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Assisted Dying Bill passed by slim majority

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smallglassbottle · 20/06/2025 15:24

https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-starmer-assisted-dying-trump-israel-iran-labour-12593360

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Sirzy · 20/06/2025 18:13

Eazybreezy · 20/06/2025 18:08

If you have advanced dementia or Alzheimer’s how on earth is life worth living? You would put a dog down. Why do we put animals down? We
love them and don’t want them to suffer. It’s just not fair to expect people to live with these conditions.

Those with advance dementia won’t be able to consent to anything like this so rightly it wouldn’t be used for them.

The key thing is that the person has to make the choice themselves and be able to take the drug independently.

OriginalUsername2 · 20/06/2025 18:14

Glad it’s passed. My eyes were opened caring for my MIL as she died. There was no need for what she endured.

Animals are treated with more dignity.

(edited for awful grammar)

FolkloreEvermore1989 · 20/06/2025 18:14

I cried hearing this was passed.

my father died in agony and would have given anything for a peaceful death. i will be endlessly grateful if I am able to make that choice myself one day.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/06/2025 18:15

Eazybreezy · 20/06/2025 18:08

If you have advanced dementia or Alzheimer’s how on earth is life worth living? You would put a dog down. Why do we put animals down? We
love them and don’t want them to suffer. It’s just not fair to expect people to live with these conditions.

I agree - in principle. The problem is that medical science is much better at keeping people alive than in previous decades, and currently people with no quality of life are being kept alive long past the point when they have mental capacityy to say that's not what they want. It is absolutely crucial that the law in this area is extremely well drafted so that people can give permission when they still unarguably have mental capacity to do so.

Oatshakenespresso · 20/06/2025 18:16

hattie43 · 20/06/2025 15:39

I haven’t been following it but as a concept I agree with it . They’ll be plenty of safeguards but I’ve never understood why we allow people to suffer and our animals a death with dignity .

I agree. I watched my 95 year old grandma die a slow and painful death (bedridden).
she was utterly miserable and had always expressed in her earlier years that she didn’t want to ever be in that state and same for me. I’d much rather be in control of when I die if it’s due to old age/quality of life.

minsmum · 20/06/2025 18:17

The safeguards have.been whittled away until they are practically non existent. This.is.how Canada started and the right to die has been expanded. I think of the case of the paralympian who.went to her gp for help getting a stair.lift, they couldn't help with that so offered her euthanasia instead. This is a bad bill, with very little scrutiny or time.for debate. Parliament debated for 700 hours about whether or not to ban fox.hunting but less than 100 hours on this bill,.which was not on anyone's manifesto.

feellikeanalien · 20/06/2025 18:19

Eazybreezy · 20/06/2025 18:08

If you have advanced dementia or Alzheimer’s how on earth is life worth living? You would put a dog down. Why do we put animals down? We
love them and don’t want them to suffer. It’s just not fair to expect people to live with these conditions.

But as the bill stands it would not apply to those people. You can have Alzheimers or dementia for years. By the time they only have six months left to live they are unlikely to have the capacity required under the current proposals. I have absolutely no doubt that the provisions of the bill will be extended over the years.

In principle I believe that people should be able to chose when they die but the reality is that, because of the state that the country is in at the moment, there will be pressure. Maybe not direct from family members, but if you know that there is no care available or that because of cuts to your disability benefits you will be living in poverty then you may feel pressured to do this. I know this would not be the case as it stands but the way things are going I would not be at all surprised if the scope is extended to cover those who are not felt to be "contributing" to society whether as a result of age or disability.

I really hope I am proved wrong but at this stage I am very apprehensive.

CorneliaCupp · 20/06/2025 18:19

There is nothing to say that assisted suicide is going to be painless and peaceful.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/06/2025 18:20

Perzival · 20/06/2025 17:42

My concern is who gets to decide what a fulfilling life is for those without capacity such as those with severe autism? They clearly do not have capacity to make such a decision but who is to say that ten years after this gets implemented the law changes to include them. Their lives could be classed as not fulfilling and then the LA or person who has deputyship can make that decision for them. For the majority of people who have severe ld/autism the LA make decisions over their lives. I can see this being used as a means of cost saving.

