I've been seeing a man for nearly a year. I never thought he was "the one", wasn't looking for that, but he was kind, reliable good company and likes to "do" things.
After a long marriage with a man who'd have lived entirely on the sofa if I didn't make plans, it was lovely to have someone around who organised trips and days out. It was "nice".
He'd been single for a long time and inexperienced, sex was not very good and for a long time he seemed unbothered about it. I'd have liked it to be better, but having experienced some of what's available for my age bracket on OLD, I decided it wasn't a deal breaker amd was enjoying life.
Then, almost overnight he seems to have found his groove, is now loving sex, much better at it, and wants much more of it.
The whole relationship "feel" has changed and it really feels like I've fallen for him....which wasn't part of the plan at all.