BF like to shower together, but he means just that, have a shower

[Greak]

He's keen to please and I asked him what he likes. He likes to share a shower.

Now, I've never really enjoyed shower sex. It's cold, awkward, dangerous 😆 but I thought OK let's give it a go and see what he brings!

What he means is he likes to stand under warm water for a few minues, have a wash, maybe wash my hair or back and get out to carry on with our day.

After sex, it is actually quite nice to continue the intimacy, but there's nothing sexy about it, and sometimes it is really only a shower.

It is just me who hasn't experienced a man who wants a shared shower like this before?

Hmmm… his name doesn’t begin with B does it?

my ex did this… I didn’t like it ha as I felt super self conscious…

My ex long term partner & I used to shower together pretty much every morning, it was a nice way to start the day. 'fun in the shower' was good too, but tended to be evenings or 'extra daytime shower'.

it's not weird & it's not weird not to enjoy it. Whatever you want.