Manchester synagogue. But this BBC news article is very confusing.

He's described as a "35-year-old British citizen of Syrian descent" who "was granted British citizenship in 2006 when he was around the age of 16" ... my maths is shit, but 2025 minus 2006 = 19...? Other articles says he was a minor when he was given citizenship.

Apparently he was "on police bail after being arrested on suspicion of rape at the time of the killings" but "was not charged with the offence."

His parents, understandably, have made a strong statement distancing themselves from his actions, but the article goes on to say:

A post on his father's Facebook page, which has been verified by the BBC, appears to praise the 7 October attack by Hamas.
... The post reads: "The scenes broadcast by the Al-Aqsa Martyrs Brigades showing a group of fighters storming an occupation army camp with simple means, balloons and motorcycles, prove beyond any doubt that Israel is not here to stay.
"Men like these prove that they are Allah's men on earth, regardless of who leads them, they are the true compass for men confident in their victory, even if their resources are few."

It also says his father is a surgeon... and that "Jihad" was his birth name.

I'm not sure where to begin processing all this information, if it's true. Quite surprised to find it reported by the BBC to be honest.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c0q7y72kppgo

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IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 03/10/2025 21:46

Catsandcheese · 03/10/2025 19:42

I’ve just had a family member in hospital these past few weeks. There were only staff from the Middle East and Asia, doctors and nursing staff.
Everyone we had dealings with was amazing.
So no I am not kidding.

Your family member wasn’t Jewish were they ?

WhitegreeNcandle · 03/10/2025 21:46

Whatsinanamehey · 03/10/2025 21:36

Also dropping your child to a friends house alone isn't always the cultural norm and this isn't necessarily because of Islam. In some cultures young children only go unaccompanied to homes of close relatives. Tbf when i was a child I hardly went to any friends houses nor did they come to mine. Im talking about other Muslim friends here too, we mostly just all used to play outside on the street.

They are 12! I’ve always offered for the parent to come in and have a cup of tea the first time a friend comes to play. Dozens and dozens of friends have done this over the years. The Muslim families (excepting the one who brought both parents and stayed for 2.5 hrs) decline. It’s more than just being uncertain about a new friend.

Whatsinanamehey · 03/10/2025 21:50

WhitegreeNcandle · 03/10/2025 21:46

They are 12! I’ve always offered for the parent to come in and have a cup of tea the first time a friend comes to play. Dozens and dozens of friends have done this over the years. The Muslim families (excepting the one who brought both parents and stayed for 2.5 hrs) decline. It’s more than just being uncertain about a new friend.

That's quite odd. My DC go to their friends houses who are not Muslim and they come to ours. It's never been an issue.

I know my parents were definitely more reserved but as I said, they had the same attitude about me going over to Muslim friends too.

MsJinks · 03/10/2025 21:53

Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 20:33

Yes, there are some wrong'uns in all walks of life, including healthcare, unfortunately.

But not all of them wield the power of life and death, as a surgeon potentially does.

And being anti-vax etc, though concerning, isn't quite in the same league as rejoicing over the slaughter of Jewish people and framing it as some kind of divine mission 😬

(Edited for typos. Trying to eat fish & chips!!!!)

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No - and I am sorry that it looked like I was implying being anti vax was anyway similar to choosing to carry out heinous and abhorrent acts.
I think in this case I mention, the ethics of the role outweigh personal considerations - I would like to think that’s normally the case.
I’m not sure how we can moderate potential risks where it may not - membership/allegiance to terror organisations seems reasonable in many occupations but I guess most wouldn’t really mention that up front.
Ah - love a Friday chippy - enjoy!

ForCraftyWriter · 03/10/2025 22:00

Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 19:09

I didn't know that, either. Hopefully it has a more benign meaning than the one we tend to associate with it!

You do need to ask yourself where you are getting your “factual” information about other cultures and races from 🙄. Obviously Jihad has a normal ordinary meaning which isn’t the one you’ve been exposed to by the self serving media.

stomachamelon · 03/10/2025 22:03

I am worried about the doctor/ people in authority thing. There was a poster the other day who spoke openly about dislike for a community they specifically dealt with (on here) Intolerance is one thing but we trust the people who are dealing with us when we are vulnerable. They do need to be vetted properly.

