No deflection here, that’s your style, not mine.
Here you go:
I doubt they would tell you. I went to a wedding last year and spent most of the time chatting to a youngish Muslim woman who was lovely, and I mean seriously lovely. She added me on Facebook shortly after. Last month she reposted a picture saying women who don’t wear a head covering are destined for hell. You never know what people are thinking.
telling a story mentioning someone’s religion when it has no bearing on the story and no relation to the thing being discussed (during which you need to reinforce that a Muslim can in fact be lovely), and then finishing with her saying people are destined for hell and trying to imply that she’s said a horrible thing, because she’s a Muslim…is Islamophobia (not strictly racism, but if the shoe fits).
try telling stories that are relevant and don’t bring race and/or religion into it unnecessarily and people might not jump to conclusions about you