Rolling back the years...

[IfonlyIcouldthinkofaname]

If you could go back to being a 20 year old again...What would you change the second time around?

I think mine would be to give some of my partners more of a chance, save relentlessly and not to worry so much about other people's opinions.

Great question.Wouldn’t fundamentally change anything as I’m happy in career and with the same man
I would try worry less though. I worried about grades,progression, very serious and driven. I literally had nowt to worry about

Get weight loss surgery tbh, thats it x

Having lost the weight and got fit and would have maintained it

Stop getting so anxious . It is an absolute waste of your energy and your life.

Ahhh so many things lol

I would've not gone to the expensive university I went to, it wasn't worth it.

I would've appreciated the good man I had in my life at the time, and not taken him for granted (and thinking that most men were like him as I have found out the hard way many aren't)

I’d be the opposite and would give boyfriends less of a chance. Would ride rings around myself and wouldn’t give a shite about ‘settling down’ either.

worry less

manage money a million times better

travel more

I would have not given so many fucks - one of the advantages of being older is that the energy I expend on worrying about what other people think has decreased considerably.
Apart from that, I'm fairly happy with most of the decision I made.

Save money.
if it wasn’t for DS it would be get rid of useless boyfriend, but I couldn’t be without my boy
stop being such a people, pleasing sap
Dont settle

Not going to uni & worked full time in my weekend/holiday job and bought a property with one of those 95% interest only mortgages. I would be rich now!

Focus on myself rather than trying to be popular, and especially trying to please men. Drink and smoke less and travel more.

Not drink so much. I was an utter mess late teens/early twenties.

Pack the drugs in.

Dumped my boyfriend, travelled the world, realised I was actually quite lovely, moved to London, got into publishing or IT and had more sex relationships.

Loving the great comments...Keep them coming...

Btw I'm glad not to be the only one wanting to re-write history....

Open a stocks and shares ISA, set up a small amount to dribble into a fund each month and forget about it for twenty years.

I’d do it all so differently. The biggest one is that I wouldn’t get with DH.