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Why are governments putting women and girls at higher risk of sex crimes?

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Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 12:37

Fact: Hundreds of thousands of men are entering Europe (as in the continent), from countries where women and girls are second class citizens.
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Fact: The sex crime rate statistics associated with different nationalities living in the UK have been published. An example is provided below.
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….the [sex crime] rates, based on convictions per 10,000 of the population put Afghans, with 77 convictions, at the top with a rate of 59 per 10,000 – 22.3 times that of Britons.
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They were followed by Eritreans, who accounted for 59 convictions at a rate of 53.6 per 10,000 of their population.
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Britons accounted for 12,619 sex offence convictions, representing a rate of 2.66 per per 10,000 of their population in England and Wales.
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https://archive.md/6AXAy Archive version
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Fact: This example data blows up any erroneous claims from people suggesting that British men commit more sex crimes when numbers in the population are accounted for / are more likely to commit a sex crime.
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There’s above is factual data. It is not racist to provide it. To claim this, is quite simply, wrong. Perhaps it’s projection, the mind boggles.

To want ‘no debate’ and bleet on with incorrectly placed accusations of racism, is to shut down people’s valid concerns.

Tin hat on for the people who want no debate on this issue, and instead of protecting women and girls, insist on protecting men from countries where women and girls are treated as second class citizens.

More data has been promised.
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ninjahamster · 26/08/2025 18:58

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 18:46

They’re not ‘my’ facts. Honestly this is the level of discussion you like isn’t it. Rather than a grown up debate. ‘My facts are better than your facts’. Jesus wept.

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You started the whole thread with data that you expected people to read and then agree with you. When other data has been referenced, you just ignore it.
So really, all the data becomes irrelevant because us “lefties” can find data that correlates to our viewpoint too.
Maybe just be honest that you don’t like asylum seekers?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:00

LupaMoonhowl · 26/08/2025 18:53

OP you have made a valiant attempt to raise awareness, but sadly again the thread has been hijacked by those who inexplicably prefer to throw insults rather than address the genuine very serious issues we are facing in this country.

Lol, have you actually read the thread?

The OP made a "valiant attempt"

It was pointed out that the so-called "facts" presented by the OP had been found by a reputable independent fact checker to be seriously flawed.

It was pointed out that over 100 VAWG charities have spoken out against the weaponising of violence against women and girls in the debate about migration.

And, when pushed to comment on the fact check article, the OP distanced themselves from the data by claiming that they weren't "their facts" in any case.

What exactly did you think was valiant?

VegQueen · 26/08/2025 19:00

ForUmberReader · 26/08/2025 13:22

What’s wrong with the data?

The numerator is for number of offences in 2023 and the denominator is the number of people of each nationality in 2021. As we know, there has been a big increase in people coming to the country between 2021 and 2023 and that will make a really big difference seeing as the overall numbers of people are relatively small. For example one of the groups that have the biggest difference are Afghans - but there has been a massive increase in asylum seekers from Afghanistan since the Taliban took over in 2021 so it is completely inappropriate to use an old denominator. You can look up blogs/articles explaining this.The underlying numbers are correct but they have been put together incorrectly.

TopPocketFind · 26/08/2025 19:01

Those facts come from Centre for Migration Control

Ipso Ruling on that article

https://www.ipso.co.uk/rulings/00910-25/

IPSO finds The Telegraph to have breached clause 1 of the Editors’ Code in an article which impressively managed to present data sourced by Rob Bates’ Centre for Migration Control ‘think tank’ more misleadingly than the original CMC report did!

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:02

pointythings · 26/08/2025 18:54

You would be more credible (low bar) if you engaged with a PP's post linking to analysis showing your facts are at the very least disputed. Do you really want a grownup debate, OP?

I’ve not denied the facts provided have been disputed. I’ve said they haven’t been debunked. And they haven’t been debunked.

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Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:04

TopPocketFind · 26/08/2025 19:01

Those facts come from Centre for Migration Control

Ipso Ruling on that article

https://www.ipso.co.uk/rulings/00910-25/

IPSO finds The Telegraph to have breached clause 1 of the Editors’ Code in an article which impressively managed to present data sourced by Rob Bates’ Centre for Migration Control ‘think tank’ more misleadingly than the original CMC report did!

