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Assisted Dying Bill passed by slim majority

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smallglassbottle · 20/06/2025 15:24

https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-starmer-assisted-dying-trump-israel-iran-labour-12593360

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 20/06/2025 22:03

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:00

We don’t need a bill for better palliative care - there is nothing legally preventing it already. What is preventing it is money and resources which we cannot just ‘find’ without taking it from somewhere else. Disability benefits maybe? Or free school meals? Or healthcare for those not already dying?

I'm saying that the time and effort spent on this could have been spent on getting better palliative care. You're saying we should take more money from the poor.

OntheBorder1 · 20/06/2025 22:03

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 20/06/2025 15:50

There are literally 0 safeguards.

If the bill passes it will essentially be each person for himself. And then it will only be a matter of time before it’s extended to mental illness/disability/the murder of dementia patients such as happens in the Netherlands and Belgium.

I understand why someone would want it in certain circumstances, but that doesn’t make it ok.

For every one person who legitimately accesses the service, there will be thousands who feel coerced/pressured/obligated to kill themselves or have themselves killed.

There is not a single country where this has worked out well. And if you do some reading up on assisted dying, it is rarely the peaceful end that people seem to think it is.

Really, not one single country? Are you sure about that?

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:04

MiloMinderbinder925 · 20/06/2025 22:03

I'm saying that the time and effort spent on this could have been spent on getting better palliative care. You're saying we should take more money from the poor.

Getting it from where? The money spent on this so far is a drop in the ocean. This is the whole point.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/06/2025 22:05

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BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 22:05

Some of us really work hard to make it ‘less shit ‘ though against people who seem to be desperately arguing we should just roll with terrible ideas like this appalling , devoid of safeguards , bill .
I think the elderly and disabled people are worthy of respect and they WILL be coerced into being murdered .
What else do you feel we should just accept because it’s too ’costly ‘ to combat in this ‘shit’ World ? Environmental destruction ? Prosecution of paedophiles ?

Civilised society is all about choices regarding spending .

MiloMinderbinder925 · 20/06/2025 22:06

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:04

Getting it from where? The money spent on this so far is a drop in the ocean. This is the whole point.

I can't be bothered arguing about this. It's a great example of how shit society is. You enjoy it.

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 20/06/2025 22:06

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:02

Doesn’t matter whether I’m singled out or not - doesn’t make it any less true I’m afraid.

So, because it’s cheaper, we should be encouraging people to kill themselves. Not only that, the state, so yours and my taxes, should pay for it because otherwise they’re a financial burden.

Because that is what you’re saying.

You clearly have 0 value for human life other than the financial.

Viviennemary · 20/06/2025 22:06

I'm done with Labour now. First the abortion change to make it legal until birth. Now assisted dying. Its not the party for me.

Witchling · 20/06/2025 22:06

I sat and watched a loved one die recently. They were basically lying in a hospital bed. Looking like they were restless sleeping. There was NO way they were going to wake up.

Family then had to wait while their poor body failed underneath them.

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:07

BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 22:05

Some of us really work hard to make it ‘less shit ‘ though against people who seem to be desperately arguing we should just roll with terrible ideas like this appalling , devoid of safeguards , bill .
I think the elderly and disabled people are worthy of respect and they WILL be coerced into being murdered .
What else do you feel we should just accept because it’s too ’costly ‘ to combat in this ‘shit’ World ? Environmental destruction ? Prosecution of paedophiles ?

Civilised society is all about choices regarding spending .

Indeed - and none of those choices are easy ones. For everyone who gains, someone else must lose.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 20/06/2025 22:09

BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 21:36

Speaking as a Doctor it really isn’t . The NHS is in a terrible disorganised mess & bumping off people within such a system will be a preferred method of cost cutting . Who do you think is going to hold doctors to account after your death ?

I agree completely, BetsyMacdonald, and that last sentence is especially valid - after all the dead aren't oming back to complain and any input from grieving families can all too easily be brushed aside with "well, of course they're upset"

It's also interesting that those who were so quick to cry "But A COURT has to agree" have gone very quiet now that's been watered down to "a panel of social workers/psychiatrists, etc", which begs the question of whether there'll be any real safeguards at all by the time they've finished

But then safeguards also cost money, so why bother ... after all they're going to be dead aren't they? Hmm

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 20/06/2025 22:10

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:07

Indeed - and none of those choices are easy ones. For everyone who gains, someone else must lose.

I bet you were one of those who felt that the vulnerable should have been locked away during COVID or sacrificed so that you could go to McDonalds and have a burger.

your attitude is despicable.

Noodledog · 20/06/2025 22:10

BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 22:05

Some of us really work hard to make it ‘less shit ‘ though against people who seem to be desperately arguing we should just roll with terrible ideas like this appalling , devoid of safeguards , bill .
I think the elderly and disabled people are worthy of respect and they WILL be coerced into being murdered .
What else do you feel we should just accept because it’s too ’costly ‘ to combat in this ‘shit’ World ? Environmental destruction ? Prosecution of paedophiles ?

Civilised society is all about choices regarding spending .

One of the things that has interested me in the whole debate is that the same people who would be horrified at the idea that an innocent person should be executed are totally indifferent to the thought of vulnerable people being coerced into dying against their will.

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:10

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 20/06/2025 22:06

So, because it’s cheaper, we should be encouraging people to kill themselves. Not only that, the state, so yours and my taxes, should pay for it because otherwise they’re a financial burden.

Because that is what you’re saying.

You clearly have 0 value for human life other than the financial.

Not at all - I’m just aware that, as with nearly everything in this world, that there is unfortunately a financial aspect to it that we simply cannot ignore.

BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 22:11

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Correct - you do and I am . Thank you for recognising this .
I care deeply about my patients and I work within in a system which in certain sectors is currently failing patients very badly .

BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 22:12

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 21:30

No, that's not what I said is it? In a perfect world we would have all of the money we need for everyone to have fantastic medical and palliative care from cradle to grave, no-one would die horrible painful deaths, there would be no war or fighting, etc etc.

Unfortunately for us, we all have to live in the real world though, where money is a finite resource and we have to make hard decisions about where it is best spent.

So that IS what you said

Lalgarh · 20/06/2025 22:12

Dymaxion · 20/06/2025 21:33

The most painful death I witnessed, however, was that of my beloved father. He died in an NHS hospital—not from illness alone, but through a process of starvation and dehydration, legally sanctioned under what was called the 'Liverpool Care Pathway.

The Liverpool Care Pathway was designed by those in the Hospice Movement with the aim to allow those in hospital to get a similar level of care. I remember the time before it, working on the wards and you wouldn't want a hamster to go through what people did, junior Doctors terrified of prescribing sufficient end of life medications over a weekend because they weren't trained to recognise a dying patient. However, the pathway wasn't implemented with enough training for either nursing or medical staff, the inbuilt safeguards ignored ( regular reviews) and the age old issue of the acute sector getting bored as soon as someone isn't 'fixable'.

As someone who spends a lot of their working life looking after people who are dying, I can see both sides of the argument. I hope the Lords give this Bill their fullest attention. They are going to need to strip away the emotion from a very emotive issue to ensure appropriate legal safeguards are in place.

That does hit on something @Dymaxion .

What seems well provisioned with say safeguarding when it's run as a pilot then risks becoming a tick box exercise when it's rolled out nationally. The Liverpool Care Pathway was designed for more humane outcomes to those described but ended up being blanket applied. And that was 20 years ago. Now there might be AI involved in assessing if a patient is within the 6 month timeframe

Noodledog · 20/06/2025 22:16

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:07

Indeed - and none of those choices are easy ones. For everyone who gains, someone else must lose.

Is this really the road you want society to go down? Because reading your posts is just making me think that if I do make it to retirement age, I'll just spend everything I've got on holidays and expensive meals out. The rest I'll waste :) .

Because if society just sees pensioners as a financial burden and not worthy of any support, why should a pensioner give a fuck about society?

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:18

Noodledog · 20/06/2025 22:16

Is this really the road you want society to go down? Because reading your posts is just making me think that if I do make it to retirement age, I'll just spend everything I've got on holidays and expensive meals out. The rest I'll waste :) .

Because if society just sees pensioners as a financial burden and not worthy of any support, why should a pensioner give a fuck about society?

Do I want it? Of course not. Does that make any difference to how it’s currently going? Also of course not, because under our current system it is inevitable.

Spinthewheel1 · 20/06/2025 22:19

Scuttlebut · 20/06/2025 18:02

Instead of advocating for high-quality palliative care, some prefer the 'cheap and convenient' option of euthanasia—as if life itself were a problem to be eliminated. What does that say about the value we place on human life?

For those in positions of power, and others who are pushing this agenda, it often comes down to money and the desire for an easier life. After all, waiting with someone at the end of life isn't easy—or comfortable. But compassion shouldn't be replaced by convenience.

The love of money truly is the root of all evil—whether it’s about boosting government coffers, saving cash on staffing and excellent palliative care, or family hastening a premature inheritance.

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What a load of rubbish. You’ve clearly never seen a long and painful death.

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:21

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 20/06/2025 22:10

I bet you were one of those who felt that the vulnerable should have been locked away during COVID or sacrificed so that you could go to McDonalds and have a burger.

your attitude is despicable.

I’m sorry you think so. Have a nice evening.

Noodledog · 20/06/2025 22:26

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:18

Do I want it? Of course not. Does that make any difference to how it’s currently going? Also of course not, because under our current system it is inevitable.

Do you have any thoughts on my suggestion that while the government will make savings in not paying for pensions and disability support, it will lose money due to the social contract breaking down?

Noodledog · 20/06/2025 22:27

Spinthewheel1 · 20/06/2025 22:19

What a load of rubbish. You’ve clearly never seen a long and painful death.

I don't know why this keeps being rolled out. Of course people have seen painful deaths, they just think decent palliative care would be better than killing people.

BetsyMacdonald · 20/06/2025 22:28

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:07

Indeed - and none of those choices are easy ones. For everyone who gains, someone else must lose.

This reasoning doesn’t hold up to scrutiny .

Gains and losses in spending really don’t balance in the simplistic way you seem to be suggesting. It is completely possible to invest money in good , effective care and health systems that result in a win win situation for patients. This then results in huge economic savings as well as optimal health outcomes .

Some examples -antibiotics are still hugely & inappropriately prescribed. Also the air quality & hygiene levels in NHS hospitals are too often suboptimal .
These factors lead to iatrogenic illnesses and death through ( eg) MRSA , Sepsis and hospital acquired pneumonia.

Prescribing antibiotics in accordance with proper clinical indication and adhering to proper hygiene protocols , together with excellent air filtration systems would both SAVE money and many lives .

OnlyDespairRemains · 20/06/2025 22:29

Noodledog · 20/06/2025 22:26

Do you have any thoughts on my suggestion that while the government will make savings in not paying for pensions and disability support, it will lose money due to the social contract breaking down?

The social contract is already breaking. Given that assisted dying is, according to most polls, supported by about 70% of the population, this will actually help rather than make it worse, if you ask me.