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Anyone fancy a quick tarot card reading? (I need practice)

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Sodthesystem · 18/07/2025 22:22

Trying to get better at reading the cards.

Anyone got something they want a quick answer too? Yes/no questions are ideal for the sake of speed but if you really want to know something else feel free to ask.

I'm NOT a psychic so you'll probably need to give some context. Just whatever you are comfortable with.

Just for fun guys. Don't take it too serious x

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changedwoman123 · 30/08/2025 22:48

Who will me future relationship be with?

Sodthesystem · 30/08/2025 23:38

Dontlletmedownbruce · 19/07/2025 19:20

Married 20 years this year. 3 kids from 16 to 11. Sometimes everything Dh does annoys me, like I wish he would just go somewhere else. I crave personal space and quiet. Our personalities seem to have drifted in opposite directions so far that we can't meet in the middle. Will we learn to reconnect or am I just always going to be miserable? Dh is so excited about the next phase of life as dc get older and I'm only looking forward to the bits I get to do alone!

I do see you pursuing a lot of personal time and space moving forwards. I feel there may be an issue of feeling like you've lost your own personal identity. Whether it's within the relationship or, as 'mum'. And it's like your system is crying out to be free to rediscover yourself and to have new experiences.

You do need to take the time and space you are craving. If you keep plodding on as you are, nothing will change. And I'm sure that is a rather terrifying thought. You need to start asking for what you need. And taking it.

If that's a few nights out at a hobby each week or, a solo holiday or a home where you have your own hobby room or seperate bedroom.

Stop making yourself small. Be clear about what you need and you may find he is perfectly happy to accommodate that.

And if he isn't, or, if you find that taking space...only makes you want more space, then you may need to consider a different course of action.

The cards want you to be your own champion.
Right now you are in a box. Break free of the box. But don't break up the box. You need to reclaim your personal power. And then you can decide if this relationship can work for the person you've become or, if it's only going to hold you both back.

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Sodthesystem · 30/08/2025 23:57

mumof4teens · 19/07/2025 21:17

Yes please, I have some health anxiety, but I have some symptoms should I get it checked out?

I hope you are feeling better pp!
Always get symptoms checked out.

Info wonder if the symptoms are linked to things like exhaustion, worry or stress. Sometimes they can cause illness.

I feel like you might be the sort of person who absorbs the emotional turmoil of those around you. Someone who takes on other people's stresses. I dont know if condepency is or ever was an issue.

Also, perhaps something like fibromyalgia or something to do with cold hands and feet.

It feels like stress may be presenting itself in your body and you would benefit from a detox.
The colour blue keeps coming up and it's like, I'm painting a bedroom sky blue. Maybe to make it more calming? Unless it's a baby boy reference.
Silver may be relevant too.

I do see a card which can point to minor operations or injuries that need watching. But in the grand scheme of things it looks like reducing your anxiety and making your life feel lighter needs to be a primary focus moving forwards.

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Rubyruby101 · 19/07/2025 21:19

Yes please , will my daughter return to college? Thankyou x

Have there have been arguments around this subject? If not, there's certainly a great deal of inner turmoil.

I'm not sure if this particular bridge has been burned. But an offer is made to her. And I feel it might be for a place she already has friends. If not, it's somewhere she will make solid friends whilst attending.

There's something about a relationship being key too. It wasn't a bad relationship that caused her to leave college was it? Perhaps that's too oddly specific.

The word 'trapped' comes up.

There's talk about there needing to be patience.

I feel she doesn't like other people planning her destiny. I mean, duh. But there's very much an air of 'let me figure it out myself'. And I think she will in her own time.

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Sodthesystem · 31/08/2025 00:24

Carrotsticks66 · 19/07/2025 21:25

Yes please - could you ask about my finances? Will I at last get a job, and will it be anytime soon?

Ok so there may be a false start. Because I see a celebration and then it's literally like the party is on fire all of a sudden. So that could be thinking you've got a job and it doesn't work out or, you get your first paycheck and suddenly there's a huge unforseen expense.

