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Assisted Dying Bill passed by slim majority

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smallglassbottle · 20/06/2025 15:24

https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-starmer-assisted-dying-trump-israel-iran-labour-12593360

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DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:30

NewspaperTaxis · 21/06/2025 09:30

The arguments seem very low level from the Pro point of view, It's basically 'Have you seen a relative die in agonising pain?' and I totally agree that in such cases assisted dying/suicide should be an option. The anti point of view - mine - is that this is a Trojan horse for euthanasia and intended to be, I find the whole thing sinister in the same way the families found Gosport's deaths 'sinister', the thousands of care home elderly placed on DNR during lockdown sinister, the same way I found my sister and my daily visits to give my elderly mother drink in a care home sinister once I figured out what was actually going on - namely, she'd been subject to passive euthanasia and neither she nor us had any say in it. Adult social care in this country is poisonous and the CQC and the NMC are wholly corrupt, the police too will not investigate this kind of thing, it stinks.

It is against that background that the Assisted Dying Bill with its lack of safeguards is passed. MPs and the public have been played.

As with Brexit, which also passed with a slim margin, the actual motives behind it are shadowy and it is sold on a false premise, also as with Brexit there will be buyer's remorse but once it is done it will be the elephant in the room, discussion will be taboo, as the press can't reveal what is going on even now.

Agree and the UK using Australia as an example is akin to the Brexit bus.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:32

Thelnebriati · 21/06/2025 10:27

If you cannot offer a good death within a safe framework you undermine your own argument.

The way to overcome objections is to fix the lack of safeguarding, not shouting down your opponents. The safeguarding flaws should be addressed before the bill goes ahead, otherwise what you will 'win' is a dangerous system that will cause harm.
The method or choice of drugs also matters. If they cause paralysis but not unconsciousness and don't alleviate pain then its not a good death, its slow suffocation while conscious.

Agree
have they stated what sort of drugs will be used because your last paragraph is really really worrying

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 21/06/2025 11:36

People who agree with this should consider how the welfare reforms are shaping up. Living with ailing health has increasingly little dignity, is very expensive, is increasingly villainised both in public and political discourse..but wait, here comes the dying with dignity bill with a bit of progressive gloss to distract from a toxic backdrop with piss poor careless safeguards. Or in short, see Canada.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:38

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 11:23

No I'm not. Try re-reading my comments.

Apologies if I midunderstood but you said
‘ There isn’t enough money for fantastic medical and palliative care…..
‘ there isn’t a finite amount of money……
‘ Money is a finite resource and we have to make difficult decisions about where it’s spent.’

I didn’t read that to mean the difficult decision was to spend more on palliative care

if I misunderstood I apologise. So what do those comments mean ?

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 11:43

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:38

Apologies if I midunderstood but you said
‘ There isn’t enough money for fantastic medical and palliative care…..
‘ there isn’t a finite amount of money……
‘ Money is a finite resource and we have to make difficult decisions about where it’s spent.’

I didn’t read that to mean the difficult decision was to spend more on palliative care

if I misunderstood I apologise. So what do those comments mean ?

I was saying that the argument that we should, instead of allowing for assisted dying, provide it so that everyone can have gold standard palliative care does not hold water and is just wishful thinking. It is not a difficult decision - it is an impossible one.

The finances are not there and never will be - otherwise we would already have done it, when in reality we are a long way away from it as many stories on this forum will attest to.

InWalksBarberalla · 21/06/2025 11:48

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:26

It didn’t come into use fully until 2023 amongst other reasons As mentioned above

Heres one example piece critiquing its reliance for the UK
( this isn’t the full article )

That isn't true. It came in at different times in different states of Australia because healthcare is state based. It's been in effect in Victoria since 2019 because we went through the process with a family member (who ultimately decided not to use it).

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 21/06/2025 11:53

The utter state of the electorate who think that a bill can be measured only by how desirable an outcome could be without any of the tools or care for how it could actually look in reality. More frightening still, are the number of MPs prepared to do the same.

Where is the critical thinking that people rate so highly which takes more knowledge and thought than with a shrug and an attitude of by any means necessary.

Hopefully the Lords can slow this bill down long enough for zealous enthusiasm to wane long enough for some much needed caution to kick in for another 23 MPs.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:54

InWalksBarberalla · 21/06/2025 11:48

That isn't true. It came in at different times in different states of Australia because healthcare is state based. It's been in effect in Victoria since 2019 because we went through the process with a family member (who ultimately decided not to use it).

If you read the full article you will see some of the problems with siting Australia.
as an example

InWalksBarberalla · 21/06/2025 11:55

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:54

If you read the full article you will see some of the problems with siting Australia.
as an example

Again I was responding to a PP who said it has gone bad everywhere. And correcting your dates.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:56

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 11:43

I was saying that the argument that we should, instead of allowing for assisted dying, provide it so that everyone can have gold standard palliative care does not hold water and is just wishful thinking. It is not a difficult decision - it is an impossible one.

The finances are not there and never will be - otherwise we would already have done it, when in reality we are a long way away from it as many stories on this forum will attest to.

Agree
Money in palliative care has been reduced over time rather than increased, particularly with more people needing it now.
I don’t believe that should be a reason to support assisted dying though
I believe that’s a reason to sort out the budget reflecting the needs of today

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:58

InWalksBarberalla · 21/06/2025 11:55

Again I was responding to a PP who said it has gone bad everywhere. And correcting your dates.

