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How old were you when you became the same height as your parents?

95 replies

OneFancyTealQuail · 15/08/2025 17:05

Probably about 13/14 for me

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spanieleyes · 15/08/2025 20:12

Never. I remember clearly I was 4’2” when I started secondary school and grew a foot in a year, never grew again ! Mum was 5’3 and Dad was 5’8 so I was destined to be short! My sons overtook me when they were about 12/13- both were quite short until early teens and then grew rapidly. They are now 6’1 and 5’11 ( their dad was 6’2)
My mother in law was 5’ exactly and her sister was 4’10, my father in law was 6’ !

AWitchAndHerBitch · 15/08/2025 20:13

tartyflette · 15/08/2025 18:35

My mum was tiny, barely 5 feet and i had an early growth spurt at about 10 or so, I overtook her then.
I was the tallest in my year around then. Mind you, I stopped at 5’4” when i was about 12.

That's uncanny! I was taller than my mum at 10, tallest in my class when I started high school at 11, and I reached my adult height of 5'4" by age 12.

ladyamy · 15/08/2025 20:16

I’m 38 and still not the same height as my mum 😂

elliejjtiny · 15/08/2025 20:17

I was shorter than my dad when he died. I have always been shorter than my mum too but she started shrinking when i was about 35 so i am taller than her now but not by much.

Dearg · 15/08/2025 20:20

Overtook my mum at about 14. She was 5’2” , I am 5’5”. My dad was 6 ‘ so never caught up there.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 15/08/2025 20:21

chowmeinz · 15/08/2025 17:13

I didn’t, I’m a short arse

Don't give up! I was 38 when my mum shrank a bit and suddenly I was taller!

Blarn · 15/08/2025 20:30

I was 39. Mum is 5'8" but a few months ago I noticed she had shrunk so is less than my height of 5'6 now.

BearPear · 15/08/2025 20:31

Never - unless you count it when they are shrinking with age! My mum was 5’6” and my dad probably 5’9” on a good day. I’m 5’4” and I would say that they are both about my height now.

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 15/08/2025 20:33

I haven't.

DC were my height in their early teens. They are late teens/ early 20s now and pretty much the same height as their Father.

frockandcrocs · 15/08/2025 20:33

Never 😂 I’m the shortest in my family (I’m not even that short- I’m 5’7” but they all call me a shortarse. DM & DS are 5’10”, DF was 6’2” and DB IS 6’4”).
I’m above average for a woman 😭😭😂😂

(can you tell this is a picky subject 😂)

tinyspiny · 15/08/2025 20:38

I was as tall as my mum at 9/10 but she was only about 5’4” , I got to 5’8” so never overtook my dad who was about 6’ .

ShiftySquirrel · 15/08/2025 20:39

I didn't, I'm still a half inch shorter than mum (5'6"), and dad is taller (5'10").

My eldest beat me at 15 much to her delight, youngest is 14 and has an inch to go.

Never thought I'd be the shortest at my very average height!

HazeyjaneIII · 15/08/2025 21:01

Never.
I'm 4'11", my mum was 5'4" and my dad was 5'7".

Tulipvase · 15/08/2025 21:07

I didn’t, I’m short. My daughter is a bit shorter than me and has been since she was about 12. My boys are taller and have been since about 11 I guess.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 15/08/2025 21:09

Never.
My growth was stunted due to childhood malnourishment caused by neglect.
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Cormoransjacket · 15/08/2025 21:46

I never grew as tall as either of my parents. My Dad is a foot taller than me and my brother is even taller than him.

EssentiallyDecluttering · 15/08/2025 21:49

I never did, they are both tall. My young adult DCs are the same height or shorter than me too (DH is from a very short family).

IAmNeverThePerson · 15/08/2025 21:50

42 - had to wait for her to shrink.

familyissues12345 · 15/08/2025 22:34

I don’t know for sure, but I think I was fully grown by 13/14 so I guess I would have overtaken Mum aged about 11ish - she’s 5ft 1.5 and I’m 5ft 7.

Dad is 5ft 11 so I’ve never overtaken him!

BunnyLake · 10/11/2025 12:12

Well I never reached my dad’s height (about 6ft) but I probably surpassed my mum’s height when I was in late primary or early seniors (not really something I’d remember specifically). She was 5’1” I’m 5’6”.

CraftyNavySeal · 10/11/2025 12:14

Not until my 20s when they started to shrink.

FlatStanley50 · 10/11/2025 12:16

Like others, I'm still waiting...shorter than both parents (who are already both short)

RuncibleSpoons · 10/11/2025 12:16

No idea. But my parents were both on the short side, my mum was 5’3 and my dad scraped 5’9. I am the same height as him and lucky to be so, as I have 3 sisters that are short.

WonderingWanda · 10/11/2025 12:18

Can't remember, probably around 14 for my dm. My own ds overtook me at a similar age. He is now 6'2". Not sure dd will be taller than me, she's always been on a lower centile than ds and I've always been told I'm tall for a girl.

Harrysmummy246 · 10/11/2025 12:21

Never quite did. I'm not short at 5'8" either but I am the shortest in immediate family.
Ds will Overtake me in early teens I suspect