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ADHD-inattentive

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Island77 · 12/06/2025 09:26

Hi everyone šŸ‘‹

I’m late-diagnosed (47 yrs old) ADHD-Inattentive (and likely AuDHD) — creative type, sensitive, and very cycle-aware. I’m about to start ADHD med titration (atomoxetine suggested), but I also deal with hormonal mood swings, probably PMDD, and have a hormonal coil that’s coming out soon. On HRT with Estrogel and after coil comes out then, also (a more body-identical Progesterone )

I’m torn — I want better focus and energy, but I’m scared of flatness, losing my creativity, or worsening emotional spirals.

Would love to hear from anyone with a similar neurodivergent/hormonal mix — how did meds go for you? Did you wait until things felt more stable, or start anyway?

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LoveSandbanks · 12/06/2025 09:50

Diagnosed at 56. On meds for around the last three months. DEFINITELY stabilised my moods but I don’t think there’s ā€œflatnessā€. Gives me the space to focus on the creative tasks I want to do. I wouldn’t class myself as creative but I do enjoy sewing.

Island77 · 12/06/2025 12:31

LoveSandbanks · 12/06/2025 09:50

Diagnosed at 56. On meds for around the last three months. DEFINITELY stabilised my moods but I don’t think there’s ā€œflatnessā€. Gives me the space to focus on the creative tasks I want to do. I wouldn’t class myself as creative but I do enjoy sewing.

hiya, thanks for reacting. Which meds are you on ?They want me to start on Amoxetine, its the non-stimulant. Looking for some info/experiences from people

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LoveSandbanks · 12/06/2025 15:46

NICE guidelines suggest that a stimulant medication is the first line and generally more effective than non stimulant

i take elvanse, i was a bit spaced out for a couple of days during titration but otherwise its fine.

Island77 · 14/06/2025 12:07

LoveSandbanks · 12/06/2025 15:46

NICE guidelines suggest that a stimulant medication is the first line and generally more effective than non stimulant

i take elvanse, i was a bit spaced out for a couple of days during titration but otherwise its fine.

Thanks !!
i think for me as a audhd-inattentive, i understand they prescribed atomoxetine. An non stimulant. And a bit gentler than the stimulant varieties.
I wonder whether with the changes going on in my body hormonally speaking, its better to ā€˜wait’ untill the dust settles, and my coil + HRT has gone past its spikes, to introduce a new med into the mix.
Otherwise there is so much going on at once, thatI wouldn’t be able to tell, if that makes sense !

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