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Turning 50

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mydays235 · 06/09/2025 20:42

Hi, I'm turning 50 in a few months and I'm at a loss at what to do. I have recently split from my partner, have drifted away from friends and money is tight.
I'm getting very anxious at the thought of sitting alone! Any ideas on what to do?
TIA

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pointythings · 06/09/2025 22:10

Contact your friends. Do something with them - it doesn't have to cost a lot, it can be a bring and share meal and some nice drinks. But celebrate it. My 50th was the year I was divorcing my alcoholic DH. It was the year he died of his alcohol abuse. It was also the year of freedom, the year of peace in our home with me and my DC. Money was tight (until he died) but we had light and happiness in our home. I had a BBQ in the garden. People brought dishes. It was informal, fun, wonderful. Give yourself that.

I'm 57 now and I've had 7 wonderful single years. No more men in my life (except the furry feline ones who are part of the household).

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