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Solicitor falsely accused me of blackmail and identity fraud – what can I do?

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PoisedPearlHelper · 30/07/2025 09:22

Hi everyone,
I’m feeling extremely distressed and could really use some advice.
A solicitor I approached just to witness a deed poll (literally a 10-minute job) has now written me a formal letter accusing me of identity fraud and blackmail, all because I left a Google review and asked for £150 compensation for the poor service I received.
To be clear:

  • I turned up to the appointment on time, waited over an hour past the scheduled slot without apology, and was treated incredibly rudely throughout.
  • The “identity fraud” claim appears to be based on my use of a perfectly valid house name (e.g., “The Croft”) in the deed poll, which is how my address appears on HMRC letters and utility bills.
  • I corrected a typo on the deed by hand with their permission before it was witnessed.
  • I later went to an independent solicitor who confirmed everything was fine and properly re-witnessed the deed poll.
Despite this, I received an aggressive letter warning me I would "hear from enforcement agencies," and treating my Google review + complaint as a criminal blackmail attempt. It’s left me shaken. I’ve now written a response asking them to:
  • Retract the accusations
  • Destroy my ID documents unless legally required
  • Justify their data handling under UK GDPR
  • Comply with the law around AML and GDPR disclosures
I’ve said if they don’t comply by 19 August, I’ll report them to the SRA, ICO and Legal Ombudsman. What else can I do to protect myself? Has anyone else experienced this kind of intimidation from a solicitor? Is it worth actually taking this to the police under harassment laws, or am I overreacting? I have a paper trail and am confident I’ve done nothing wrong, but I’m worried this could escalate or damage my name. Any legal or practical advice much appreciated – even just solidarity would help. This has genuinely shaken me. Thanks so much,
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Spotthering · 30/07/2025 22:58

The others reviews are very enlightening. I’m not keen on sharing the link as it shows OP’s full name.

Just ignore the letter OP, and forget your spurious claim for £150. Don’t even bother responding. As long as your review is genuine and honest, you have nothing to worry about it, but drop the claim for money.

If you do want to escalate, then go to the SRA.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 30/07/2025 23:02

So no one is allowed to give negative reviews. We’ve got to blow smoke up their arses no matter what type of service they get, is that where we’re at.

PsychoHotSauce · 30/07/2025 23:07

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 30/07/2025 23:02

So no one is allowed to give negative reviews. We’ve got to blow smoke up their arses no matter what type of service they get, is that where we’re at.

That pretty much sums it up! Pay us money, we'll do what we like, and threaten you if you dare to complain about it Hmm

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PsychoHotSauce · 31/07/2025 05:51

It seems that OP and these solicitors are as crazy as each other. What an unfortunate combination.

With the solicitor-crazy, it might be fair to say that this particular breed of unhinged might mean they attract/only get work from particularly vulnerable groups who don't know any better? I'm sure if you took a sample of prospective clients many would spot what must be dozens of red flags and just decide to go with someone else. But the ones who don't are exactly the sort of people who will be intimidated by baseless accusations and threats of police.

Looking at the pattern of reviews, they either reply saying the review is spam or give them a load of smug accusatory waffle, all with the same regurgitated allegations. If they couple their response with an email threatening further action for "blackmail" unless the review is taken down, it makes you wonder how many have been removed out of fear.

RainSoakedNights · 31/07/2025 06:19

Looking at the reviews, it’s honestly six of one, half a dozen of another.

I work in the law. You’d be surprised by some of the ridiculous requests we get, asking us to do things that are illegal, just for their own convenience. It doesn’t excuse them going about and threatening people though, so it’s all a bit messy.

PsychoHotSauce · 31/07/2025 06:32

RainSoakedNights · 31/07/2025 06:19

Looking at the reviews, it’s honestly six of one, half a dozen of another.