I see you tightening your belt and slowly working to build up finances. There is a card that can suggest apprenticeship or building a skillset through study on the job. Your hard work and dedication or skills will be recognised.

This offer will come in after a period of stagnation. There's will be financial stability.

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youcandothismumma · 31/08/2025 20:49

Should I be suspicious of my ex?

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 15:12

isitme111 · 19/07/2025 22:18

Hi - If you can for me please. Will I get the job I interviewed for last week - where am I going in life 🤔

Recon im a little late to get back to you about that job interview pp.

A lot comes for you about family and building together. If you are single it might be talking about a partner that comes in that you build with. But it could equally be talking about a family business.

There is also going to be a situation or person you will walk away from soon. I feel it is linked to a betrayal of sorts but could simply be deciding that this situation or person is too much work for little reward.

It's very much a 'i am outa here!' energy from you. Let's hope it wasn't about the new job!

There's actually a fair bit of movement or travel energy. But funnily enough there's something you are being patient about too. Sitting on some eggs.

There's a lot about family and I wonder if you are worrying about a family member.
Just on the off chance: Because I keep getting travel-family-travel-family. And some other little nuances I wonder, if you've lost someone or if someone you love is far away right now.

There is a message: Safe.
It feels like someone telling you everything is going to be ok.

It's good to dream. Sometimes we actually do know what we want but feel it's too big to pursue. That we can't. But you can. Just take your time, feel it out, you'll get there.

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 15:29

tryinghi778 · 19/07/2025 22:18

Hi if you can for me please. All I want to know is will my dad be ok?

Is he perhaps very stubborn and refusing help or treatment? Or was there some issue getting him the help he needed?

I do hear that everything will be ok but the cards don't necessarily always mean that in the same way we do.

I tend to avoid questions about life and death for that reason. If that's what things are about. They won't tell me if someone will pass over or not.

But your reading does bring up issues around justice and balance. Which makes me think of legal issues being tackled or harmony being restored in some way.

There is someone good humoured making a joke about something being fumbled or fudged. But they take it in their stride.

And there is a message that your prayers are always being heard.

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 15:55

Retireornot · 19/07/2025 22:26

Yes please if you could include me please! I would like to know if my son and my daughter will find jobs - they have disabilities and it’s very hard for them.

Ok so I heard 'son will daughter won't'. But not in a worrying way. To explain it's more like son follows a normal trajectory and achieves 'victory' in the sense of a job and daughter dates a more highly piggilty path towards more abstract but equally valid achievements.

You'd expect it to be the other way around really as in girls finding it easier to get jobs these days but obviously it depends on the individual and disability or no disabilities we all have strengths and weaknesses. But it looks like your son will be the one find work first.

This reading points towards your daughter being a creative soul. The word councilor also comes up. Whether that's talking about her benefiting from having a professional to talk to or perhaps using her own experiences in life to help others. I did wonder about a book and then thought maybe I shouldn't say that as I don't know the nature of her disabilities and didn't want you to be hurt if you felt that would never be possible. But, I've just pulled a card that says 'creative writing'. So it looks like that needs to be heard for some reason. And of course there's all sorts of ai and help available now for people who do want to write. She could even be someone who illustrates or inspires a book to be written.

There is a sweet and gentle nature somewhere which I'm assuming is your daughter. Someone doesn't want the help offered because they want to do things on their own. And they need things to feel like their own space in order to progress. Things feel noisy and chaotic otherwise and they can't function the same. There is going to be more independence in general.

Cliche but I wonder if your boy is into cars or figuring out how mechanical things work. Not to say that couldn't be your daughter of course.

Overall things look promising for them both. There may just have to be some unconventional routes taken to achieve success.

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 16:08

HeartShapedSea · 19/07/2025 22:41

Yes please, will the job I've been offered actually happen next year or should I just press ahead with study in a different area on the assumption it won't? Thank you

I expected to tell you to stick to study and not gamble on maybes.

