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Poshest children’s name’s you’ve heard?

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purpledaze24 · 14/07/2025 08:40

My DS is due to start school in Sept and we recently met his soon to be classmates at an intro session. I have never heard so many stereotypically posh names in one group of people in my life! (The school is close to a very wealthy village…that we don’t live in sadly!) there was an Arabella, a Tarquin, a Jaygo, a Henrietta. So that’s what inspired this thread…what do you consider the top 5 poshest names you’ve ever heard of?

OP posts:
UltimateFoole · 14/07/2025 14:01

IMHO properly posh people are more easily identified as such by bonkers nicknames used into adulthood. Eg. Bunny, Beano, Woody, A*se - things like that. The original names might be George, Henry, Elizabeth and other classics but the nicknames are wild.

Being named after somewhere you own is also a dead giveaway.

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 14:02

housethatbuiltme · 14/07/2025 13:49

I dislike it when people say 'ee-ah' instead of 'shuh' with names like Alicia, Lucia, Patricia etc... certainly don't think it sounds classier.

Too me it sounds more uneducated, like a child learning to reading out loud by saying each individual letter rather than the combination sound.

Doesn't it depend on the origin of the name?

Lucia is LuCHEEa because it is Italian (through from the Latin).

Jiski · 14/07/2025 14:03

I don’t think they’re posh.

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Araminta1003 · 14/07/2025 14:04

Haha to Tarquin - Tarquin is clearly a MN baby!

Recently we have kids from China and Hong Kong who have English names too, which they use at school. Lots of Henry, William, George’s and Sophies and Janes right there. Seems like they know what is actually posh?
But the arty farty middle class names are far more fun. They do not pick those, maybe not yet.

Jamandtoastfortea · 14/07/2025 14:06

Quintessa

tarheelbaby · 14/07/2025 14:07

ThatKeenJadeLeader · 14/07/2025 09:49

I once met a child called Solitaire.

that's brilliant ...
was 'er old man a diamond geezer ...
I guess she was an only child ...

The thing is, it's the people who are posh/rich/MC or UC, not the names.

I know two girls called Willa - not a name I think of as 'posh'. One of them is plenty nice but called Willa b/c her parents liked it.
But the other one is v. posh but v modest. Willa is a shortened version of her old fashioned, passed down, distinctive (possibly outing) family name. Her older relatives (aunts, gp's) were good friends with Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip and were close to King Charles when he was a boy.
And think of the name Harry. That boy could be a prince of the realm or a chimney sweep or anything in between.

Lots of the posh/rich/UC/MC boys I know have a traditional name and use the short form: Freddie for Frederick, Eddie for Edward, Charlie for Charles. Girls often have similarly traditional or straightforward names: Emma, Ella, Louisa, Alice, Florence, Chloe, Sophie. Some are more interesting: Esme, Aurelia, Arabella, Cosmo, Humphrey, Jasper, Ottilie, Eva/Evie, Oscar

Alondra · 14/07/2025 14:08

CurlewKate · 14/07/2025 13:55

The proper pronunciation of Alicia is Alicia, not Aleesha.

The problem is English and Spanish (Spain) are phonetically poles apart languages. We can read, write and never get the pronunciation quite right unless we learned both languages as children.

Like my niece, I have a difficult name to pronounce in English. No one gets it right by reading it. I learned long ago that if I want to get my name correctly pronounced, I need to give a bit of feed back how it should be spelled in English to sound right in Spanish. The moment I phonetically spell my name, everybody gets it right.

Just to touch some basics, any word with a "cia" should be read as "thia"

Grog123 · 14/07/2025 14:08

purpledaze24 · 14/07/2025 08:40

My DS is due to start school in Sept and we recently met his soon to be classmates at an intro session. I have never heard so many stereotypically posh names in one group of people in my life! (The school is close to a very wealthy village…that we don’t live in sadly!) there was an Arabella, a Tarquin, a Jaygo, a Henrietta. So that’s what inspired this thread…what do you consider the top 5 poshest names you’ve ever heard of?

This is Horrible, classist and judgy - would you comment on names from all backgrounds? Would you start a post about common names too?! This kind of weird reverse snobbery directed towards children is out of order.

Julimia · 14/07/2025 14:09

Having taught for 40 years plus I don't believe there is such a thing as a posh name. Children are essentially all different and put their own individuality onto any name.

shoopshoopshopp · 14/07/2025 14:11

Marmeduke
Peregrine
Barnaby
Hugh
Miles
Tobias

Cressida
Portia
Beatrice
Allegra
Genevieve
Jocasta

housethatbuiltme · 14/07/2025 14:12

CurlewKate · 14/07/2025 13:55

The proper pronunciation of Alicia is Alicia, not Aleesha.

Based on of origin it would not have been pronounced as 'ee-uh'.