This worries me too. I am aware that there are cases where a woman finds out during pregnancy that her unborn child has a serious medical issue and there can be an unspoken assumption that she will obviously want to terminate the pregnancy. I find this a really difficult issue. Is it her right to say no, I will give birth to a child who will have no quality of life by most people's standards, and who will need a lot of support that the rest of us have to pay for? I would say yes, it is her right, but if the Assisted Dying Bill passes into law that's another change to the context in which she makes that decision.

Eazybreezy · 20/06/2025 18:21

@CorneliaCupp yes, an ignorant comment. Maybe I am very naive, but I just don’t see the potential for people being euthanised here. And if the affected person is so ill that they can’t prevent being “euthanised” then surely they have no quality of life? Again, probably an ignorant comment. I apologise. I am trying to understand the objections.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 20/06/2025 18:22

CorneliaCupp · 20/06/2025 15:41

I don't understand how MPs can vote for legislation that has been rejected by every major medical and disability group, and still claim to care for the vulnerable. Sad day.

Indeed

It's also probably the end of any improvements in palliative care - after all why bother when there's a much cheaper solution

Sakura7 · 20/06/2025 18:26

CorneliaCupp · 20/06/2025 18:19

There is nothing to say that assisted suicide is going to be painless and peaceful.

Surely you must recognise that it's less painful and more peaceful than a slow drawn out death in agonising pain?

Eazybreezy · 20/06/2025 18:26

You can have as much palliative care as you want but ultimately most people die in pain and distress. I have a family member who was “kept alive” and asked us, his family, repeatedly to please just let him die. We were helpless and had to watch him sufffer. Humane? No

AddictedToBooks · 20/06/2025 18:26

I am someone who absolutely WILL be in this position in a few years - I'm already in constant pain and my mobility is reducing dramatically.
I've had to give up my career and all of my social hobbies (socialising, museums, long walks, theme parks etc) and I'm not even 50 yet.

I also don't want to put my family through me committing suicide as a PP suggested it would be so easy to do - it isn't easy! I've been there, tried it numerous times ...... more than that though, it's the guilt that your family are left with, thinking there was something that could have been done.

I pray that serious safeguards come into place and that this is passed and made available, as I want to be able to say and decide when and how I die - I don't want to die crying and alone and feeling guilty that one of my relatives will discover me - I'd rather die in a peaceful sleep with those I love around me and when we've all had a chance to say what we need/want to.

It's an extremely emotive issue and I believe that nobody has the right to think their views are more important or valid than somebody elses, just like in the cases of abortion.

Scuttlebut · 20/06/2025 18:30

I have been by the side of several people I loved as they passed away calmly and peacefully, cared for by compassionate staff in various hospices. The eldest was my dear, gentle grandfather, who lost his life to bowel cancer. Others were much younger. Currently, I am regularly visiting my closest friend, who is receiving exceptional end-of-life care at home.

The most painful death I witnessed, however, was that of my beloved father. He died in an NHS hospital—not from illness alone, but through a process of starvation and dehydration, legally sanctioned under what was called the 'Liverpool Care Pathway.' The name may sound acceptable, even clinical, but the reality was anything but. The guilt of allowing that to happen will stay with me for the rest of my life.

What is needed is not another method of ending human lives—however much quicker or cheaper it might be compared to the Liverpool Pathway—but a genuine commitment to increasing funding for high-quality palliative care. Every person deserves to die with dignity, compassion, and proper support, not through neglect masked as medical protocol.

CorneliaCupp · 20/06/2025 18:31

Sakura7 · 20/06/2025 18:26

Surely you must recognise that it's less painful and more peaceful than a slow drawn out death in agonising pain?

There is no guarantee when it comes to death. Many are peaceful, some are not. You cannot possibly know, and assisted dying does not increase that certainty.

CorneliaCupp · 20/06/2025 18:32

Scuttlebut · 20/06/2025 18:30

I have been by the side of several people I loved as they passed away calmly and peacefully, cared for by compassionate staff in various hospices. The eldest was my dear, gentle grandfather, who lost his life to bowel cancer. Others were much younger. Currently, I am regularly visiting my closest friend, who is receiving exceptional end-of-life care at home.

