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Please can we clear up the your/you're confusion?

103 replies

marshmallowfinder · 12/08/2025 06:47

It does matter. They are two separate words with two completely different meanings, and it is straightforward to decide which to use.

You're is short for YOU ARE.
(So, for example, "you're looking very well.")

Your refers to belonging to, or associated with a person.
(So, for example, "your coat is in the other room.")

If you're not sure, just ask yourself if you are trying to say YOU ARE, or not!

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marshmallowfinder · 12/08/2025 11:45

sashh · 12/08/2025 07:53

Homonyms OP or homophones in your example is the name they is called.

Yes, I know! Like past and passed, which also seem to be increasingly problematic to some.

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whatcanthematterbe81 · 12/08/2025 12:27

Aren’t you a clever sausage

Cyclistmumgrandma · 12/08/2025 12:35

Just bare with me while I cheque my speling.

EducatingArti · 12/08/2025 12:38

Can't we have some rest bite from this sort of criticism?

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 12/08/2025 12:40

It’s all very well being a pendant but you really ought too be discrete about it.

pamelanoon · 12/08/2025 12:41

Who cares.

As I think, language was invented by some-one. Probably men.

Why do I have to do what they tell me to do.?

If I want to wrote your instead of you're sometimes as it is quicker to type, I will!

Bluevelvetsofa · 12/08/2025 12:48

Some people do care.

pamelanoon · 12/08/2025 12:49

Bluevelvetsofa · 12/08/2025 12:48

Some people do care.

Languages evolve.

Why do I have to write a language, that men created a long time ago.

If I want to change a few things, I will.

Everything evolves over time

Covsouth · 12/08/2025 12:52

Once that is sorted out please could ect (etc.) also be corrected?

Bluevelvetsofa · 12/08/2025 12:52

@pamelanoon, that’s your choice; others may choose differently.

pamelanoon · 12/08/2025 12:54

Bluevelvetsofa · 12/08/2025 12:52

@pamelanoon, that’s your choice; others may choose differently.

You are stating the obvious there.

Of course it is my opinion. I wrote it as my opinion

SlowestHorse · 12/08/2025 12:56

SoScarletItWas · 12/08/2025 07:17

I would of thought everyone knew that.

twitch

CharlotteSometimes1 · 12/08/2025 12:57

I seen what your saying.

TaborlinTheGreat · 12/08/2025 12:59

pamelanoon · 12/08/2025 12:41

Who cares.

As I think, language was invented by some-one. Probably men.

Why do I have to do what they tell me to do.?

If I want to wrote your instead of you're sometimes as it is quicker to type, I will!

I don't especially care if people get it wrong, but seriously, nobody types 'your' instead of 'you're' because it's one fewer character to type in a whole sentence or paragraph (where there are probably multiple other words they could knock a letter off and still be understood). They do it either because they don't know the difference or just forget momentarily which is which.

PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 12/08/2025 12:59

Covsouth · 12/08/2025 12:52

Once that is sorted out please could ect (etc.) also be corrected?

Please can we also add to the list, the frequent use of “myself” instead of “me” or “I” - hideous!

PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 12/08/2025 12:59

CharlotteSometimes1 · 12/08/2025 12:57

I seen what your saying.

“Shudder”

Boobyslims · 12/08/2025 13:06

The one that throws me is why is “your welcome” the correct phrase, when we are meaning to tell the person they are welcome ie “you’re welcome”.

upinaballoon · 12/08/2025 13:06

It says something for British education that the majority of comments on here are sneering.

Dontlets fukin careabout anything in englisssh - all correct except you just haven't evoved as far as I have.

ET CETERA etc. NOT ect.

pamelanoon · 12/08/2025 13:09

TaborlinTheGreat · 12/08/2025 12:59

I don't especially care if people get it wrong, but seriously, nobody types 'your' instead of 'you're' because it's one fewer character to type in a whole sentence or paragraph (where there are probably multiple other words they could knock a letter off and still be understood). They do it either because they don't know the difference or just forget momentarily which is which.

I do. I don't like apostrophes in general.

marshmallowfinder · 12/08/2025 13:19

Boobyslims · 12/08/2025 13:06

The one that throws me is why is “your welcome” the correct phrase, when we are meaning to tell the person they are welcome ie “you’re welcome”.

Your welcome isn't correct though. It's you're welcome, because it is short for you are welcome.

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Clockforce · 12/08/2025 13:21

I know the difference, but autocorrect does strange things, you don't always see your own mistakes when reading things back, this is an online chat..

Boobyslims · 12/08/2025 13:22

marshmallowfinder · 12/08/2025 13:19

Your welcome isn't correct though. It's you're welcome, because it is short for you are welcome.

Yes, I know! But it’s culturally the norm to write your welcome - I never see it written as you’re welcome.

Clockforce · 12/08/2025 13:24

Boobyslims · 12/08/2025 13:22

Yes, I know! But it’s culturally the norm to write your welcome - I never see it written as you’re welcome.

No it's not! I can't be doing with grammar pedants on an online chat, if it's clear what is meant, it's fine, but that one really isn't a cultural norm.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 12/08/2025 13:25

Once we've all remembered the difference between your and you're. And there, their and they're. And that it's etc not ect.
Can we please learn the meanings of apart and a part. They aren't interchangeable.

marshmallowfinder · 12/08/2025 13:27

Boobyslims · 12/08/2025 13:22

Yes, I know! But it’s culturally the norm to write your welcome - I never see it written as you’re welcome.

The multiple you're/ your mistakes I see every day drove me to create this thread. Hoping it helps someone to understand the difference.

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