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Who is the actor I'm thinking of...going mad

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Cantwait4weightloss · 05/08/2025 21:43

You lot are good at this
I've googled, tried Chat Gpt all to no avail
He's British, blond, sort of curly hair and sounds posh
He's been in loads of things but never as the main character I don't think but he's instantly recognisable
I thought he was in One Day the film with Anne Hathaway but turns out no
He's the type of actor who is in Death in Paradise and stuff like that
I'm starting to wonder if I've just imagined him
It's doing my head in
He usually plays caddish sort of characters
Any ideas?
Sorry I've not provided much detail

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Cantwait4weightloss · 06/08/2025 06:20

Catsinaflat · 05/08/2025 23:48

Adam James mum is Polly James who was in the Liver Birds back in the 70s or early 80s. Anyone else as old as me that remembers them?

Edited

Thank you @RachelsPeeves !You genius!!!!
Also I thought i had posted this last night

Anyway also I used to LOVE the Liver Birds when I was little and LOVED both the main characters
Aww that's sweet
Thanks everyone
I knew Mumsnet wouldn't fail me 😊

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Cantwait4weightloss · 06/08/2025 06:48

Ah sorry it was on the second page that Adam James was named but I missed it as I'm usually asleep by 9.30
I keep saying his name now
My DH said "Oh, Adam James, why didn't you say, yes of course I know who he is."
EXCEPT YOU DIDNT

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Glowingup · 06/08/2025 07:05

Cantwait4weightloss · 05/08/2025 22:07

ADAM JAMES!!!!
ITS ADAM JAMES
I've just checked his picture
Thank you!!!

That’s who I immediately thought of but he’s not blonde though.

sashh · 06/08/2025 08:45

Paul Nicholls?

VintageMarket · 06/08/2025 09:20

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 05/08/2025 22:25

Ah, as you say disappointing!

Likewise re Julian Rhind Tutt.

Please tell us about Julian Rhind Tutt. I absolutely loved him in Blandings.
He's never a wrong 'un is he?

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 06/08/2025 09:27

Sorry, I've never met him - I was referring to someone else's post who said they'd had a negative experience

YesTonightJosephine · 06/08/2025 10:00

Finally read the full thread now!

And did you know his godfather was JON PERTWEE ...

Music Monday with Adam James - Actor - Intimacy Records

I always love these threads on MN.

x

Music Monday with Adam James - Actor

https://intimacyrecords.co.uk/music-monday-with-adam-james-actor/

Cantwait4weightloss · 06/08/2025 10:04

Jon Pertwee is his godfather?!
My mind is blown
Also those saying he's not blond, great, so I'm colour blind too 😫

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DopeyS · 06/08/2025 13:04

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 05/08/2025 23:19

Go on then - what did he look like?

Not overly tall or short, slim. Blondish curly hair. I pictured him being in regency style outfit and being a bit of a wet blanket. A little bit like the bloke from Amadeus but not him.

YesTonightJosephine · 06/08/2025 13:41

@DopeyS

Are you thinking of the fabulous TOM HOLLANDER in PRIDE & PREJUDICE perhaps ...

Mr Collins being Mr Collins | Pride and Prejudice (2005) | Tom Hollander - YouTube Tom Hollander / Pride & Prejudice / Mr Collins / 2005

YesTonightJosephine · 06/08/2025 13:52

Trying to add links ... apologies having issues ...

YesTonightJosephine · 06/08/2025 13:54

@DopeyS

Trying again ...

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 06/08/2025 14:43

DopeyS · 06/08/2025 13:04

Not overly tall or short, slim. Blondish curly hair. I pictured him being in regency style outfit and being a bit of a wet blanket. A little bit like the bloke from Amadeus but not him.

Joshua Maguire?

PoxyAndIKnowIt · 06/08/2025 14:50

Ah, I knew it was him! He’s always the annoying, posh, caddish friend. I just couldn’t remember what his name was or what I’d seen him in!

BernardButlersBra · 06/08/2025 14:54

notasgreenasiamcabbagelooking · 05/08/2025 21:49

Paul Bettany?

This was my initial thought as well

ChipKing · 06/08/2025 15:08

PoxyAndIKnowIt · 06/08/2025 14:50

Ah, I knew it was him! He’s always the annoying, posh, caddish friend. I just couldn’t remember what his name was or what I’d seen him in!

Adam James is always the baddie. Even if he's playing a posh cad, he's also got a body in the boot of his car.

Judgejudysno1fan · 06/08/2025 15:18

Death in paradise guy also played nick on my family.
Goofy looking but a very good actor

MMUmum · 06/08/2025 17:47

Kris Marshall?

DopeyS · 06/08/2025 18:36

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 06/08/2025 14:43

Joshua Maguire?

He's a bit like him, similar personality but slimmer in the face and lighter coloured hair. I'd say he's probably late 40s early 50s age. Tom Hollander vibes but I
I'd have recognised him. It was near a tube station in London about 3 years ago and has bugged me since. I can picture him but so hard to describe. There should be a way to Google an image from your head 🤣

LittleBitofBread · 06/08/2025 18:43

Ah, OK. Wouldn't have got that as I wouldn't say he had curly hair! Oddly, I've seen Grantchester, I May Destroy You and The Buccaneers but don't remember him in any of them. I mainly associate him with Vigil.

Vynalbob · 06/08/2025 18:48

Christopher Villiers
There's also another actor who looked similar when younger but can't think of his name

Hazey19 · 06/08/2025 19:01

Rafe spall?

FancyOliveHiker · 06/08/2025 19:03

notsure75 · 05/08/2025 21:46

Samuel West?

I thought Samuel was red haired.

ThisAzureBear · 06/08/2025 19:08

Johnny Flynn?