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Aaaarrrghhh perimen and total body aches

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BettyMacdonald · 29/06/2025 14:34

Hi

I’ve just turned 50, on HRT but still having regular periods, otherwise fit and active although could lose a stone. BMI just into the “overweight” category. I work PT in a demanding and physical HCP role. 3 teens.

Recently, I’ve started to ache EVERYWHERE, both joints and muscles. I’ve had a full set of bloods and they’re all normal, including inflammatory markers, ferritin and vitamin d. I take multivitamins, evening primrose oil, magnesium and marine collagen. I’m pescatarian and have a pretty low in UPFs diet (but a weakness for Tesco “cornettos”) 😬.

I keep saying I’ll start doing weights and Pilates but life gets in the way. I had a recent physio assessment at work - I’m not hyper mobile or anything.

My hands and fingers feel “puffy” but there’s no sign of any physical swelling. Everything just hurts and I don’t know why!

I’m very active, don’t sit down much and don’t feel particularly tired, just sore. Any suggestions? Thank you.

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JamPotJenny · 29/06/2025 18:41

My body ached at your age - sore and stiff joints from my wrists to my shoulder blades, my hips, knees, bottom of my feet - even my finger joints.

GP gave me HRT patches and I eliminated sugar from my diet.

Within weeks I saw an improvement. My feet were the last to stop aching - about 6 weeks in total. Worth looking at the patches I reckon.

JustPinkFinch · 29/06/2025 18:44

HRT got rid of long standing aches and injuries in about 2 months for me. For me the magic was 2 pumps of oestrogel. I recently cut it down to 1 pump and have noticed a few niggles creeping back, so may go back up again.

BettyMacdonald · 29/06/2025 20:34

Thank you @JamPotJenny and @JustPinkFinch .

I’m already on HRT - 3 pumps of the gel plus progesterone tablets cyclically. I can’t use patches as I’m allergic to a lot of plasters etc. I’ve got an gynaecology appointment in bloody February to discuss testosterone as a friend of mine had good results with this.

I think the diet / sugar aspect is a good call. My diet is fairly good but weirdly, I’ve gone from not having a sweet tooth to craving sugar which isn’t great.

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JamPotJenny · 04/07/2025 05:58

Whenever I start to eat lots of refined sugar (daily snacking), I can guarantee my body will start getting more stiff and sore.

I’m ok with raw honey. Processed sugar is toxic to my body, definitely.

JamPotJenny · 04/07/2025 05:59

Eliminating it from my life completely stopped the cravings. Took me about a week to fully recover from the stuff.

clarepetal · 04/07/2025 06:36

Magnesium! If I don't take it, my body aches. (Also on HRT)

Fitzcarraldo353 · 04/07/2025 07:17

BettyMacdonald · 29/06/2025 20:34

Thank you @JamPotJenny and @JustPinkFinch .

I’m already on HRT - 3 pumps of the gel plus progesterone tablets cyclically. I can’t use patches as I’m allergic to a lot of plasters etc. I’ve got an gynaecology appointment in bloody February to discuss testosterone as a friend of mine had good results with this.

I think the diet / sugar aspect is a good call. My diet is fairly good but weirdly, I’ve gone from not having a sweet tooth to craving sugar which isn’t great.

If you're happy with gel that's great but I don't react to patches and I do to all plasters!

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