The most painful death I witnessed, however, was that of my beloved father. He died in an NHS hospital—not from illness alone, but through a process of starvation and dehydration, legally sanctioned under what was called the 'Liverpool Care Pathway.' The name may sound acceptable, even clinical, but the reality was anything but. The guilt of allowing that to happen will stay with me for the rest of my life.

What is needed is not another method of ending human lives—however much quicker or cheaper it might be compared to the Liverpool Pathway—but a genuine commitment to increasing funding for high-quality palliative care. Every person deserves to die with dignity, compassion, and proper support, not through neglect masked as medical protocol.

Absolutely agree.

charliehungerford · 20/06/2025 18:37

ThejoyofNC · 20/06/2025 17:30

So you agree with people choosing to kill themselves but you don't agree with someone choosing to believe in God?

You can of course believe in God, but please don’t impose your beliefs on me.

OdeToRoy · 20/06/2025 18:38

minsmum · 20/06/2025 18:17

The safeguards have.been whittled away until they are practically non existent. This.is.how Canada started and the right to die has been expanded. I think of the case of the paralympian who.went to her gp for help getting a stair.lift, they couldn't help with that so offered her euthanasia instead. This is a bad bill, with very little scrutiny or time.for debate. Parliament debated for 700 hours about whether or not to ban fox.hunting but less than 100 hours on this bill,.which was not on anyone's manifesto.

Yes I was thinking of the Canadian Paralympian too.

I’m not religious or against assisted dying in principle but I don’t support this bill.

CurrentHun · 20/06/2025 18:42

I think we just aren’t ready to do this without inflicting huge risks on the most vulnerable people in society who are the most reliant on public services. The people advocating for assisted dying tend to be highly privileged economically.

I am so worried to see that MPs have given it this 23 vote push towards the Lords today. It’s narrow but could be enough to give it momentum. This is the same Labour government that is aggressively trying to withdraw disability benefits when disabled people are highly likely to live in poverty already. Sending awful messages about who is valued and who isn’t.

I can’t bear to think what poverty and illness is going to do to people once assisted dying is an option. Especially when they have younger family members that they love who might need financial help to get housing.

We don’t have a well resourced NHS with spare capacity for doctors to gather expertise in this or even discuss it sensitively in the time scale that it would need. We don’t live in a situation where we have even been able to research the different types of drugs already used in different countries to end life. We have an ongoing cost of living crisis, huge unaffordable housing crisis, constant cuts to disability services, elderly care services and social care. It seems very dangerous to bring assisted dying into this.

Sakura7 · 20/06/2025 18:45

CorneliaCupp · 20/06/2025 18:31

There is no guarantee when it comes to death. Many are peaceful, some are not. You cannot possibly know, and assisted dying does not increase that certainty.

I don't really understand what you're getting at here.

In The Netherlands a sedative is administered to put the patient in a coma, then once the medics have confirmed that the patient is in a deep coma, the drug is administered to stop breathing. This all happens very quickly and is obviously very closely monitored.

That is peaceful and painless, certainly in comparison to the alternative.

placemats · 20/06/2025 18:46

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 20/06/2025 15:27

So much smaller than the first time.

I hope the Lords throw it out.

That can't happen. Hope that helps.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/06/2025 18:46

This is not a government bill. It's a Private Members' Bill. MPs and Lords have a free vote on this.

CurrentHun · 20/06/2025 18:46

I’m not religious or against assisted dying in principle but I don’t support this bill.

Same. I’m not religious either but I think assisted dying can only be safely offered in a perfect society, which we are never going to live in. Assisted dying will look less and less like a free choice, the poorer and less supported you are.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 20/06/2025 18:48

What is needed is not another method of ending human lives—however much quicker or cheaper it might be compared to the Liverpool Pathway—but a genuine commitment to increasing funding for high-quality palliative care. Every person deserves to die with dignity, compassion, and proper support, not through neglect masked as medical protocol

Beautifully put, @Scuttlebut, except that as said the chances of palliative care being made any kind of priority have just disappeared IMO

Ironically I'd support assisted dying on a point of pure principle, but certainly not within our current systems and attitudes to the vulnerable

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