2023 is the correct date when it came into use in all the states it is in now. 2019 is not the full story and such a small Cohort as to make the analogy flawed. As the article states

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 12:02

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 11:56

Agree
Money in palliative care has been reduced over time rather than increased, particularly with more people needing it now.
I don’t believe that should be a reason to support assisted dying though
I believe that’s a reason to sort out the budget reflecting the needs of today

And that's my point, but no-one wants to see it or admit that it's true - there is no way of sorting out the budget so that we can have everything that we want as there simply isn't the money and resources.

We can all wish that it wasn't true, but we might as well start wishing for people to live forever, because that's about as likely to happen as everyone having the best palliative care.

Either we have some form of assisted dying, or we just have to admit that quite a lot of people are going to have to die in pain and misery and they just have to suck it up because we aren't giving them any choice about it.

TheWordWomanIsTaken · 21/06/2025 12:07

Can someone explain the by proxy element.
As I understand it the 'ill' person must make two signed declarations - but if they are unable to sign that declaration someone can sign on their behalf?
How will that work in practice and what would be the safeguards here to prevent a family member simply signing a declaration to have you killed.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 21/06/2025 12:07

Dying in pain, as has been the case through the entire history of the human species, could continue long enough to put a bill through that demonstrates care and attention to the issues of political recklessness on a societal level and coercion at an individual level.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 21/06/2025 12:12

Or, in other words, what will happen to the assisted dying numbers if a political party gets in and pulls up the drawbridge on welfare spending to appeal to the bulk of taxpayers? What safeguards are there in the bill to ensure that death isn't the desirable outcome to poverty in sickness?

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 21/06/2025 12:23

Maybe you have a lot of faith than I do in the 270ish forecasted and entirely unknown Reform MPs that we would see if voting intentions remain as they currently are or perhaps you think/ hope/ cross your fingers that they wouldn't/ couldn't water down notions of suffering as quickly as Leadbeater has marched this through parliament?

Theshsmpoo · 21/06/2025 12:27

Interesting trio to wake up to today, genetic testing of newborns, assisted dying and legalise all abortions.

Noodledog · 21/06/2025 12:30

SarfLondonLad · 21/06/2025 09:52

"For every one person who legitimately accesses the service, there will be thousands who feel coerced/pressured/obligated to kill themselves or have themselves killed."

Pure speculation.

As for your last paragraph, no human action "works out well" 100% of the time.

Discussion on the death penalty: it must never be brought back, one innocent person being killed outweighs any other arguments

Discussion on assisted death: people being killed who don't want to be? Meh, no human action works out well 100% of the time. shrugs

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 12:41

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 12:02

And that's my point, but no-one wants to see it or admit that it's true - there is no way of sorting out the budget so that we can have everything that we want as there simply isn't the money and resources.

We can all wish that it wasn't true, but we might as well start wishing for people to live forever, because that's about as likely to happen as everyone having the best palliative care.

Either we have some form of assisted dying, or we just have to admit that quite a lot of people are going to have to die in pain and misery and they just have to suck it up because we aren't giving them any choice about it.

So
You are saying this is ‘partly’ a financial decision.

I, however, don’t believe something like this should ever be in any way based on finances.
I do believe if this was a more expensive route to dying the bill wouldn’t have been passed but MPs et all just don’t want to admit that.

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 12:42

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 12:41

So
You are saying this is ‘partly’ a financial decision.

I, however, don’t believe something like this should ever be in any way based on finances.
I do believe if this was a more expensive route to dying the bill wouldn’t have been passed but MPs et all just don’t want to admit that.

Reality isn't really concerned with what we believe I'm afraid.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 12:45

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 12:42

Reality isn't really concerned with what we believe I'm afraid.

Tbh. It all feels like your username……so apt

NewspaperTaxis · 21/06/2025 13:11

Tiredofwhataboutery · 21/06/2025 09:51

Do you need to overcome every objection when debating / enacting law? Nothing would ever get done. A vocal minority objecting shouldn’t mean that the will of the majority is overruled.

No, guess you don't need to if you want the law to go through, and it has.

Bit chilling though, I've acknowledged your concerns, you don't acknowledge mine.

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 13:17

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 12:45

Tbh. It all feels like your username……so apt

What can I say? The despair is more because so many people think that wishful thinking is what will solve all of our problems.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/06/2025 13:25

OnlyDespairRemains · 21/06/2025 13:17

What can I say? The despair is more because so many people think that wishful thinking is what will solve all of our problems.

With that I agree.
We, as a country, need to take a long hard look at ourselves and take more personal responsibility for the state we are in.
Every person can make a positive contribution and should

Puzzledandpissedoff · 21/06/2025 14:13

Tiredofwhataboutery · 21/06/2025 09:51

Do you need to overcome every objection when debating / enacting law? Nothing would ever get done. A vocal minority objecting shouldn’t mean that the will of the majority is overruled.

Are the counless healthcare professionals who oppose this beecause the safeguards aren't adequate a "vocal minority", or are they the very people who are experienced enough in such matters to be listened to?

And what about "It'll have to be agreed by a court" which was so widely trumpeted when the proposal was first made but has since been quietly scrapped?

Funny how there's been no response from the "pros" to my mentioning this upthread, but no more than I'd expect