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Baby dies of whooping cough. Concerns about vaccine hesitancy.

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flyingsquirrelsagogo · 31/08/2025 10:38

Article on the the BBC website today. It’s so sad.
Vaccines are probably the most important public health measure ever introduced. But they’ve been so successful that people forget how awful things were before we had them and how deadly the diseases were.

Baby dies of whooping cough after mother not vaccinated while pregnant https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2xe5l4mn5o

A close-up shot of a baby's feet. The infant is lying down and has a white hospital tag around their ankle. The rest of the baby is blurry.

Baby dies of whooping cough after mother not vaccinated while pregnant

The first death from the illness this year comes as vaccination rates among children have declined.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2xe5l4mn5o

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whatsit84 · 31/08/2025 12:53

Wornouttoday · 31/08/2025 11:09

The mother in this case acted stupidly and foolishly and her own baby has paid the highest price. It’s unutterably tragic. The poor baby had no choice in the matter.

Vaccine hesitancy is a euphemism for foolish and selfish refusal to be vaccinated against potentially fatal illnesses.

I wish our government would do what some countries do - not allow parents to register at nurseries and schools unless they’re fully vaccinated.

I don’t understand why this isn’t a thing in the UK. Surely that would improve take up?!

Beachtastic · 31/08/2025 12:56

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blueflannel · 31/08/2025 12:59

Bumblebee72 · 31/08/2025 12:07

It's always tragic when a baby dies from something easily preventable. If the mother turned down the vaccine, hopefully she will be prosecuted for manslaughter. There needs to be a message sent to the anti-vax morons.

That would be horrific and not appropriate at all. It would cause huge resentment and possibly make the situation much worse.

Mumofteenandtween · 31/08/2025 13:02

Vaccines are the absolute definition of “victims of their own success”.

We don’t fear polio or typhoid or measles any more because many of us do not know someone who has been harmed by them.

But they are bloody terrifying!

sakura06 · 31/08/2025 13:04

I had whooping cough as a little kid as me and my brother weren’t allowed the vaccine due to a medical condition my mum had. It was absolutely horrific. Even though I was only around 5, I remember gasping for air. A friend born in another country had Polio as a child which has impacted a leg. Vaccinations are so important. This is a tragic story.

HouseTour · 31/08/2025 13:05

Sleepygrumpyandnothappy · 31/08/2025 11:14

That is not the most effective comms strategy though. Vaccine take up is dreadful, the NHS needs to be approaching this the way any other organisation would think about user engagement.

Oh and incidentally my borough has one of the worst take up rates in the country. Vaccines aren’t offered at routine midwife appointments and neither the hospital or community midwives mention pharmacies as an option. Connection maybe?

And yes for people concerned, my son has had everything since. (Including basics like err, a midwife visiting us at home after discharge, which unbelievably I had to advocate for and escalate through other channels because the aforementioned hospital fucked up the paperwork.)

Not the most effective communication strategy? Oh give over.

vaccinating babies is the PARENTS responsibility. If any mum needed more than a letter to vaccinate a child because of the 'communication' they should be charged with neglect. Anyone who doesn't vax unless for medical reasons should be done for neglect. Your child maybe 3 now but you were irresponsible and careless not to get whooping cough.

my twin sister died of whooping cough. We were both extremely premature so didn't get the chance to be jabbed for it via my mum.

you could have laid privately or gone to a chemist. I can't believe at same mother but just think 'oh well can't find the nurse I'll risk it.'

blows my mind. Be grateful that other parents like us who do vax kids make your child's risk lower due to herd immunity.

did your son have the vitamin K shot?

chrith · 31/08/2025 13:07

the Covid pandemic really brought the anti vax nut jobs out of the woodwork. I was surprised how many seemingly intelligent friends of mine posted insane conspiracy bullshit on facebook during the pandemic. It’s caused (along with the Andrew Wakefield scandal) untold harms.

HouseTour · 31/08/2025 13:08

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 31/08/2025 11:31

Well I would call:

  • announcing women's names from her list (we were all the in the GD test clinic)
  • asking them loudly if they'd had the vaccine
  • asking them follow up questions about their "reasons for refusing the vaccine"
  • stating that they "needed to record the reason for refusal"

Bullying.

I already had the vaccine, and I didn't appreciate the fact that a) the woman responsible had no record and b) she was making my special category health data available in this fashion.

A useless strategy anyway, as she didn't convince anyone to take the vaccine who hadn't already had it.

That is meant to be bullying?😳

blueflannel · 31/08/2025 13:11

chrith · 31/08/2025 13:07

the Covid pandemic really brought the anti vax nut jobs out of the woodwork. I was surprised how many seemingly intelligent friends of mine posted insane conspiracy bullshit on facebook during the pandemic. It’s caused (along with the Andrew Wakefield scandal) untold harms.