I work in the law. You’d be surprised by some of the ridiculous requests we get, asking us to do things that are illegal, just for their own convenience. It doesn’t excuse them going about and threatening people though, so it’s all a bit messy.

I think the point is a regulated profession shouldn't be crossing the line into baseless threats and intimidation. Customers are unhinged in every industry - from the hair salon client who asked to go from long hair to a pixie cut and decides she hates it to the restaurant with a 1 star because the wouldn't comp the whole meal for bringing the starter late.

Posters here have said "don't mess with a solicitor, they know their stuff" so this is clearly an abuse of position, leveraging the asymmetry in legal knowledge to their advantage. That's a conduct issue, but unfortunately the fact that they feel confident publishing these on their own business listing means the SRA likely turns a blind eye. You wouldn't keep doing it if you'd got a warning the first time you pulled a stunt like this.

RainSoakedNights · 31/07/2025 06:48

PsychoHotSauce · 31/07/2025 06:32

I think the point is a regulated profession shouldn't be crossing the line into baseless threats and intimidation. Customers are unhinged in every industry - from the hair salon client who asked to go from long hair to a pixie cut and decides she hates it to the restaurant with a 1 star because the wouldn't comp the whole meal for bringing the starter late.

Posters here have said "don't mess with a solicitor, they know their stuff" so this is clearly an abuse of position, leveraging the asymmetry in legal knowledge to their advantage. That's a conduct issue, but unfortunately the fact that they feel confident publishing these on their own business listing means the SRA likely turns a blind eye. You wouldn't keep doing it if you'd got a warning the first time you pulled a stunt like this.

It’s very possible that OP is right and their letter came out of the blue, but you have examples of people who have left 1 star reviews because they turned up with an already signed document and they wouldn’t witness it. The SRA are about as useful as a chocolate teapot, though

Ademasstudio · 31/07/2025 06:53

RainSoakedNights · 31/07/2025 06:48

It’s very possible that OP is right and their letter came out of the blue, but you have examples of people who have left 1 star reviews because they turned up with an already signed document and they wouldn’t witness it. The SRA are about as useful as a chocolate teapot, though

I would bet my house on it that this Op is categorically not “right” about anything in this scenario.

NigelPonsonbySmallpiece · 31/07/2025 07:04

Ok, I’ve read the Google reviews and he certainly likes arguing back with the negative reviewers. Seems like the OP isn’t the only one he’s accused of being fraudulent, seems like a common attack tactic.

PsychoHotSauce · 31/07/2025 07:05

RainSoakedNights · 31/07/2025 06:48

It’s very possible that OP is right and their letter came out of the blue, but you have examples of people who have left 1 star reviews because they turned up with an already signed document and they wouldn’t witness it. The SRA are about as useful as a chocolate teapot, though

They're two separate issues though. Unreasonable client + 1 star review doesn't permit the solicitor to say 'You were trying to commit fraud.' Whatever happened to basic professionalism. You don't get to enjoy the privileges of a regulated profession and abandon the obligations that come with it.

I know the BSB Handbook for barristers prohibits allegations of fraud, "unless you have clear instructions to allege fraud and you have reasonably credible material which establishes an arguable case of fraud". Not sure about solicitors. Clients can be a bit thick, that doesn't automatically = trying to commit fraud and warrant threats of further action publicly. It's threatening, unprofessional, and is clearly being weaponised to their advantage. Behaviour like this risks harming the reputation of the legal profession as a whole.

A simple 'We couldn't witness your wife's signature when she didn't attend the meeting' or whatever is fine.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 31/07/2025 07:11

I’ve read the Google reviews now and the entire firm look as dodgy as anything.

Spotthering · 31/07/2025 08:34

Agree the firm is dodgy. OP shouldn’t waste any more headspace on the matter and just ignore the letter as well as her claim for £150, but I suspect her wanting the latter means this may drag on for quite a while.

This is exactly the sort of story Roll on Friday would love to print!

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