That became more common when it made it to Spanish speaking areas (which have different language bases) but it did not originate there, it is a Germanic name originally.

RosesAndHellebores · 14/07/2025 14:13

John and Mary.

However "Plum" does it for me. A classmate of dd who is now grown up. Can anyone guess the actual name?

MumsTheWordYouKnow · 14/07/2025 14:16

user1492757084 · 14/07/2025 09:10

Peregrine
Hugh
David
Merrick
Charles

Victoria
Philomena
Jane
Clare
Eleanora

Jane, Clare, David, you what now?

Calliopespa · 14/07/2025 14:17

tarheelbaby · 14/07/2025 14:07

that's brilliant ...
was 'er old man a diamond geezer ...
I guess she was an only child ...

The thing is, it's the people who are posh/rich/MC or UC, not the names.

I know two girls called Willa - not a name I think of as 'posh'. One of them is plenty nice but called Willa b/c her parents liked it.
But the other one is v. posh but v modest. Willa is a shortened version of her old fashioned, passed down, distinctive (possibly outing) family name. Her older relatives (aunts, gp's) were good friends with Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip and were close to King Charles when he was a boy.
And think of the name Harry. That boy could be a prince of the realm or a chimney sweep or anything in between.

Lots of the posh/rich/UC/MC boys I know have a traditional name and use the short form: Freddie for Frederick, Eddie for Edward, Charlie for Charles. Girls often have similarly traditional or straightforward names: Emma, Ella, Louisa, Alice, Florence, Chloe, Sophie. Some are more interesting: Esme, Aurelia, Arabella, Cosmo, Humphrey, Jasper, Ottilie, Eva/Evie, Oscar

I agree: its people who are posh, not names. Using a posh name doesn't suddenly make you posh.

Also, it comes down to what these threads always come down to: people have different ideas of posh.

Lots of these sound arty UMC to me not posh. Another poster's contribution sounded to me like a wealthy/celeb type school, but not posh as such.

PigeonDuckGoose · 14/07/2025 14:19

user1492757084 · 14/07/2025 09:10

Peregrine
Hugh
David
Merrick
Charles

Victoria
Philomena
Jane
Clare
Eleanora

Is Clare considered posh? I know loads fo Clare's of various ages and none are posh ha.

dynamiccactus · 14/07/2025 14:22

Cordelia and Octavia

lilaclemon · 14/07/2025 14:23

Loveday
Auberon

lilaclemon · 14/07/2025 14:25

RosesAndHellebores · 14/07/2025 14:13

John and Mary.

However "Plum" does it for me. A classmate of dd who is now grown up. Can anyone guess the actual name?

Victoria
Plum was a usual nickname for Victoria

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 14/07/2025 14:26

wizzywig · 14/07/2025 09:01

IM SORRY I DIDNT KNOW HOW TO SPELL LETTUCE/ LETTICE AAAAGHH

Meh hehe he. You can ALWAYS trust mumsnetters to correct any small detail, you fool.
💐
Ps
I would have spelled Lettice Lettuce as well. I have never came across such a name.

BunnyLake · 14/07/2025 14:26

housethatbuiltme · 14/07/2025 13:49

I dislike it when people say 'ee-ah' instead of 'shuh' with names like Alicia, Lucia, Patricia etc... certainly don't think it sounds classier.

Too me it sounds more uneducated, like a child learning to reading out loud by saying each individual letter rather than the combination sound.

The ee ah for Alicia is apparently Italian and Spanish. I prefer it as I really dislike the name Alesha.

JaneEyre40 · 14/07/2025 14:27

twistyizzy · 14/07/2025 08:50

OP how would you feel if you saw a thread about "chav" names? Cos they are stereotypical "posh" names they are fair game? Pretty sure you wouldn't be happy if I said "let's hear the chaviest names at a school"?

Why not?

Freda999 · 14/07/2025 14:29

Sauvin · 14/07/2025 09:03

I met an Atticus once, I thought that was posh.

My cat is called Atticus!

Shufflebumnessie · 14/07/2025 14:29

Arabella
Samson
Casper
Clarence
Arlo
Jasper
Jonah
Ophelia
Jemimah
St John

Gardenbumblebee · 14/07/2025 14:29

I know a Florence and Rafferty. Gorgeous names that would seem very out of place on my council estate!

Arabella isn't posh anymore. I hear it regularly along with Neveah, Jayden, Braden, Kayden, etc.

ItsameLuigi · 14/07/2025 14:29

Jaq27 · 14/07/2025 12:12

Beauchamp - pronounced 'Beecham'. I imagine if you didn't know how to say it the parents could tell you weren't out of the posh drawer.

Portia - DH thought it was 'Porsche' like the car when he heard it at the school LOL.

I only know how to say Beauchamp because the bus into a city near me goes up a road with that name and the bus has a speaker to say the name of the stop 😅

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