I think actually vaccine fear after Covid is justified due to what happened to some people who had the AZ jab. It’s natural for people to be scared but it was quickly identified and the public were made aware quickly, to me that shows that if there’s an issue with a particular vaccine the government act on that quickly and withdraw it. For others they may develop a fear of all vaccines . Calling them nut jobs won’t help or reassure. Educating is key. Getting vaccines out into the community would help too similar to the flu vaccine programme at schools. Take the vaccines where they are needed.

chrith · 31/08/2025 13:13

blueflannel · 31/08/2025 13:11

I think actually vaccine fear after Covid is justified due to what happened to some people who had the AZ jab. It’s natural for people to be scared but it was quickly identified and the public were made aware quickly, to me that shows that if there’s an issue with a particular vaccine the government act on that quickly and withdraw it. For others they may develop a fear of all vaccines . Calling them nut jobs won’t help or reassure. Educating is key. Getting vaccines out into the community would help too similar to the flu vaccine programme at schools. Take the vaccines where they are needed.

no, I agree. And I can only talk about my friends, but some of them were acting in a nut job way. Posting videos of supposedly empty hospitals at the height of the pandemic and saying no one was dying and believing it. That’s insane. I agree that education is key.

ShesTheAlbatross · 31/08/2025 13:15

Bumblebee72 · 31/08/2025 12:07

It's always tragic when a baby dies from something easily preventable. If the mother turned down the vaccine, hopefully she will be prosecuted for manslaughter. There needs to be a message sent to the anti-vax morons.

No. I’m all for vaccination, and my DC have had everything available, and I was vaccinated in pregnancy. But you cannot prosecute a woman for not accepting medication herself, where later on that decision has caused harm to her child. This is different to people not vaccinating their child, which I do think should be more strongly enforced.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 31/08/2025 13:17

flyingsquirrelsagogo · 31/08/2025 12:52

I agree that approach was very heavy handed and really not best practice.

I am interested in what approaches you think will help.
Surely we need to be “proactive”. But how?

One thing I think is missing so far from this thread is that different ethnic backgrounds and cultures have different vaccine take ups for a start.

And these aren't always ill-founded or ignorant - they're based on systematic failures of differentiating clinically for different races - much in the same way women's medicine isn't as well studied, and women's pain isn't as believed.

The successful approaches our charity has undertaken for health inequalities is to take the information into the right places - within the community centres, religious venues and neighbourhoods. Information given in the right language (not just the country language but suitably non-medicalised too).

I often get asked if I have a medical background by health professionals. I don't, but I could easily find and access info about the stages of lochia and say I was at the "lochia alba" stage for example - but it's just not realistic to expect women from poorer backgrounds or those operating in their second language to do so.

blueflannel · 31/08/2025 13:17

chrith · 31/08/2025 13:13

no, I agree. And I can only talk about my friends, but some of them were acting in a nut job way. Posting videos of supposedly empty hospitals at the height of the pandemic and saying no one was dying and believing it. That’s insane. I agree that education is key.

It is quite terrifying how some peoples minds react and it’s actually really sad as they are risking themselves and their dc not to mention others. I take a lot of comfort from the fact the government were very transparent about the clot issues and deaths after AZ vaccines in rare cases it really proved I think that they can act swiftly in response to this kind of thing.

I really feel as well there’s an element of parents being so busy and struggling to access appts too so having community schemes for catch up doses in schools could really help . Often people are much more willing when they don’t have to take time off/ travel etc for something.

ThatCleverCoralCrow · 31/08/2025 13:18

Heart breakingly preventable.

My midwife did my vaccine on the 3rd appointment. No hassle.

ShesTheAlbatross · 31/08/2025 13:21

Owlsandeagles · 31/08/2025 12:51

My daughter caught whooping cough last year. She’s fully vaccinated.
Doc didn’t think she had it for this reason, but her test came back positive.
It was horrific. The sound of her coughing and struggling to breathe over and over was the worst thing I’ve heard. She’d be bright red in the face, vomiting from coughing so much.
I’ll never forget the night she woke up coughing, struggling to breathe then complete silence. I’ve never got out of bed so fast, convinced she’d stopped breathing. It was absolutely awful.

Her cough lasted around 4 months, she still has to have a blue inhaler every now and then as she complains of a tight chest, something which never happened before whooping cough.

I remember seeing a segment on the news of parents saying they hadn’t vaccinated their children against whooping cough but would get if their child started coughing 🙄 , to me these people are the reason my daughter was ill with it. It’s an illness that’s preventable. Why wouldn’t you get your child vaccinated?!!

How awful.

