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Poshest children’s name’s you’ve heard?

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purpledaze24 · 14/07/2025 08:40

My DS is due to start school in Sept and we recently met his soon to be classmates at an intro session. I have never heard so many stereotypically posh names in one group of people in my life! (The school is close to a very wealthy village…that we don’t live in sadly!) there was an Arabella, a Tarquin, a Jaygo, a Henrietta. So that’s what inspired this thread…what do you consider the top 5 poshest names you’ve ever heard of?

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BunnyLake · 14/07/2025 15:58

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 14/07/2025 15:54

I wouldn’t exactly call it the poshest, but at a pre-school in Abu Dhabi when dd1 was 3, a little American boy was saddled with Florian Finkbeiner, poor little bugger.

Which I found out only when she brought home an identical lunchbox with his name on it.

There’s an author with that name. There’s also a CEO of a company, seems it’s quite a common name in Germany 😁

FourLove · 14/07/2025 15:59

Daisydoesnt · 14/07/2025 08:52

Surely the girl’s name is Lettice?

'Lettuce' is a great name!

DrowningInSyrup · 14/07/2025 16:02

EllasNonny · 14/07/2025 08:55

Lettice and Chilli at pre-prep in Brighton

Surely Chilli isn't posh is it? Jalapeño or even Cucumber sound posher.

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Shetlands · 14/07/2025 16:02

FourLove · 14/07/2025 15:59

'Lettuce' is a great name!

Unless your surname is Sprey...

Squirrelsnut · 14/07/2025 16:03

I worked in an expensive school for years.
Ditty
Fifi
Plum
Cece
Jago
Rupert
Barnabas
Quentin
Ernestina
Albertina
Hector
Hubert

BunnyLake · 14/07/2025 16:04

FourLove · 14/07/2025 15:59

'Lettuce' is a great name!

Let us pray for poor old Lettuce (Lettice) being saddled with such a name. My guess though is, if you’ve called your dd that you are very much a part of the aristo or upper sets and surrounded by equally posh names. No one from Eastenders is calling their kid Lettice.

Daftypants · 14/07/2025 16:04

Jacinta and Lucinda .

purpledaze24 · 14/07/2025 16:05

I know a pair of little girl twins called Philomena and Marley. Which has always struck me as a bit odd, as the names seem at opposite ends of the spectrum. Philomena very posh and marley maybe slightly chavvy. Or maybe they’re both posh? I don’t know anyone else with either name

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BunnyLake · 14/07/2025 16:05

purpledaze24 · 14/07/2025 16:05

I know a pair of little girl twins called Philomena and Marley. Which has always struck me as a bit odd, as the names seem at opposite ends of the spectrum. Philomena very posh and marley maybe slightly chavvy. Or maybe they’re both posh? I don’t know anyone else with either name

Marnie would have made more sense.

softlyfallsthesnow · 14/07/2025 16:05

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 14/07/2025 15:45

Wasn’t Clementine the name of Winston Churchill’s wife?

Yes, but never pronounce it like the fruit.

BunnyLake · 14/07/2025 16:06

softlyfallsthesnow · 14/07/2025 16:05

Yes, but never pronounce it like the fruit.

Teen or tine? I pronounce the fruit tine.

Pigtailsandall · 14/07/2025 16:07

Oh I thought if one more which dh thought was horrible but I liked: Marigold.

Edit: I also really like Clementine

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:08

BunnyLake · 14/07/2025 16:04

Let us pray for poor old Lettuce (Lettice) being saddled with such a name. My guess though is, if you’ve called your dd that you are very much a part of the aristo or upper sets and surrounded by equally posh names. No one from Eastenders is calling their kid Lettice.

Boris' daughter is called Lettice and she seems quite a nice girl who has not had an easy time of things with Daddy's antics.

It's quite a pretty sound were it not for the leafy veg association and Lettie is sweet. I know a little girl who spells it Letty and thought nothing more of it than if she had been Hetty or Betty. Though typing this has made me think Bedwetty.

