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What do you think of people with colourful hair? As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair

636 replies

StonePaperScissors · 06/07/2025 09:02

I always had my hair in a natural brown until last year and I started getting it bleached and highlighted to get some fun bright colours in my hair. I don't want to be known so I won't give my hair colours away but I did a new colour recently and I love it.

I get two reactions.

  1. where people love it
  2. they hate it but mabe they won't say it but their tone and attitude - I sense something.

For me I think there is too much madness in the world and I am not hurting anyone and I need more bright and cheerful in my life.

Some people probably think I am a clown or something. I don't know. I really love colourful hair.

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TheBerry · 06/07/2025 10:25

I don’t personally think it looks good. Just not very classy, I guess?

Also, everyone I’ve met with colourful hair has had a lot of drama going on in their lives.

Obviously I’d keep those thoughts to myself, though. I’d never treat anybody any differently due to their hair colour. They’re not hurting anyone with it and it’s none of my business.

ShesTheAlbatross · 06/07/2025 10:25

Fraggeek · 06/07/2025 10:21

Wow.
I feel hugely attacked.

I have pastel coloured hair. I have it this colour for no other reason than I love it. My hair is for me, no one else. It isn't my personality and I do know I am judged for it.

I guess reading what people must think of me is a bit of a shock, but to be honest I wouldn't want to associate myself with such judgemental people. If my hair acts as a deterrent, to keep that type of person away then actually, I wish I'd have started dying it sooner. It would have saved me a lot of hassle.

But you will make snap judgements based on people’s appearance as well. Everyone does. Even if they insist they don’t.

TequilaNights · 06/07/2025 10:26

Half the time I dont notice really, I will occasionally tell someone how amazing their hair is, especially the rainbow style, I mostly have noticed on more mature ladies, they always appreciate the compliment.

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worstofbothworlds · 06/07/2025 10:26

It's a bit "I'm so different I'm going to look just like all my friends", isn't it?
I'm a lecturer and it is largely the politically "aware" for want of a better word.
But being students they've often done it themselves or cheaply and don't keep it up, leading to poorly conditioned hair with brown roots.

DelphiniumBlue · 06/07/2025 10:27

I love the diversity, but I think it does have a hint of “I’m different, me” and just slightly wacky and non- conforming. Which is not a bad thing, I m not hugely conformist myself.
I did fancy purple lowlights in my grey hair, but my DC unanimously begged me not to, and they are quite arty types. Is it that even adult kids don’t want their mum to stand out as “ different”?

MissDoubleU · 06/07/2025 10:28

Everyone saying they wouldn’t judge in the same sentence as being very judgmental. Hilarious.

I had coloured hair for years. Nothing to do with politics or opinions about gender. It made me feel good about myself as a form of self expression. The people saying it’s about attention are also hilarious. The reason I went back to natural was because of unwelcome attention. I wanted to express creatively and enjoy colour and fun, not be easy to spot in a crowd.

Cheeseplantandcrackers · 06/07/2025 10:29

Absolutely couldn’t care less what others do to their hair. Whatever makes you happy.

Iloveeverycat · 06/07/2025 10:29

Isn’t brightly coloured hair viewed by the NHS as a red flag for mental illness? I could be completely wrong but I’m sure I read that somewhere!
Sounds like you have a mental illness thinking that.

MissDoubleU · 06/07/2025 10:29

DelphiniumBlue · 06/07/2025 10:27

I love the diversity, but I think it does have a hint of “I’m different, me” and just slightly wacky and non- conforming. Which is not a bad thing, I m not hugely conformist myself.
I did fancy purple lowlights in my grey hair, but my DC unanimously begged me not to, and they are quite arty types. Is it that even adult kids don’t want their mum to stand out as “ different”?

On the contrast my kids have always loved my coloured hair and were quite disappointed to me going natural.

Not that I live my life for my children and would let them control my identity or appearance.

Persephoknee · 06/07/2025 10:30

I’d think you were likely having mental health issues. It’s usually used by people that are struggling.

Waitingfordoggo · 06/07/2025 10:30

I know what PPs mean re neurodiversity and political ideologies but I know quite a few middle aged women with pink hair (or streaks of pink) who really aren’t political at all and who are NT. It’s quite popular- I think some people just think it’s fun. I don’t really like or dislike it.

LizzieVereker · 06/07/2025 10:31

cryingandshaking · 06/07/2025 10:19

It always makes me think that the person is depressed or neurodivergent, and possibly unemployed - a massive sweeping generalisation I know! Obviously this is an internal thought that I don’t voice out loud. It possibly stems from my own insecurities. I only know a couple of people who have hairstyles like this and they are both overweight and suffer from chronic functional disorders. I don’t associate it with political ideology tbh.