But the cards warn not to take on too much. That you study to get a job not for studys sake. I suppose you need to consider that if the job does come up it may mean giving up your new studdy for that job and obviously you then lose money. Meaning you might be inclined to turn down the job.

My feeling is you should look towards work. I do not know that this job will come to pass but I do see an offer coming in. And it seems as if you are a bit like 'but I want to tie up loose ends first'. Perhaps there is perfectionism involved. Could you work another job for now, one that you would be happy enough to leave if the offer comes in?

Should you put life on the back burner? No. Should you put all your eggs in one basket? No. But should you start something long-term that's completely new? No. You should focus on finding work with the skills you already have.

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 16:20

LadySherringham · 19/07/2025 23:24

Will my son return to his sunny kind self?

It may be a work in progress. People do naturally change as they age. Sometimes trauma changes us too. I don't know if there was a divorce that has triggered this change in him or, if the cards are just illustrating how completely changed from his original sunny self he seems to be right now.

This is going to take some time to fully restore. I don't know if some trust has been broken.

I feel like nature might be useful here. Walking together in nature or him being out in nature helping him to find peace again and return to his former cheerful self.

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dollyblue01 · 02/09/2025 16:29

Me please 🙏 how will my new job go ?
also where do you see my current relationship going ? Thank you ☺️

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 16:32

Maxiebaby0 · 19/07/2025 23:25

You’re probably exhausted by now but if not by any chance… will I meet another man I love?

There is someone who comes in quickly and with certainty about you at a time where you are actually very focused on other things like work and just life in general. Perhaps at a time when things are actually quite difficult as he is presenting as a stabilising and calming influence. A rock.

This person is very solid and hardworking. Genuine and feels very much like he was 'sent' for you. He's warm and caring. Not brash or showy or a performer. He has soft eyes and a warm smile.

There's a lot of talk about visualising what it is that you want so that you know if someone false comes along. But this person, I think you'll know him by his actions. He does what he says he will.

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Lushvegetation · 02/09/2025 17:22

Which page are you on now OP?

isitme111 · 02/09/2025 18:31

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 15:12

Recon im a little late to get back to you about that job interview pp.

A lot comes for you about family and building together. If you are single it might be talking about a partner that comes in that you build with. But it could equally be talking about a family business.

There is also going to be a situation or person you will walk away from soon. I feel it is linked to a betrayal of sorts but could simply be deciding that this situation or person is too much work for little reward.

It's very much a 'i am outa here!' energy from you. Let's hope it wasn't about the new job!

There's actually a fair bit of movement or travel energy. But funnily enough there's something you are being patient about too. Sitting on some eggs.

There's a lot about family and I wonder if you are worrying about a family member.
Just on the off chance: Because I keep getting travel-family-travel-family. And some other little nuances I wonder, if you've lost someone or if someone you love is far away right now.

There is a message: Safe.
It feels like someone telling you everything is going to be ok.

It's good to dream. Sometimes we actually do know what we want but feel it's too big to pursue. That we can't. But you can. Just take your time, feel it out, you'll get there.

Thank you @Sodthesystem.

Very true about the situation / person I may walk away from. I did walk from a situation mostly because I felt a betrayed and couldn't be bothered anymore, it was definitely an 'I'm out of here' moment! I have a friendship issue as well and I'm not sure where I will go with it. There are a couple of family members I am concerned about. I'm not sure about the travel-family I haven't lost anyone recently and no one is far away although a family member is not so good health wise.
I did get the job I think I will like it a lot!
Thanks again it's all so interesting.

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 18:32

HI ALL - Final readings and - Etsy store!

So I've almost got to the rough cut off I set on page 12, just a handful more to go. I had intended to keep doing a few here and there afterwords but I think I will stop. I feel 300 plus readings is a fair amount of 'practice' lol.

But I thought I'd put a few up on Etsy just incase anyone wanted to purchase? I'll maybe only put a handful up at at time as I don't know how much demand there would be.