No the facts didn’t ’come from’ the CMC. I’ve provided ref as to where the facts originated. Please rtft. You’ll find the information you need. Of course you can pick and choose to your hearts content. Everyone else seems to..

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:06

PrincessofWells · 26/08/2025 18:59

@mnhq https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/100-womens-rights-groups-warn-against-racist-weaponisation-of-vawg/

Please read this and explain to me how you can allow racist propaganda on this site.

Yes @BeckyAMumsnet, could you explain how this kind of propaganda and disinformation is compatible with the spirit of the site when so many women's charities are calling for it to stop?

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:07

PrincessofWells · 26/08/2025 18:59

@mnhq https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/100-womens-rights-groups-warn-against-racist-weaponisation-of-vawg/

Please read this and explain to me how you can allow racist propaganda on this site.

These groups are talking about far right weaponisation of data. If you and others don’t understand the difference between that and this thread, there’s not much else to say. Some might say that lack of comprehension and differentiation is part of the problem.

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:08

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:02

I’ve not denied the facts provided have been disputed. I’ve said they haven’t been debunked. And they haven’t been debunked.

So tell us why you disagree with the Sky News article. What is it that they have got wrong, exactly?

I'm sure that you will be eager to defend the reliability of your own claims, so go ahead, pull the Sky News Fact Check apart and tell us why you still think you're right.

I'm all ears!

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:09

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:07

These groups are talking about far right weaponisation of data. If you and others don’t understand the difference between that and this thread, there’s not much else to say. Some might say that lack of comprehension and differentiation is part of the problem.

There is no difference.

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:09

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:06

Yes @BeckyAMumsnet, could you explain how this kind of propaganda and disinformation is compatible with the spirit of the site when so many women's charities are calling for it to stop?

’women’s charities’ are calling for far right weaponisation like Tommy Robinson and co to stop. And rightly so. They’re hideous.

This thread, is not that. MN understand that. You do not.

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:11

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:09

’women’s charities’ are calling for far right weaponisation like Tommy Robinson and co to stop. And rightly so. They’re hideous.

This thread, is not that. MN understand that. You do not.

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How is it different?

The far right are spreading disinformation about VAWG in order to stir up fear and hatred of migrants.

You are also spreading disinformation about VAWG. I can only guess at your own motives.

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:13

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:08

So tell us why you disagree with the Sky News article. What is it that they have got wrong, exactly?

I'm sure that you will be eager to defend the reliability of your own claims, so go ahead, pull the Sky News Fact Check apart and tell us why you still think you're right.

I'm all ears!

For the nth time, they are not ‘my own claims’. It is published data, recorded by the police, available only due to a FOI request.

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Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:13

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:11

How is it different?

The far right are spreading disinformation about VAWG in order to stir up fear and hatred of migrants.

You are also spreading disinformation about VAWG. I can only guess at your own motives.

I’ve posted facts. Sorry for you you can’t seem to tell the difference. Suits your agenda I guess..

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PrincessofWells · 26/08/2025 19:16

LupaMoonhowl · 26/08/2025 18:15

Completely disingenuous to characterize ‘racist’ as descriptive - it is clearly pejorative and is clearly intended as an insult.
An insult is a personal attack.
Ironic that those who are most racist are actually those attacking the OP who see only colour, and reduce all ‘non-white’ people to a single category, assuming they must be left wing and pro unrestricted immigration, rather than as people with a whole range of different political views, and families who care about the welfare of their children and protecting them from dangerous and undocumented young males from violent and misogynist countries.

Calling op out as a racist is not a personal attack it's a fact adjudged by the content of their posts. It may be that mn hq believe my judgment is wrong , what do you think?

Do you think racists consider me calling them "racist" is an insult - I suspect not.

