8 months on does he love me

[Ghlp]

Both in our fifties. Seeing each other for 8 months. Odd weekend away. No one has said I love you. Is it time to look elsewhere

All very polite but just doesn’t seem to be going anywhere

Do you love him?

I think so

I don’t want to say it in case he doesn’t feel the same

Go off his actions rather than what he does or doesn’t say.

If you don't ask you won't know.

I suppose so he is kind and considerate but is like that with everyone x

Maybe he's not saying it for the same reason as you.

Just ask

That’s true. I think I’m beginning to pull away from him in case I get hurt though

I have said I don’t know how you feel and not got a response

He doesn't love you. If you want love yes, look elsewhere. Is that what you want? Movie romantic love?

It's not real, but if it is this certainly isn't it.

I want to know he isn’t using me. That he cares

Totally confused about movie lover

If you dumped him would he be meh? If so there is your answer.

Please will you quote people when you're replying.

Can you ask him?

Would he be honest though

Men are simple. If he loves you he’ll have told you.
and if he’s too scared blah blah blah you don’t want a man like that anyway

So it’s the end?

What would he do if you didn't contact him for a few days?

We are in contact multiple times a day so he would be worried

Does he make you feel loved? Maybe he is just as nervous as you?

Tell hom you've fallen in love with him, ask if he feels you're in a serious relationship. Hopefully he'll say it back and agree, if not you'll soon know. Hope it works out.

Thank you