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what’s going on with Brooklyn Beckham?

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jallyj · 12/08/2025 10:37

so he’s done a vow renewal after only getting wed in 2022 and none of his siblings or parents were there, just seems to have been organised by his billionaire wife’s parents. It looks like a very deliberate fuck you to his family. What can they have done to deserve such shocking treatment? It’s bizarre. And let’s hope the marriage to the (reportedly prickly, hard work) billionaire works, so he doesn’t have to come crawling back to Mum and Dad………

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14992137/Nicola-Peltz-Brooklyn-Beckham-share-pictures-butterfly-themed-vow-renewal-afterparty-parents-took-centre-stage-guestlist-included-Harvey-Weinsteins-ex-amid-family-feud.html

Nicola Peltz and Brooklyn Beckham share pictures from wedding party

Nicola Peltz and Brooklyn Beckham shared pictures from their vow renewal on Instagram on Monday, which took place at her family's estate in Westchester County on August 2. 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14992137/Nicola-Peltz-Brooklyn-Beckham-share-pictures-butterfly-themed-vow-renewal-afterparty-parents-took-centre-stage-guestlist-included-Harvey-Weinsteins-ex-amid-family-feud.html

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Bambamhoohoo · 17/08/2025 17:47

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 17/08/2025 17:31

IIRC weren't the public cavorting staged photos done in return for the press not publishing the pics the paps caught of her slapping him?

I'm sure it was something like that but after 20 years recollections may vary (to quote nobody in particular!).

I doubt this- they would’ve mainly just been paps selling photos to the highest bidder, not able to make deals on behalf of media outlets.

there was a story at the beginning of their relationship that he kissed (🙄) another woman and she was quite open about punching him in the face - later said it’s not a “sending off” offence. Maybe thinking of that? (And imagine how that confession of domestic violence would be received now 🙈)

it seems like they sometimes were in the tabloids favour, sometimes not, generally based on their people’s relationship with whomever was editor at the time and whether that editor was interested in them or not to sell papers.

the ski chalet situation- being generous, it looks like what we know was a well versed “deal” the papps offered- give us one or two photos and we’ll go away and leave you in peace.

Ironically caught on camera being done to prince harry and family when he was a child.

BearBehavingBadly · 17/08/2025 18:13

Personally I think V should leave D re: all his affairs as he doesn't respect her.
But sometimes you can't help who you love & maybe for all her riches & successes she's a bit scared - after all you only have to read the relationships board to see how cheating and/or abusive men leave even the strongest woman's confidence in tatters.

There's definitely a man out there would love & cherish & stay faithful to Victoria & she deserves this.
Though she might had had enough of blokes!

BreadInCaptivity · 17/08/2025 18:22

Bambamhoohoo · 17/08/2025 17:01

Tbh though I’m surprised that Nicola, as a billionaire heir who grew up in a Hollywood kids circle, would care about brand Beckham. They’re not well known in America. Surely you’d be after plenty of families before then. She could even have found a family that helped her career

I’d say they are far more famous than the P family in the US.

The spice girls were very successful in the US.

DB played in LA and is a co-owner of inter Miami’s.

He’s done a lot of US PR for the above as well as being the face of some high profile brands.

VB’s clothes have been worn on the red carpet by some A list celebrities and she’s good friends with Eva Longoria.

The P’s may outclipse them in wealth but the B’s do the reverse in terms of fame.

Bambamhoohoo · 17/08/2025 18:46

BreadInCaptivity · 17/08/2025 18:22

I’d say they are far more famous than the P family in the US.

The spice girls were very successful in the US.

DB played in LA and is a co-owner of inter Miami’s.

He’s done a lot of US PR for the above as well as being the face of some high profile brands.

VB’s clothes have been worn on the red carpet by some A list celebrities and she’s good friends with Eva Longoria.

The P’s may outclipse them in wealth but the B’s do the reverse in terms of fame.

The peltz family aren’t “famous” at all- they’re business people, socialites.

the Beckhams genuinely aren’t that well known. The stuff you talk about is marginal- think of all the designers who celebs have worn on the red carpet- are they famous? Do you know them just because say Kristen Davies wears them to premiers? The spice girls were 30 years ago!
they are known- in some respects, and some circles but famous, genuinely not.

RitaAndFrank · 17/08/2025 19:05

User14March · 17/08/2025 16:10

I think initially V had all the power & confidence but sadly that shifted.

It shifted when D realised he could have his cake and eat it; I imagine he lost all respect for V when she took him back after the Loos affair. Which happened because by then he had become a monster fuelled by his own deluded ego.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 17/08/2025 23:17

I think N is pregnant and that's the reason for the vow renewal.

