I’m trying to remember a scene in a tv show or movie and it’s driving me mad. One character says to the other (who’s a female) that something is “nothing personal”, and she goes off into a tearful rant about how she hates that phrase, and what it really means is that it’s nothing personal to the person saying it, but it’s very much personal to the person hearing it.
I watch a lot of low-brow stuff, so it’ll probably be from something like Friends/Gilmore Girls or similar!