Maybe just drop me a little message via private message and let me know if you might want a reading on Etsy? Then I can see what demand there would be if I can't link here I will just message you the link individually. (Also does 5 pounds seem fair for around 4 or 5 paragraphs? I was going to say £4 tbh but Etsy keeps a whack it seems so I wonder if I could be cheeky and say £5).

Thankyou to all who have popped in for a reading it's been a pleasure to work with you all and i feel I've learned a lot. Wishing you all the very best and apologies I didn't get to everyone.

If I do happen see you in an Etsy reading about a follow up question from here, just let me know what we talked about so I can pick up where we left off. Assuming I can get the bloody thing running that is xD

I'll finish off the last few here soon and keep you all updated xxx

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 18:41

Hi all- final readings and Etsy store

Edit: I'm on page 12 and the cut off is on page 13. So I've maybe 10 or so to go I think. I'll do a few past the cut off too as a few people were posting their questions as I was posting the cut off.

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Lushvegetation · 02/09/2025 19:13

Hi I was on page 10 and you have missed me. Would you mind doing one for me please?

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 19:29

Lushvegetation · 02/09/2025 19:13

Hi I was on page 10 and you have missed me. Would you mind doing one for me please?

Hey lush I do not see you on page 10 (of 29) but I know some people have different page numbers. The posts I'm on ATM are the 19th of July.

What is your question and I'll do it for you

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Lushvegetation · 02/09/2025 19:42

Thank you. Will my largely estranged son heal his relationship with his siblings and with me? Also if you have time, will it be a positive thing if we move away to be closer to our other children.

googleyourheartout · 02/09/2025 19:49

I’m on the app. How do I private message you.

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 19:51

whynotmereally · 20/07/2025 06:56

Will my health improve?

I see the steps you take to improve your health paying off.This is definitely something you need to be proactive about. There may be an element of not being sure what to do and what comes next. You need to be asking the questions. Don't feel as if it's an inconvenience or a burden on others to ask for help. There is an indicator of GP or hospital intervention here. I feel this is going to be a joint effort both from you and from people you will need to work with. Don't just sit on this, ask for help and work with people for the best possible results.

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 19:54

googleyourheartout · 02/09/2025 19:49

I’m on the app. How do I private message you.

Ooh good question. I'm on the website and it's just the three dots at the top right side of anything the person you want to message posts. Does the app have that?

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Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 20:05

Lushvegetation · 02/09/2025 19:42

Thank you. Will my largely estranged son heal his relationship with his siblings and with me? Also if you have time, will it be a positive thing if we move away to be closer to our other children.

Ok so theres good news and bad news regarding son. It very much looks like he wants to stay struck out on his own. However, that doesn't mean that bad blood will continue. He shows up as the hermit off on travels and I don't see that changing. I think he's pretty firm in his choice at least for the fair chunk of the future. But that doesn't mean that any bad blood will continue.

Something comes up about a lover or a partner for him being key in future conversations. Yours or his I do not know.

The cards gave a clear yes about moving closer to your other children. If it's a worry that that might make him feel more out on the cold, that's understandable but ultimately he is going to do what he is going to do either way so do what will make your life the most joy filled.

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Lushvegetation · 02/09/2025 20:07

Sodthesystem · 02/09/2025 20:05

Ok so theres good news and bad news regarding son. It very much looks like he wants to stay struck out on his own. However, that doesn't mean that bad blood will continue. He shows up as the hermit off on travels and I don't see that changing. I think he's pretty firm in his choice at least for the fair chunk of the future. But that doesn't mean that any bad blood will continue.

Something comes up about a lover or a partner for him being key in future conversations. Yours or his I do not know.

The cards gave a clear yes about moving closer to your other children. If it's a worry that that might make him feel more out on the cold, that's understandable but ultimately he is going to do what he is going to do either way so do what will make your life the most joy filled.

Thank you so much!

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