I think she has coordinated the fall out between the Beckham's and their son. Men always get absorbed into the woman's family.

ElixirOfLife · 18/08/2025 00:20

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 17/08/2025 23:17

I think N is pregnant and that's the reason for the vow renewal.

I think she has coordinated the fall out between the Beckham's and their son. Men always get absorbed into the woman's family.

Or the opposite - she’s not pregnant and the vow renewals are a filler while they’re trying.

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 18/08/2025 07:50

I think the vow renewals are for (press) attention

They desperately trying to keep a high profile

Lampzade · 18/08/2025 08:11

@RitaAndFrank I agree
DB doesn’t appear to respect his wife and always looks mildly irritated by her
I honestly think that she would be happier in the long run if she left him

Borisssss · 18/08/2025 08:19

RitaAndFrank · 17/08/2025 19:05

It shifted when D realised he could have his cake and eat it; I imagine he lost all respect for V when she took him back after the Loos affair. Which happened because by then he had become a monster fuelled by his own deluded ego.

I imagine he lost all respect for V when she took him back after the Loos affair.

And all the others before and since - she thought she was ‘the cool wife’ saying ‘it’s not a sending off offence’ when he was caught ‘kissing’ 🤔another woman - so much for ‘girl power’.

Lazytiger · 18/08/2025 08:34

Bambamhoohoo · 17/08/2025 12:16

You can’t really compare Kate moss to VB. KM doesn’t like publicity herself so there was never any chance she was going go change when she had children and drag them along for the photos oops she doesn’t even attend .

the Beckhams realised quite early on that their money would come from brand deals and the way they could get brands interested was to brand themselves and use the media. They had to be in a position to demonstrate they would increase sales of the products they were promoting. DB has been good at this, VB has been appalling.

whether or not this approach was a problem for their small children and the resultant upbringing, really only they know. The Beckham children where really the first in the uk to be brought up like this and the only children of a family that has remained famous for 30 years.

Recall a few years ago it was reported in national press that the Beckhams threw the daughter a birthday party at Buckingham Palace (via one of Andrew’s daughters I think). Posh posted pictures all over IG and Stella McCartnet was furious as her daughter was on them and made her remove them.
Few years later it was Stella 50th at a fancy hotel- press reported guests were ‘stunned’ to be presented with a bill for their room/over night stay. Always wondered who might have leaked that non story!

Merrymouse · 18/08/2025 09:11

Bambamhoohoo · 17/08/2025 18:46

The peltz family aren’t “famous” at all- they’re business people, socialites.

the Beckhams genuinely aren’t that well known. The stuff you talk about is marginal- think of all the designers who celebs have worn on the red carpet- are they famous? Do you know them just because say Kristen Davies wears them to premiers? The spice girls were 30 years ago!
they are known- in some respects, and some circles but famous, genuinely not.

They definitely think Nicola is famous. It was part of the law suit against the wedding planners - it was argued that the wedding was "the opportunity of a lifetime" because

"Nicola is a world-famous actress who has starred in blockbuster movies and television shows, including, among others, Transformers: Age of Extinction, Bates Motel and The Last Airbender,".

(Never having watched any of these films and having been previously unaware of her work, I'm not in a position to comment)

Bruisername · 18/08/2025 09:18

I don’t like the whole ‘women pull their husbands away from their family’ as if the husband is some passive pawn. Families need to accept that the reason it tends to be the wife’s family that is closer is because the husband cba to put the same effort with his own

men have a choice to maintain a relationship with their family and ensure it all works. In cases like Harry, I don’t think his wife is keen on his family or bothered by extended family links but the ultimate decision to break away and burn the bridges was his

Lampzade · 18/08/2025 10:59

@Bruisername I agree
Brooklyn is where he wants to be atm.
I wouldn’t be surprised if he was the one who instigated the break up with his family
It is so easy to blame the woman when the reality is ( as you said) men often cba to make the effort with their own families when they marry

User14March · 18/08/2025 11:36

Lampzade · 18/08/2025 10:59

@Bruisername I agree
Brooklyn is where he wants to be atm.
I wouldn’t be surprised if he was the one who instigated the break up with his family
It is so easy to blame the woman when the reality is ( as you said) men often cba to make the effort with their own families when they marry

At what price? Nelson P in renewal photos akin to Godfather laying down conditions/rules. Where does BB get money from? Beckham allowance? If Peltz Sr giving ££ no such thing as free lunch, or house etc.

dayswithaY · 18/08/2025 12:24

I can see parallels with Colleen Rooney. Slightly different as she was just a school girl when she met Wayne, but she has stuck by him while he has behaved appallingly.