If the person who carried out this attacks family also Lean that way or have possibly stoked the flames of someone mentally unwell they should face serious consequences.

Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 22:07

ForCraftyWriter · 03/10/2025 22:00

You do need to ask yourself where you are getting your “factual” information about other cultures and races from 🙄. Obviously Jihad has a normal ordinary meaning which isn’t the one you’ve been exposed to by the self serving media.

What dubious "factual" information about other cultures and races am I expressing on this thread?

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soupyspoon · 03/10/2025 22:11

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 03/10/2025 21:38

Yeah I think there is a bit of confusion over the name as you say 35 years ago could have been different.I think in this country now we are used to the term “holy jihad” meaning something a bit stronger than negative thoughts against someone.
Whilst you say the family ie the father have condemned his actions, only 5 days ago the father posted this.

So he knew. Wow

Is he one of the ones arrested then, it mentioned 3 people have been arrested

TomPinch · 03/10/2025 22:14

soupyspoon · 03/10/2025 20:55

Yes certainly although I would loosely argue that wars in the West are largely allies supporting a victim country, if you like. Or the main powers feeling obliged to step in to right previous wrongs (which was wrong to do)

I think the past 30 years or so has lessened the instinct to get involved in others warfare, although of course it still happens and we sell arms and support various regimes this way

Whereas religious war is about gaining the person, the control, the land, the high ground, the destruction of the other.

The thing about any set of values, whether or not it involves belief in God, is that all sorts of other things ride on its coat tails though. So on one level the invasion of Iraq was about removing Saddam Hussein. On another level it was about imposing Western control in the Middle East. So, a mixture of belief, politics, self-interest and so forth. I can't think of an ostensibly religious war that is different. I've got no issue with someone who says Western values are best. I do have an issue with the idea that they're less belligerent as I don't think the recent historical record shows this. The US, the UK etc have pretty much always been at wae with someone in my lifetime.

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Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 22:16

MsJinks · 03/10/2025 21:53

No - and I am sorry that it looked like I was implying being anti vax was anyway similar to choosing to carry out heinous and abhorrent acts.
I think in this case I mention, the ethics of the role outweigh personal considerations - I would like to think that’s normally the case.
I’m not sure how we can moderate potential risks where it may not - membership/allegiance to terror organisations seems reasonable in many occupations but I guess most wouldn’t really mention that up front.
Ah - love a Friday chippy - enjoy!

No, don't apologise, I understood what you meant. I'm just being a bit pedantic about trying to say what I mean as there is great potential for the thread to go haywire like so many others!

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JazzyBBBG · 03/10/2025 22:28

The way they just announced on the news "may have been influenced by radical Islamic groups"...

No shit. Like this was a surprise. Oh and the rape... watch it there will be plenty more to come.

MajesticWhine · 03/10/2025 22:32

JazzyBBBG · 03/10/2025 22:28

The way they just announced on the news "may have been influenced by radical Islamic groups"...

No shit. Like this was a surprise. Oh and the rape... watch it there will be plenty more to come.

Yeah, in another headline news, bears were revealed to shit in the woods.

PropertyD · 03/10/2025 22:32

JazzyBBBG · 03/10/2025 22:28

The way they just announced on the news "may have been influenced by radical Islamic groups"...

No shit. Like this was a surprise. Oh and the rape... watch it there will be plenty more to come.

He also seems to have a wife and child and was living with his mother having split up

Algen · 03/10/2025 22:33

MajesticWhine · 03/10/2025 22:32

Yeah, in another headline news, bears were revealed to shit in the woods.

Has someone discovered the Pope is Catholic yet?

Noodledog · 03/10/2025 22:34

TakeMe2Insanity · 03/10/2025 21:01

General fyi, theres 2.1 billion muslims in the world.

And how many of them live in countries with freedom of religion and respect for women, gay men and lesbians?

StormAmy · 03/10/2025 22:36

User37482 · 03/10/2025 19:07

Jihad is not an unusual name for arabs tbh

True - Arabic, jihad literally means "striving" or "struggle," often in the sense of striving for a good cause or self-improvement, not only in the military sense. Because of this broader meaning, it has been used as a personal name.