I was once in an A&E waiting room, and a couple brought in a very small baby in a car seat. I’d never heard the “whoop” cough before but as soon as I heard it I thought “oh that’s why it’s called that, that must be whooping cough!”.
They went to the desk where there happened to be a nurse talking to the receptionist. They both peered over the desk, I guess the baby must have looked quite bad (maybe like it wasn’t getting enough air or something) because the nurse immediately said something to the receptionist and took off very very quickly through a door down a corridor, I assume to alert other staff they were coming. The receptionist said to the couple “follow her down there. Run.”

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 31/08/2025 13:25

HouseTour · 31/08/2025 13:08

That is meant to be bullying?😳

What would you call it? (Obviously you didn't witness the patronising tone or the distress of the women who were already there due to concerns about their babies, but I'm sure you can imagine how they felt - though possibly not.)

Have you ever worked with communities who are disadvantaged/disenfranchised? You don't seem to have much of an idea about how very vulnerable some people can be to bullying in an institutional environment.

Perhaps you ought to reflect on the massive imbalance of power some women will feel in these situations if it wouldn't occur to you to feel bullied by such actions? After all, I didn't feel bullied.

Having worked extensively against such barriers myself, yeah, I call it as I see it.

Oh, and you've missed the point (perhaps on purpose), that the data sharing in a public space was illegal.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 31/08/2025 13:31

Oh, and just to add, after all that palaver getting my vaccine, my son still got whooping cough age 1, so did I and my severely asthmatic husband. It was bloody awful.

Which is the nail in the coffin of my distaste for shambolic and bullying delivery of vaccine programmes in my Trust.

sparkleghost · 31/08/2025 13:33

My whooping cough vaccination was a drop in too, but the clinic times were clearly displayed on the website. I had the Whooping Cough & COVID vaccines at the same time. DH came with me and the midwife offered him the COVID jab too - she was lovely. We were in and out in 10 minutes.

Onthebusses · 31/08/2025 13:42

I've looked at a few articles. It doesn't say whether the baby who died had their 3 whooping cough jabs at 8, 12, and 16 weeks, so I'm assuming they were vaccinated against whooping cough via the 6in1 jab?

DemonsandMosquitoes · 31/08/2025 13:53

Sleepygrumpyandnothappy · 31/08/2025 10:41

I don’t disagree that there has been a cultural shift away from vaccines which needs to be addressed. But I didn’t get the whooping cough vaccine in pregnancy because the nurse who was meant to administer them was never in the hospital when I was there for scans. You couldn’t book an appointment, it was a drop in service but fell apart if no one was available for drop ins. I suspect a small proportion of the fall in take up is similar tales of the NHS not working for users.

You should have been told practice nurses can give it (if you can get an appt!). I’ve given hundreds.

ArmchairXpert · 31/08/2025 14:11

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 31/08/2025 11:31

Well I would call:

  • announcing women's names from her list (we were all the in the GD test clinic)
  • asking them loudly if they'd had the vaccine
  • asking them follow up questions about their "reasons for refusing the vaccine"
  • stating that they "needed to record the reason for refusal"

Bullying.

I already had the vaccine, and I didn't appreciate the fact that a) the woman responsible had no record and b) she was making my special category health data available in this fashion.

A useless strategy anyway, as she didn't convince anyone to take the vaccine who hadn't already had it.

Completely agree.

categorychaos · 31/08/2025 14:21

Onthebusses · 31/08/2025 13:42

I've looked at a few articles. It doesn't say whether the baby who died had their 3 whooping cough jabs at 8, 12, and 16 weeks, so I'm assuming they were vaccinated against whooping cough via the 6in1 jab?

The baby was too young to have the vaccine which is why maternal pertussis vaccination is important as it gives newborn protection until they are eligible

Onthebusses · 31/08/2025 14:49

categorychaos · 31/08/2025 14:21

The baby was too young to have the vaccine which is why maternal pertussis vaccination is important as it gives newborn protection until they are eligible

Where did you see the age of the baby? Do they know this? They say 'under 1' but why not say the actual age? Just wondering about that. I know newborns are most at risk, so baby was likely under 4 months when they would have had all three jabs?

Bumblebee72 · 31/08/2025 15:11

ShesTheAlbatross · 31/08/2025 13:15

No. I’m all for vaccination, and my DC have had everything available, and I was vaccinated in pregnancy. But you cannot prosecute a woman for not accepting medication herself, where later on that decision has caused harm to her child. This is different to people not vaccinating their child, which I do think should be more strongly enforced.

Of course you can. Her body, her choice, has to come along with her decision, her consequences.

categorychaos · 31/08/2025 17:26

Onthebusses · 31/08/2025 14:49

Where did you see the age of the baby? Do they know this? They say 'under 1' but why not say the actual age? Just wondering about that. I know newborns are most at risk, so baby was likely under 4 months when they would have had all three jabs?

If the issue was that baby hadn’t had the jab they would not have mentioned the mother being unvaccinated - it was lack of prenatal vaccination that was contributing factor