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My cat went missing when shall I get another cat?

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Lumpar · 27/05/2025 08:58

My cat went missing 3 months ago and we have no idea what happened to her. We have done everything possible to find her but she has vanished.
My partner misses having a cat around so much he suggested we get another.
I had in mind I will wait 6 months or more then get 2 cats not 1 as I feel the cats would be happier and it would be easier.
Should I continue to wait or just go ahead and get a kitten? Should I get 1 or 2? I am still hoping my missing cat could turn up as she is chipped.

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LadyMonicaBaddingham · 27/05/2025 13:30

Two kittens is definitely better and kinder than one, especially if they will be alone for parts of the day while you work. I suspect, after three months, that it (sadly) is unlikely that your beloved cat will return so I think it's time to move on.

Swampdonkey123 · 27/05/2025 13:44

I think it depends on whether you could manage 3 if it came to it? If so there is no reason to wait.

Mumofteenandtween · 27/05/2025 14:04

From my life experience - the day before you want your original cat to stroll into your house like nothing has happened!

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viques · 27/05/2025 14:09

Mine came back the day after I contacted the local cat rescue to offer all her bits and bobs! I then felt obliged to give them a compensatory donation instead, but I didn’t mind, was so pleased to see her again.

@Lumpar I do feel for you, it is an awful feeling having that empty space. Lots of rescues are happy to rehome cats in pairs, often siblings , or a mum with one of her kittens. I would go for a slightly older pair because I don’t think I could cope with kittens! Good luck with your search, I look forward to the cat tax payment ( photo) when they arrive.

Lumpar · 27/05/2025 16:46

I am currently in a 2 bed flat but I'm going to move to a bigger house this year.
I think my old cat would be fine with kittens as she was a very active, playful cat. The space would be tight at first with 3 but it would be temporary.
When I first got her she was so active my flat was virtually turned into a cat play center to keep her happy. I would imagine having 2 little ones, half the job is done already with their play?

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mondaytosunday · 27/05/2025 16:55

If you are going to move then I’d wait til you have before you get kittens.

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