Noodledog · 03/10/2025 22:37

PollyPaintsFlowers · 03/10/2025 21:20

I think radical Islam and the far left make strong bedfellows and I see far more social division coming from those quarters than the far right. The media, both traditional and online make a conceited effort to point at the far right but if you look at the numbers of marches, unrest and arrests, and the MI5 terrorist watch list, the danger is coming from the far left and RI

I think one thing about the left that is quite striking is how many of them are, at worst, total misogynists, and at best, have very little regard for women's rights. It's been one of the most depressing realisations of my life.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 03/10/2025 22:40

TakeMe2Insanity · 03/10/2025 21:00

Source

So as you were asking for a source,what are you thoughts now you have seen sources.

Noodledog · 03/10/2025 22:40

nhsmanagersanonymous · 03/10/2025 20:06

You lost me at the point where you were unable to add 19 and 16 but felt qualified to pontificate on events nevertheless

So if someone makes a simple error in adding up that means you disregard anything else they might say? How convenient for you, saves you needing to actually make any kind of argument.

ProfessorLayton1 · 03/10/2025 22:40

Whatsinanamehey · 03/10/2025 21:30

I agree with this, there was alot of open racism and many Muslims were scared for their children and for themselves. Not just because they were Muslim but because they were brown and often on the receiving end of abuse.

Brown Hindus, Sikhs would have faced the same racism and why are their attitudes different ?

SummerEve · 03/10/2025 22:46

Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 19:09

I didn't know that, either. Hopefully it has a more benign meaning than the one we tend to associate with it!

It does.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 03/10/2025 22:46

Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 21:16

I'm not really interested in what weird things happen with the distortion/misinterpretation of Islam in other countries. I'm worried about radical Islam in the UK and how it is fracturing society.

Ok I agree with you except it kind of mirrors what’s happening in other European countries and it’s useful to see how they have dealt with problem radicals.

zeddybrek · 03/10/2025 22:47

PollyPaintsFlowers · 03/10/2025 21:45

Is it just a fringe extreme though? I mean the amount of people who'd commit a terrorist attack is a small percentage but how widespread is the low level stuff like this

I was in an Uber and the Asian driver just suddenly started giving me a diatribe on how Israel were ISIS, that it stood for the Israeli Secret Intelligence Service! 😵‍💫 He actually really believed it

Another occasion I was having a conversation with a young Asian guy and we got on to the subject of travelling we'd done. I mentioned I'd been in the Middle East and had visited Israel and he kept making a real point of correcting me to call it Palestine

Why did these two men feel the need to ram their anti-Jewish conspiracy theory and politics down my throat?

There are approximately 2 billion Muslims to provide context. Some will be idiots and believe anything on the internet. Just like non Muslims.
I'm also sorry that you experienced both incidents. Both men sound awful.

MyFunnyJoker · 03/10/2025 22:47

Beachtastic · 03/10/2025 18:48

I know it's early days and we don't have much info to go on about the killer at the Manchester synagogue. But this BBC news article is very confusing.

He's described as a "35-year-old British citizen of Syrian descent" who "was granted British citizenship in 2006 when he was around the age of 16" ... my maths is shit, but 2025 minus 2006 = 19...? Other articles says he was a minor when he was given citizenship.

Apparently he was "on police bail after being arrested on suspicion of rape at the time of the killings" but "was not charged with the offence."

His parents, understandably, have made a strong statement distancing themselves from his actions, but the article goes on to say:

A post on his father's Facebook page, which has been verified by the BBC, appears to praise the 7 October attack by Hamas.
... The post reads: "The scenes broadcast by the Al-Aqsa Martyrs Brigades showing a group of fighters storming an occupation army camp with simple means, balloons and motorcycles, prove beyond any doubt that Israel is not here to stay.
"Men like these prove that they are Allah's men on earth, regardless of who leads them, they are the true compass for men confident in their victory, even if their resources are few."

It also says his father is a surgeon... and that "Jihad" was his birth name.

I'm not sure where to begin processing all this information, if it's true. Quite surprised to find it reported by the BBC to be honest.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c0q7y72kppgo

BBC are notorious for spreading lies. I suggest The Guardian if you want accurate reporting.