They are also all about family but she does seem to be bringing her kids up quietly and she’s carved out a career on her terms.

I feel, with v famous men that the wife feels her identity is wrapped around him (even if she is famous too). Let’s face it, if Vic left him, David would get himself a much younger, hotter, girlfriend as quick as a flash. They would then be the tabloid’s obsession, they might even have kids together so David can reinvent himself again.

Vic is left looking like the older, redundant first wife. She has worked way too hard and looked the other way too many times to let that happen.

They are a brand and she’s sticking to it. That’s why Brooklyn throwing a curve ball like this must be causing headaches (not just the emotional loss).

I think Marina Hyde’s article mentioned a VB documentary on Netflix, with DB as exec producer. How will they address the Brooklyn problem?

User14March · 18/08/2025 12:41

dayswithaY · 18/08/2025 12:24

I can see parallels with Colleen Rooney. Slightly different as she was just a school girl when she met Wayne, but she has stuck by him while he has behaved appallingly.

They are also all about family but she does seem to be bringing her kids up quietly and she’s carved out a career on her terms.

I feel, with v famous men that the wife feels her identity is wrapped around him (even if she is famous too). Let’s face it, if Vic left him, David would get himself a much younger, hotter, girlfriend as quick as a flash. They would then be the tabloid’s obsession, they might even have kids together so David can reinvent himself again.

Vic is left looking like the older, redundant first wife. She has worked way too hard and looked the other way too many times to let that happen.

They are a brand and she’s sticking to it. That’s why Brooklyn throwing a curve ball like this must be causing headaches (not just the emotional loss).

I think Marina Hyde’s article mentioned a VB documentary on Netflix, with DB as exec producer. How will they address the Brooklyn problem?

It may all have blown over by then (?) Or they’ll be a party line. Who will the other boys marry? Current girlfriends & will dynamics be much simpler. (?)

crossedlines · 18/08/2025 12:51

I hope the other boys wait until they’re significantly older to get married. BB was very young and I think that’s part of the problem.

User14March · 18/08/2025 12:57

crossedlines · 18/08/2025 12:51

I hope the other boys wait until they’re significantly older to get married. BB was very young and I think that’s part of the problem.

Not really, VB was 23 & DB 24.

User14March · 18/08/2025 12:58

@crossedlines although I don’t disagree feels young but it’s a norm.

diddl · 18/08/2025 13:12

If the point of the marriage was to become a Beckham though, surely you'd need to be seen with the Beckhams?

Unless she feels that that has been done & her & Brooklyn are well known enough to "go it alone"?

Supposedly Guy Ritchie, Tom Cruise & Eva Longoria were at DB's 50th in London!

xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 18/08/2025 13:27

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 17/08/2025 23:17

I think N is pregnant and that's the reason for the vow renewal.

I think she has coordinated the fall out between the Beckham's and their son. Men always get absorbed into the woman's family.

Spoken like a bitter mother!

It's always the wife's fault when the son decides he doesn't want to see his family. The horrible new wife taken away the precious son, the wife is pulling the strings! 🙄

Never the result of a dysfunctional family, or over possessive mother.

crossedlines · 18/08/2025 13:36

User14March · 18/08/2025 12:58

@crossedlines although I don’t disagree feels young but it’s a norm.

Yes I know it’s the norm among footballers to marry and have kids young, and I expect more likely their children will follow the pattern. My point is that I think it’s part of the problem. How can you know at age 21/ 22 who you want to have a life long partnership with? It also probably increases the chances of a partner playing around. If DB had had longer to sleep around before marrying, he’d maybe be able to keep it in his trousers afterwards. Possibly!

Bambamhoohoo · 18/08/2025 13:38

I always wonder what we’ll be saying about the Beckhams in 20 years (sad I know!) but they have been in the public eye best part of 30 years.
I do wonder when they will just give up up and “retire” and whether they’ll stay together or care about the brand then. Suspect it’s not coming (if at all) for a good decade due to Harpers age. I mean surely they will become irrelevant at some point?!

User14March · 18/08/2025 13:38

crossedlines · 18/08/2025 13:36

Yes I know it’s the norm among footballers to marry and have kids young, and I expect more likely their children will follow the pattern. My point is that I think it’s part of the problem. How can you know at age 21/ 22 who you want to have a life long partnership with? It also probably increases the chances of a partner playing around. If DB had had longer to sleep around before marrying, he’d maybe be able to keep it in his trousers afterwards. Possibly!

Yes, completely agree.

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