Tbh I think it’s fairly common for young men to go all in with their first love at the expense of their family. I remember it happening so much when I was early 20s. The beckhams have been (posh especially) borderline hysterical about marriage (before marrying him at about 23 I think she’d been engaged twice, even changing her surname to double barrel with one of them!) and also seems to have an obsession with her children being well mannered and kind. It strikes of parroting maybe what her own parents told her when she was a child.
its easy to forget beckhams were peak late 90s and that was 30 years ago. A lot of the stuff they said or did was hugely outdated but gave them success and they haven’t been able to drop it or move on. You can see the same with princess andre and peters manager still bashing out the naughties formula for her.
the house of beckham is savage and bitchy but I suspect broadly tells a true story- they were very money focused (how 90s) came into fame well paid but not rich, and saw how much money could be made together. Simon fuller an absolutely savage money man atick
in the 9s was allegedly behind a lot of David’s deals.
It states that David has done pretty well for someone who, in world famous footballer terms wasn’t even that talented or successful. It’s also easy to forget how shortlived the actual fame was, particularly for Victoria.
they’ve made some poor financial decisions and some good ones have been brokered for them (David lucked out with Miami) and have largely relied on tax avoidance and taking money that was easily given.
it also paints a picture of DB generally fairly disinterested in her and VB swinging between screeching matches and distancing herself.
it also seems quite clear, from the book as well as in retrospect from what we’ve seen, that they weren’t massively present when the boys were little, both off taking seperate opportunities all over the world, and that the boys likely grew up in a pretty unhappy tense household.