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Who is the actor I'm thinking of...going mad

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Cantwait4weightloss · 05/08/2025 21:43

You lot are good at this
I've googled, tried Chat Gpt all to no avail
He's British, blond, sort of curly hair and sounds posh
He's been in loads of things but never as the main character I don't think but he's instantly recognisable
I thought he was in One Day the film with Anne Hathaway but turns out no
He's the type of actor who is in Death in Paradise and stuff like that
I'm starting to wonder if I've just imagined him
It's doing my head in
He usually plays caddish sort of characters
Any ideas?
Sorry I've not provided much detail

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Sportsdaywinner · 05/08/2025 22:37

Sorry cross posted
Just saw that you'd found who he is

moto748e · 05/08/2025 22:42

GinToBegin · 05/08/2025 22:33

And his mother was a Liver Bird (you might need to ask your mother), which I only found out just now.

Polly James! I just looked them both up. I always think it's a bit weird when one person's imbd record shows their relative, and it doesn't happen the other way. Her entry says, 'mother of actor Adam James'. His doesn't mention her.

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 05/08/2025 22:44

Rupert Penry-Jones

Pootle40 · 05/08/2025 22:47

So glad it’s Adam James. Read your description and when you said ‘cad’ I knew it would be him. Fun fact - he has a very small part as Glinda’s dad in Wicked.

martinisforeveryone · 05/08/2025 22:49

I never would’ve guessed Adam James from the description. I know him from The Bucaneers.

HÆLTHEPAIN · 05/08/2025 22:51

I was coming to say Adam James then saw your update! I always call him ‘Rupert Farley-Pointless’ as he’s referred to in an episode of Miranda!😂

DopeyS · 05/08/2025 22:52

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 05/08/2025 22:10

I'm a bit disappointed we guessed so quickly.

Can we play again?

I have one with someone I glimpsed walking in London. Was about 3 years ago now and still not worked out who I saw 🤣

Horses7 · 05/08/2025 22:58

EmeraldRoulette · 05/08/2025 21:45

Julian Rhind Tutt?

Ditto - his hair is reddish blonde I think.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/08/2025 23:00

I knew exactly who you meant from your description! Glad somebody knew his name 😂😂

Bbq1 · 05/08/2025 23:07

Cantwait4weightloss · 05/08/2025 21:59

Like him but English
He's Aussie isn't he?

He is Australian, you're right.

samarrange · 05/08/2025 23:12

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 05/08/2025 21:54

Samantha Bond.
Yes, I know she’s a she. And older. And red headed.
But I will never forget the thread where OP asked ‘Who is this actress’ - with similar description to what I have stated. And the thread went to nearly 40 pages with people getting exasperated, only for OP to declare…OMG ITS SAMANTHA BOND.
Someone had suggested Samantha fucking Bond on page 2 but OP had overlooked it. I vowed then to always suggest Samantha Bond, no matter what the description. Just staying true to myself. Love and peace.

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Cattenberg · 05/08/2025 23:14

For years, I thought Adam James was another actor (maybe Patrick Baladi, but they don't actually look that similar). Adam must have one of those versatile faces.

Mind you, I also thought Lydia Leonard was Sian Clifford, so I'm clearly not good at telling people apart.

PigletSanders · 05/08/2025 23:19

Elliot Cowan?

*Didnt update the thread.

Adam James is married to the woman who played Harmony Parker in the Queen’s Nose some years ago. I loved that as a kid.

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 05/08/2025 23:19

DopeyS · 05/08/2025 22:52

I have one with someone I glimpsed walking in London. Was about 3 years ago now and still not worked out who I saw 🤣

Go on then - what did he look like?

moto748e · 05/08/2025 23:28

Cattenberg · 05/08/2025 23:14

For years, I thought Adam James was another actor (maybe Patrick Baladi, but they don't actually look that similar). Adam must have one of those versatile faces.

Mind you, I also thought Lydia Leonard was Sian Clifford, so I'm clearly not good at telling people apart.

Edited

I once described Nick Frost as a pie-eating Patrick Baladi!

ZiggyZowie · 05/08/2025 23:28

Johnny Flynn ?

Dangermoo · 05/08/2025 23:31

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 05/08/2025 22:44

Rupert Penry-Jones

Loved him in Silk. He made a fab barrister.

Dressdilemma2 · 05/08/2025 23:37

Tretweet · 05/08/2025 21:46

Crispin Bonham-Carter?

This was my first thought... I had a huge crush on Mr Bingley as a teenager 😀 then I saw sense and it was Mr Darcy all the way

Though I don't think he's been in much and actually left the profession about 20 years ago to train as a teacher. He's now an assistant head!

C10000 · 05/08/2025 23:39

Kris Marshall ?

Dolphinosep0tatoes · 05/08/2025 23:40

Dressdilemma2 · 05/08/2025 23:37

This was my first thought... I had a huge crush on Mr Bingley as a teenager 😀 then I saw sense and it was Mr Darcy all the way

Though I don't think he's been in much and actually left the profession about 20 years ago to train as a teacher. He's now an assistant head!

Having a crush on Bingley is pretty sweet

He's doing some sort of pride & prejudice reunion with Susannah Harker this year, saw a vid on social media the other day

C10000 · 05/08/2025 23:41

Should of read the f*cking thread 🤣

Swirlythingy2025 · 05/08/2025 23:41

Cantwait4weightloss · 05/08/2025 22:07

ADAM JAMES!!!!
ITS ADAM JAMES
I've just checked his picture
Thank you!!!

he was in 2 eposides of the bbc show hustle and it was a pickle of a character so to speak

Swirlythingy2025 · 05/08/2025 23:42

Dangermoo · 05/08/2025 23:31

Loved him in Silk. He made a fab barrister.

hes better in spooks as mi5

Cattenberg · 05/08/2025 23:42

moto748e · 05/08/2025 23:28

I once described Nick Frost as a pie-eating Patrick Baladi!

😂I see what you mean!

PilatesAndLattes · 05/08/2025 23:46

Iain Glen