Daftypants · 14/07/2025 16:08

reading through this there are some classic names though that transcend time and class, such as Charlotte

Araminta1003 · 14/07/2025 16:08

I am rewatching the Forsyte Saga - it is on Netflix. The Forsytes were considered upper middle class new money. The names would still be I think, but lots of names in there. Irene, Jolyon, Monty etc and of course, Soames, who is a Heathcliff type character.
I did go to school with a Heathcliff and a Jolyon. I always liked the name Jolyon but it is also a bit out there.

I would have called on of my boys Tristan after Brad Pitt in Legends of the Fall, but DH vetoed it! I would have covered up and claimed it was after Wagner’s opera. Also loved the name Lorelei for a girl. Sadly, DH is just too conformist.
A lot of my friends have chosen names from books and films they like. I reckon that is more of a middle class thing. You can do what you want, do not have to carry some random title and bear 8 grandparent names kind of thing.

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:09

Daftypants · 14/07/2025 16:08

reading through this there are some classic names though that transcend time and class, such as Charlotte

It is classic but its also beyond ubiquitous and very widely used in all classes - just as William came to be after Prince William was born.

Whatshesaid96 · 14/07/2025 16:13

We live rurally but DD goes to a Rainbow group in a posher village and there are a few unusual names. I wonder what the general names are in the village school there and if the boys are posh names also.

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2025 16:13

purpledaze24 · 14/07/2025 16:05

I know a pair of little girl twins called Philomena and Marley. Which has always struck me as a bit odd, as the names seem at opposite ends of the spectrum. Philomena very posh and marley maybe slightly chavvy. Or maybe they’re both posh? I don’t know anyone else with either name

My only association with the name Marley is that he was Dead by the start of 'A Christmas Carol'.

Spaghettihair · 14/07/2025 16:14

Jago isn’t necessarily posh but Cornish. Allegedly the same root as Diego, a result of Cornish & Spanish fishermen meeting.

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:15

Spaghettihair · 14/07/2025 16:14

Jago isn’t necessarily posh but Cornish. Allegedly the same root as Diego, a result of Cornish & Spanish fishermen meeting.

You make it sound like they copulated ...

Spaghettihair · 14/07/2025 16:15

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:08

Boris' daughter is called Lettice and she seems quite a nice girl who has not had an easy time of things with Daddy's antics.

It's quite a pretty sound were it not for the leafy veg association and Lettie is sweet. I know a little girl who spells it Letty and thought nothing more of it than if she had been Hetty or Betty. Though typing this has made me think Bedwetty.

Surely it’s of or pertaining to Letitia in some way

Spaghettihair · 14/07/2025 16:16

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:15

You make it sound like they copulated ...

I mean, it’s a lonely job…

anotherwordforit · 14/07/2025 16:17

To me most of the names on here are either-

Classic names like Henry, James, William, Charlotte. Most are actually top 10 baby names so you will hear them everywhere and they will be used across the social spectrum.

Names people think are fancy like Ophelia, Penelope, Arabella, Ottilie but are actually rising sharply in popularity, have suddenly become top 100 names and are popular with all types and ages of parents.

Names that genuinely do make you think ‘oh wow that’s posh’ like Tarquin, Bartholomew, Araminta, Jocasta but, when you look at the stats, are actually vanishingly rare (often with 5 or less born per year, sometimes zero)

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:17

Spaghettihair · 14/07/2025 16:15

Surely it’s of or pertaining to Letitia in some way

You might well be right actually.

I'm almost certain it has nothing to do with lettuces.

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 16:18

anotherwordforit · 14/07/2025 16:17

To me most of the names on here are either-

Classic names like Henry, James, William, Charlotte. Most are actually top 10 baby names so you will hear them everywhere and they will be used across the social spectrum.

Names people think are fancy like Ophelia, Penelope, Arabella, Ottilie but are actually rising sharply in popularity, have suddenly become top 100 names and are popular with all types and ages of parents.

Names that genuinely do make you think ‘oh wow that’s posh’ like Tarquin, Bartholomew, Araminta, Jocasta but, when you look at the stats, are actually vanishingly rare (often with 5 or less born per year, sometimes zero)

So ubiquitous, appealing or pretentious?

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