ForUmberReader · 26/08/2025 19:17

Lavender14 · 26/08/2025 15:55

"It’s bad luck for the migrant men who are not sex offenders"

We could also treat men here as if they are guilty until proven innocent but we don't because it would be an abuse of their human rights. We used to deport any criminal citizen who was seen as undesirable to Australia. But now we recognise that deporting people we just don't want to deal with is unethical and an abuse of that individuals rights.

Funnily enough the right to seek asylum is also a human right. But you're cool with the abuse of that human right because you don't think you owe migrants anything. That's telling.

It's also interesting given that the UK has been heavily involved over the years in the creation of the instability in many of the countries we are now seeing asylum seekers arriving from. But we don't owe them anything.

You're speaking from a place of immense privilege in saying what you have. It's not all that long ago many people where I live were fleeing the troubles and emigrating to get away from the conflict here. Or during the 'famine' in Ireland when many people sought refuge in other countries. The UK has over the years created many, many asylum seekers and refugees so to me it's very ironic you think we owe them nothing.

You’re illustrating the ‘global family’ perspective very nicely. But the fact remains that one of the most important functions of government is that it protects the interests of its own people. It’s actually a position of privilege (and deep naïvety) to say you can dispense with this principle.

If you believe that a state has a moral duty to correct past wrongs, even against the current interests of its own people (and I think most people wouldn’t subscribe to this), you’re assuming that Britain has indeed had a net detrimental impact on other countries, which is contentious. In the end, even if you subscribe to all of this, surely the appropriate response is to improve the lot of those countries as a whole, not simply to accept whichever people can get visas or risk entering illegally. Such a system of atonement doesn’t make logical sense (because you can’t take everyone and you are probably taking their youngest and most skilled people) and is highly inequitable to the people left behind.

pointythings · 26/08/2025 19:18

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:02

I’ve not denied the facts provided have been disputed. I’ve said they haven’t been debunked. And they haven’t been debunked.

But the fact that they have been disputed means that they are questionable. That makes them somewhat less than facts. They might best be described as 'an analysis subject to dispute'.

The first definition of a fact in the online OED is 'something known or proved to be true'. Your 'facts' fail on that criterion.

If we're going to make policy, it should be based on actual facts. Not the narrative of people with an agenda (as has also been shown to be the case on this thread).

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:19

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:13

For the nth time, they are not ‘my own claims’. It is published data, recorded by the police, available only due to a FOI request.

The raw numbers come from the police. The "analysis", which consists of a deliberate manipulation of the facts with a clear intention to mislead, comes from a far right source. The data that you have quoted is based on the "analysis" rather than the FOI data.

This has already been explained to you but you are choosing not to engage.

And if you present the so-called data in your OP as "fact", which you very enthusiastically did, then they are absolutely "your facts".

I recognise that you are unable to defend them. I will even give you the benefit of the doubt and acknowledge that you didn't realise that you were misrepresenting the data when you first posted. But if you are going to stand by the misinformation quoted in your OP, then it becomes clear that you don't actually care about the truth because you have another agenda that you want to promote.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 26/08/2025 19:22

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:13

I’ve posted facts. Sorry for you you can’t seem to tell the difference. Suits your agenda I guess..

We're going round in circles now. We've established that you didn't post facts and you weren't able to defend your data.

There is no difference between what Tommy Robinson and his ilk are doing, and what you are doing on this thread.

PrincessofWells · 26/08/2025 19:24

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 19:13

For the nth time, they are not ‘my own claims’. It is published data, recorded by the police, available only due to a FOI request.

Academics consider the most reliable crime statistics are those provided by the British Crime Survey. Statistics from the police are notoriously unreliable due to their own racism and targeting of ethnic groups and racial profiling which skews statistics. (Stop and search as an example). Unless you've studied the area of criminal statistics, it's easy to extrapolate incorrect conclusions.

OrangeZebraStripes · 26/08/2025 19:31

PhilippaGeorgiou · 26/08/2025 18:04

@OrangeZebraStripes I just think that's no life at all. Maybe we should have a community centre, somewhere to go and learn some language skills.

