If you could go back 10 years

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What would you tell yourself....
I would say do not marry him. You've not wom anything. He'll dictate your life for a long time to come. Also don't get married in the middle of a mental health episode.

Move home.

There's a global pandemic coming.

Also don't worry about what other people think. And think carefully did I really want a child or did I do it because everyone expected it?

Trust that niggle that your DC is perhaps neurodiverse, learn more about it and do something about it before high school!

I'd say be kinder to yourself and encourage DH to do the same. You have both got a big parenting challenge on your hands. You need to train like for a marathon!

Also, stop doing the pick me dance with your sister and mum. They've got their own issues. Look elsewhere for support.

Also stop eating so much cheese.

Keep doing what you’re doing, it’s allll good!

(I didn’t keep up the health and fitness and wish I had! Other than that everything has turned out beautifully so far, so wouldn’t change much!)