Same. I would mostly assume that the person is struggling with their mental health, or at least a little fragile. I can’t think of anyone that I have met with colourful hair that isn’t. I realise that there may be some purple haired happy folk but I haven’t met any, and it’s quite a large sample size. Many of the people that I meet with this type of hair are also neurodivergent, and many follow divisive political ideologies. Again, only based on my personal interactions, but factual within those parameters.

gottalottodo · 06/07/2025 10:31

Attention seekers

Iloveeverycat · 06/07/2025 10:31

DelphiniumBlue · 06/07/2025 10:27

I love the diversity, but I think it does have a hint of “I’m different, me” and just slightly wacky and non- conforming. Which is not a bad thing, I m not hugely conformist myself.
I did fancy purple lowlights in my grey hair, but my DC unanimously begged me not to, and they are quite arty types. Is it that even adult kids don’t want their mum to stand out as “ different”?

My 3 love my purple and pink hair

SophiePie · 06/07/2025 10:32

I think there are lots of assumptions, some of which are correct personally. I have black and bright pink hair, ND and very shy but mostly neutral on politics. So it seems there is a stereotype.

Flashout · 06/07/2025 10:32

RedRec · 06/07/2025 09:23

I live near a well known 'alternative' town. Every other person there has pink or green, etc, hair because they think they are different from the rest of us 'normies'. When in fact they are a homogenous mass.

hebden bridge?

MixedMetals · 06/07/2025 10:32

You wouldn't want to have confidence issues and read mumsnet. So many threads on here being brutal about people. Before I started reading mumsnet I had no idea that so many people look so closely at others and judge so hard.

I genuinely don't think anything about people with colourful hair or fat people or people wearing short shorts or leggings. I might think that looks nice or not but don't make up whole stories about the psychology behind why a particular person is wearing a short skirt or has green hair. I just presume it's because they like it.

Iloveeverycat · 06/07/2025 10:32

gottalottodo · 06/07/2025 10:31

Attention seekers

No I am not. I do it for me because I like it.

Disturbia81 · 06/07/2025 10:32

I love it. Especially love seeing women in their 60s/70s/80s with pink, purple hair instead of the uniform grey/white. I think we’ll see it more as our generation gets older.

TheNinny · 06/07/2025 10:33

I’ll be honest, mental illness or attention seeking left wing ideology (usually gender theory). When i was younger it was usually more with punk music etc and a lot of my friends had colourful hair and I remember in my teens sometimes wanting to dye my hair wild but I was too timid to pull it off.

However, I think anyone over 24 with hair as you described normally fits my first sentence…but I’ll never voice it out loud.

AngelinaFibres · 06/07/2025 10:33

Elisheva · 06/07/2025 09:12

I would assume that you are a lesbian and/or neurodiverse.
This is obviously hugely judgmental and stereotyping, but it would be my starting point.
I work in a sixth form college and the only kids with colourful hair are ND.

I would assume that too .
Or that you were going through the menopause and were trying ( and failing) to reconnect with the 'quirky' , crazy , fun you.Id keep you at arms length.

Beautifulspringsunshine · 06/07/2025 10:34

This is very interesting. I have my hair very short and often brightly coloured but I'm definitely not woke or a lesbian, in fact I'm a pentecostal Christian. I do however have ADHD.
I think it's all down to stereotyping and snobbery.

Nannyfannybanny · 06/07/2025 10:34

I can't wait to tell my friend
She has her hair professionally done every 2 weeks, she was in fact a hairdresser..my own hair dresser in her 50s has bright red hair, the other stylist sometimes green/blue,no mental issues, depression,both very happily married...to men.. any of you watch "The Repair shop"
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Digdongdoo · 06/07/2025 10:34

I don't like it personally. It's never flattering. But I wouldn't give it any thought. It's not exactly unusual these days.
My toddler was asking very loudly (I did distract him immediately) on the bus why a lady had pink hair. She didn't appreciate it, but I'm not sure what she expected. Bright pink hair is very showy, rightly or wrongly people will notice.

PluckyChancer · 06/07/2025 10:35

I love colour so wear bright colourful clothes all the time. Most of them me-made because I’m crafty like that. I’m also very competent at colouring and usually have varying shades of purple on my hair that I’ve done myself, bleach plus direct dye. I’m always getting complimented for looking bright & cheerful. 😊

My house is painted a pretty shade of pink on the outside and I have a magenta pink glass splash back above my kitchen units and houseplants everywhere.

I’m in my late 50’s, retired early, left wing leaning and do not support the bollocks that you can change sex, you can’t! 🤷🏻‍♀️. Never attended a Pride march in my life but I do support the LGB Alliance.