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I feel in a mess

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Youagain2025 · 11/07/2025 10:40

I feel like im in a mess in my head and everything feels busy. I feel like I dont have any time to do anything even though im not actually doing anything. Its all in my head.

Everything feels complicated my head feels a bit wtf . When theres no reason to feel tjat way.

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HardworkSendHelp · 11/07/2025 14:52

Ah sorry you feel like this. I can be like that at certain times. Are you menopausal?
Do you have family?
My tips to get out of that and get things done are

  1. write a list - but do not expect to much of yourself. - Like today I will achieve A, B, C
  2. Get a podcast that you like or music and listen while you do the things you need to do. I find this keeps my head from being busy and getting distracted with bad thoughts.
  3. Try meditation - there are free APPs you can use - e.g. Insight Timer
  4. If it persists you may need to speak to a doctor.
Youagain2025 · 11/07/2025 15:56

HardworkSendHelp · 11/07/2025 14:52

Ah sorry you feel like this. I can be like that at certain times. Are you menopausal?
Do you have family?
My tips to get out of that and get things done are

  1. write a list - but do not expect to much of yourself. - Like today I will achieve A, B, C
  2. Get a podcast that you like or music and listen while you do the things you need to do. I find this keeps my head from being busy and getting distracted with bad thoughts.
  3. Try meditation - there are free APPs you can use - e.g. Insight Timer
  4. If it persists you may need to speak to a doctor.

Ah im sorry I didn't mean to come across as overly deep . Its probably the heat possibly peri think the heat is sizzling my brain

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HardworkSendHelp · 11/07/2025 16:06

Youagain2025 · 11/07/2025 15:56

Ah im sorry I didn't mean to come across as overly deep . Its probably the heat possibly peri think the heat is sizzling my brain

But it is how you feel. I am peri and the anxiety is just ridiuculous. I am going to get bloods down and a friend said HRT might help. You would think I had the weight of the world on my shoulders but on reflection I have a charmed existance. Some days I could just stay in bed and think and worry about what I have to do.

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