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Would you bother reporting a flasher?

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ScurryHurry · 24/06/2025 20:03

Dropped my 14 yr old Dd at dance tonight, parked up and a man crosses the road, stops directly behind my car, and gets his knob out (I was looking through rear view mirror).

I got out and basically told him to fuck off, which he did, there were a couple of people further up the road, but when I asked, they hadn't seen anything. I then just got on with my day. I didn't consider reporting it until I messaged DH who asked if I had. I have now filled in an online police report, but not sure what they can do really.

But, it got me thinking, if this happened/has happened to you, did you/would you report it?

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ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 25/06/2025 13:59

What’s the point? The police do fuck all with the information.

Yeah, they ‘log it’. 🙄

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2025 16:28

@ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews Yes. That’s exactly it. No cctv and the man that assaulted dd cannot be traced. Police not remotely interested. No one can identify him, but I bet the shop staff know him. That’s why they didn’t bat an eyelid or help DD. There was cctv but it was erased. One man in a hoodie is much the same as the innocent man in a hoodie. The police don’t care at all.

OnTheBoardwalk · 25/06/2025 22:39

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 25/06/2025 13:59

What’s the point? The police do fuck all with the information.

Yeah, they ‘log it’. 🙄

Have you seen other posts and the OPs that the police do now take it seriously, have been round the next day and involve victim support?

spiderlight · 25/06/2025 23:33

Yes. I reported one and the police came straight round and drove me round the area in a police car to look for him. Didn't spot him, sadly. They took it very seriously though. Admittedly this was a few years ago but I would always report.

Bbq1 · 25/06/2025 23:35

x2boys · 24/06/2025 20:11

I didn't but I was in a,secluded area and the man was masteurbating, a few feet in front of me I just quickly turned and got back to the main road ASAP.

Had the same. It was on a footpath used by teenagers and mums with babies, a wide variety of people. It was 8 am and the man is standing in the middle of the footpath openly masturbating. There was nobody else around. I shouted something to him along the lines of "you filthy bastard" and I quickly hopped over the low wall and knocked at the fire station that backed onto the path. I told the fireman who answered and he said they would check. I went on my was as the man had disappeared but I didn't think to report it. It was many years ago, I would now.

NameChangedOfc · 25/06/2025 23:39

Yes I would, because this kind of behaviour can escalate and police should be aware of their existance.

x2boys · 26/06/2025 00:20

Bbq1 · 25/06/2025 23:35

Had the same. It was on a footpath used by teenagers and mums with babies, a wide variety of people. It was 8 am and the man is standing in the middle of the footpath openly masturbating. There was nobody else around. I shouted something to him along the lines of "you filthy bastard" and I quickly hopped over the low wall and knocked at the fire station that backed onto the path. I told the fireman who answered and he said they would check. I went on my was as the man had disappeared but I didn't think to report it. It was many years ago, I would now.

Tbf I was more concerned about my own safety at the time as I'm sure you were luckily I was very near some steps thst led to the main road and I about turned very quickly this was also quite a few years ago with the benefit of hindsight I should have reported it but I just wanted to get away .

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