I live in a semi-rural area comprising mostly villages clustered around a small city. We have a couple of hotels in the area, and every village has a few HMO's with asylum seekers. The city and every village have an asylum seeker support group that meets at least weekly, and signposts asylum seekers to social and educational activities appropriate to their needs. We also have buddy systems to help people "learn the ropes", plus they get food bank support. Over the last couple of years this has led to the majority of our food bank volunteers actually being asylum seekers or settled refugees. They also volunteer at the local church coffee morning, even though only about 25% of them are Christians. They do litter picks and tidy ups in public spaces and after community activities.

Do we have local racists? Yes we do. They are really good at sloping around hanging flags or making anonymous online posts. They do not, in any way at all, contribute to the local community. They also daren't touch the asylum seekers because the precarious tension is only held in place due to most people not standing up to them. But this is an old community. People have known others, for good or not, for many generations. And step that far out of line... attack someone because of their skin colour, nationality or asylum status - and the village will deal with its own.

The SE is very different. You have areas of very high deprivation, where more services are concentrated, and some affluent areas which have more volunteers.

But other areas (which are prime ground for Reform) seem more apathetic, mainly though it's because housing is expensive, council tax is massive, and people are just trying to get on.

ForUmberReader · 26/08/2025 19:31

Lavender14 · 26/08/2025 16:42

So if a child arrives before you and their relative who had their documentation drowned on the way you'd say... no ta?

There's loads of very valid and logical reasons why someone seeking asylum wouldn't have documentation. I've worked with asylum seekers who were trafficked into forced labour camps and into sex work - first thing that traffickers do is remove your documents so it's harder for you to leave. I've also worked with asylum seekers who were from nomadic tribes who didn't have documentation the way people would coming from different communities. Its also really hard to protect yourself when you're sleeping rough or in a refugee camp and often documentation is stolen. Often women or girls are escaping forced marriage or young men (im talking age 10 and up) escaping being forcibly drafted for war, do you think they were allowed to keep documentation when they were being trained as child soldiers?

They all still have the right to seek asylum and personally I've no interest in watching the UK become a place where we have no compassion for people who have been through horrific trauma. We exist in a position of privilege and we should be prepared to use it. We take in one of the lowest percentages of asylum seekers in Europe.

Compassion is an appropriate emotion for one person to feel for another. It is not a principle on which you can base your immigration policy. If you do, you will firstly not be able to prioritise the interests of your electorate and secondly, you will find that the amount of suffering in the world is too much for your country to handle.

Lavender14 · 26/08/2025 19:31

Absentmindedsmile · 26/08/2025 18:11

As I said to your playground bully friend

VAWG organisations understand the differences between bigoted racists, and people who are concerned with women and girls’ safety. A feat which you so far, have not achieved.

Sorry op, as someone who is high up in one of the VAWG organisations you mention you're going to need to explain to me why you think this when for many years we've been campaigning for better protection and status for trafficked women, better access to resources for trafficked women and promoting the safety and wellbeing of women globally.

I'm still really, really confused why you seem to think organisations like mine or any of the many I work alongside are only concerned about local women's welfare? I have yet to see this on the ground or in media or anywhere else. I have, however, seen opinions like the one you keep raising called out as harmful.

Lavender14 · 26/08/2025 19:36

ForUmberReader · 26/08/2025 19:31

Compassion is an appropriate emotion for one person to feel for another. It is not a principle on which you can base your immigration policy. If you do, you will firstly not be able to prioritise the interests of your electorate and secondly, you will find that the amount of suffering in the world is too much for your country to handle.

Our immigration policy must be based fundamentally on the basic principles of human rights though - and seeking asylum is a human right.

Also, we are not supporting asylum seekers or any other immigrant in a vacuum, there's a whole wide world out there and many countries are doing a heck of a lot more than we are. I'd also gently remind you that many immigrants are propping up our economy, particularly our healthcare system and given that we have an ageing population its very likely that we will get to the point where we are dependent on immigration for jobs that keep us safe and well like care professions. Asylum seekers make up a teeny percentage of immigrants. Many come here and work, aren't entitled to any benefits and support themselves and pay into the local economy via tax. A small, small percentage have their application for asylum declined and go under the radar but those numbers are small in the grand scheme of things.