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Why did he do this?

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notsurewhattodohelpme · 07/07/2025 05:17

I met a man online, we had a few dates seemed to be getting on ok, we went for a picnic he asked me what I like, I told him I love cheese, I’m not keen on sausage rolls but I love the cheese ones, we also had mini cheddars and cheese and pickle rolls, he then showed me this video on facebook of someone fat shaming, he was laughing I didn’t find it very funny, it felt like he was saying if I eat all these cheesy foods I will get fat, I stopped seeing him because of it, but now i’m not sure if it’s me reading to much into it or he’s an arse? I mean he could have showed me any funny videos there’s thousands out there, why that one?

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moondip · 07/07/2025 05:29

Whether or not he was trying to “tell you something,” is a man who finds fat-shaming videos funny in general someone who deserves your time?

notsurewhattodohelpme · 07/07/2025 05:31

No it definitely put me off him.

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moondip · 07/07/2025 05:33

That’s good. So, try not to waste mental energy on wondering if you misread the situation. You didn’t. You backed off cos he is a man who finds fat-shaming videos funny, and that’s not someone you wanna be with :)

notsurewhattodohelpme · 07/07/2025 14:03

moondip · 07/07/2025 05:33

That’s good. So, try not to waste mental energy on wondering if you misread the situation. You didn’t. You backed off cos he is a man who finds fat-shaming videos funny, and that’s not someone you wanna be with :)

I guess I’m just interested to know why he done it? As he appeared to be a nice friendly gentleman 🤷‍♀️

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